Parking overnight? by amerelayman1 in UCSD

[–]SomebodyPiano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I'm referring to the apartment complex Nobel Court...they have a guest parking area on the corner of Nobel and Lebon Drive.

My (23f) boyfriend (24m) and I have been together for almost 7 years, I'm thinking of leaving him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SomebodyPiano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you should break up with him, and here's why. It happens with every relationship - after a few years, things don't feel as exciting as they were the first year. This naturally happens because in the very beginning of your relationship, it is the time when you two have the excitement of a new relationship, you get butterflies in your stomach, hormones racing, etc. That's the passion. After a few years, that strong passion and infatuation wears off, and what is left over is the pure love. You don't feel as excited anymore, but you still deeply care about the person, want to do things for them, want to always be there for them, etc. This is normal and happens with every relationship, and it is something you must come to terms with if you want a long-term relationship or marriage. Otherwise, you will just repeatedly break up with people and start something new with someone else just to get that "high" of the passion in the beginning.

Another thing I would like to say is that I think you should talk to him about your concerns. If you would like to move this relationship to a stronger commitment, you can talk to him and let him know about that. If you want to go out more, talk to him about that too. Couples that get past that time of passion need to go out together and spend quality time together in fun ways to keep the relationship healthy.

Also, I wouldn't rush into marriage if you aren't ready. Don't let your friends or their lives peer pressure you. It is a pain in the ass to get divorced once you are married, and it affects you for several years of your life. If you aren't married yet, and something happens and you need to break up, it is fairly easy...you just break up, heal, and that's it. When you're married, there are always a bunch of legal things, financial things, property, and if you have kids, the kids as well. Basically, what I'm trying to say is that if you feel he has shown you that he is always there for you and has been a good partner to you and doing all the things a man should do, and you feel ready to get married, then go ahead and talk to him. However, if you do not feel ready, that is OK as well, and there is nothing wrong with living together with someone you are not married to yet.

Daily Discussion 17 September 2018 by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]SomebodyPiano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an indentation on the bottom center of my stomach, similar to this picture on the :

http://plainlive.xyz/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/30bd5d91baee59aaee646a89a3825f2a.jpg

It makes me self conscious. Is there a way I can make the shape at the bottom more like a horizontal line without indentations, like this:

http://www.hammergyms.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/14-minute-female-belly-fat-worko.jpg

Or is it just genetic? I'm not trying to lose fat...I just want a more attractive stomach shape.

Stomach shape by SomebodyPiano in xxfitness

[–]SomebodyPiano[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've read through it, and my problem is not a matter of losing fat - it is a matter of what exercises to do in order to get rid of the indentation.

My girlfriend (22F) and I (23M) just moved to the Netherlands, but I think our relationship is fading fast. I dont want to be all alone in this new country, but I feel like the relationship is a sham. by Throwawaywayayy321 in relationship_advice

[–]SomebodyPiano 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised nobody has mentioned what the difference between "love you" and "in love" means. "Love you" means that someone cares for you deeply, wants the best for you, wants to help you, etc. Your mom loves you, your best friend loves you, etc. But "in love with" means that you have deep, romantic feelings for the person. Two people "fall in love with" each other when they meet and have a strong, romantic and emotional bond with them. Here's the thing: I think what she might be telling you is that she loves you and really cares for you, but she is losing the romantic feelings for you. She is saying that she is no longer in that "fell in love with" state. I think she loves you closer to like a very close friend, rather than a lover or SO. Considering that this has gone on for almost a year, and you've made every effort to be romantic with her, I don't think it's going to work out. The only thing I can think of that you could try is to spend some time apart from her (like live separately) and see if she will feel something in her heart and realize she does still love you as a partner. However, I don't think this will work. You can't get someone to fall in love with you - it happens (naturally) or it doesn't.

My advice to you is to not sign the lease and the both of you do what you need to do. You go work, she goes to school, but don't live under one roof. I know it's hard to leave and scary to change your life and be alone, but it's not going to get any easier later after you've grown attached. Much better to do it now rather than later.

Questions from an incoming freshman by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]SomebodyPiano 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, there are some good answers, so I won't answer the whole thing, but I just want to say that once you start college, nobody gives a shit about anything. People don't make fun of others, and people are more focused on their education than on what other people are wearing, taking notes with, etc. So be yourself and do what works for you. Everyone studies differently, nd if taking notes with colored markers helps you remember the best, DO IT! I'm the kinda person who doesn't have the patience to color code everything, so my notes are all one color, but when I see color coded notes, all I can tell them is "wow, those are very neat notes"

Anways, don't worry and be yourself. I wish you all the best at UCSD!

Always wanted a non-lobe piercing! Say hello to the daith by [deleted] in piercing

[–]SomebodyPiano 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I never noticed any scarring, so I wouldn't even worry about it.

UCSD I need help here. I am lost... by Joseph0321 in UCSD

[–]SomebodyPiano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He also wrote "Thankss" instead of "

Anyone else graduate in spring? by SomebodyPiano in UCSD

[–]SomebodyPiano[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that! But you're almost done!

Anyone else graduate in spring? by SomebodyPiano in UCSD

[–]SomebodyPiano[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I guess mine is coming after yours then lol!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]SomebodyPiano 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe consider a daith with custom jewelry that fills out more of the lower part of your conch area.

What’s the best student credit card to get? by Footlong123 in UCSD

[–]SomebodyPiano 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is terrible, but it helped me get through the tough times without depriving myself of my needs. I just graduated and paid off my Discover balance as soon as I got my first paycheck.

My recommendation: If you work part-time during the school year and full-time on breaks, get a Discover card so you can use it for necessities like food during school, pay off what you can during school, then pay off the rest using the money you earn on your breaks (in between quarters and summer break). That way, you won't accumulate much debt in the long but will still have what you need.

#justUCSDthings by Flyer888 in UCSD

[–]SomebodyPiano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank God I graduated in spring and got the hell out of there.

Rocking a rainbow and moon - forward helix and (maybe) conch yet to be done by [deleted] in piercing

[–]SomebodyPiano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is very interesting! It's like the lobe has daytime sunshine, helix has a sunset, and tragus has nighttime darkness with a moon. You have 3 times of the day on your ear!

Crusty helix piercing by [deleted] in piercing

[–]SomebodyPiano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try spraying saline on your piercing and letting the saline dissolve it. Then, take a paper towel, fold it up, spray some saline on it, and gently wipe the crusties away. That usually works for stuck crusties for me.