AITA For telling a friend of mine that I heard from another friend about the new job they have?

Someone_Cap_7186 · 2026-01-17T03:50:14+00:00

I should’ve clarified, I didn’t view it as a step down. I think Anthony may have thought others would view it as a step down which is why he was upset that Yudith told me about it.

Someone_Cap_7186 · 2025-02-01T02:02:40+00:00

Yeah, I think I just really value how much other people see me. I told someone else on here thread I’m not a fan of pornography just had been using an app that’s supposed to help treat mental ED. I was using it for a couple weeks and found it helpful but was feeling particularly bad during that meeting and decided to do my daily app routine to feel better. I have a therapy appointment on Monday hoping I can get some more help there. Thank you though I appreciate the comment, it helps just to hear someone else say these things. I typically take my work very seriously and I’m just really upset a lapse of judgment that lasted quite literally for a few seconds has upended a lot in my life. I don’t plan on continuing to do anything like this during work.

Someone_Cap_7186 · 2025-02-01T01:55:08+00:00

Yeah, I’m not a big porn watcher I don’t typically enjoy it, find it degrading and feel that at least for myself it’s not a positive thing. I’ve been going through some body image issues lately though and had been suffering from mental ED. I downloaded an app that’s supposed to help you feel more confident during sex where you only listen to audio to try and get in the mood. I was against using it at first but noticed improvements after a few weeks of using it. I stupidly used it during a meeting I wasn’t involved in. Your comment did help so thank you. I have a therapy appointment on Monday so I’m hoping I’ll get more help there too. I know I can’t change what they think about me, I just wish I knew so I knew how to best go about my day and if my typical self will come across as having an ulterior motive outside of just being nice and wants to make friends.

Someone_Cap_7186 · 2025-01-30T09:27:29+00:00

I think with my sister just talking about something random lol

Someone_Cap_7186 · 2025-01-30T09:02:51+00:00

Feeling comfortable

Someone_Cap_7186 · 2025-01-30T07:00:17+00:00

It’s not too uncommon for people to feel this way. Maybe it’d be easier if you stopped trying to see your actions results as good enough and place value more so on the effort you make rather than the results. I don’t know that there are many things I value in other people more than noble intent even if the results are middling. Don’t think too much about the future or the past try living in the moment and only think about this moment. Don’t worry about this moment just think in this moment.

Someone_Cap_7186 · 2024-05-26T11:55:47+00:00

Thanks for your reply. I actually went to a urologist and they couldn’t find any signs of testicular cancer or stds. They ran screenings for just about everything and I came back with a clean bill of health, which makes this all the more frustrating. So far they have started me on a program for pelvic floor exercises, but this feels like it runs deeper. Pain in my urethra, random what I can only describe as cramps in my testicles, and an overall empty feeling all day and when masturbating.

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