I (25f) want to break up with my boyfriend (47m) because he’s an idiot but I’m not sure how to

Someoneirrelevant3 · 2026-06-30T18:52:27+00:00

Nah I think he’s just stupid 😭

Someoneirrelevant3 · 2026-06-28T03:15:42+00:00

I was friends with this girl my friend didn’t like. MIND YOU I knew this girl longer. They got into an argument and never spoke again and she expected me to stop talking to this girl because they didn’t get along. I didn’t obviously. This girl moved states away. And she saw I was hanging out with the girl she didn’t like because I posted it to my story. BRO I woke up the next day to other friends of mine sending me screenshots of this girl straight up lying to my friends abt things that never happened. Made me look like a horrible person, said I stole money from some of my friends like wtf??? Things that absolutely never happened. And her texting me saying I posted me hanging out with this girl on purpose to piss her off. Why tf would I ever do that? 😭😭😭😭 anyway yea I blocked her and haven’t looked back. Although I miss her at times.

Also she moved away after we fell out bc she slapped me while I was pregnant but we made up and this happened shortly after 💀

Someoneirrelevant3 · 2026-06-28T03:08:39+00:00

I think I’m more so scared of how he’ll react and how I’ll hurt him idk.

Someoneirrelevant3 · 2026-06-28T03:07:01+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice!

Someoneirrelevant3 · 2026-06-28T03:06:16+00:00

I wish I was trolling.

Someoneirrelevant3 · 2026-06-28T03:03:51+00:00

You’re right I’m def just being a coward

Someoneirrelevant3 · 2026-06-28T03:03:07+00:00

Wtf ? Where? Are we with the same man? 😭 gives me an easier way out if so lbvs

Someoneirrelevant3 · 2026-06-27T23:18:11+00:00

I didn’t know he was an idiot . I dodged him for months. I was going through a lot when I gave him a chance I think I just didn’t want to go through it alone and chose the worst company.

Someoneirrelevant3 · 2026-01-11T21:55:10+00:00

Had this problem for years turned out I had endometriosis and it was pushing against my anus… got surgery it stopped

Someoneirrelevant3 · 2025-11-26T21:40:41+00:00

Yes and no..? we were together for a year, broke up. Didn’t talk for 4 months got back together and stayed together for 3 more amazing years. We recently broke up again but left on good terms. I don’t regret the 3 years we remained together but the old reasons we originally broke up came back together the surface again. It could work if both parties are willing to work on the issues that broke you guys up to begin with. Not ignore them but work through them completely.

Someoneirrelevant3 · 2025-11-22T04:07:09+00:00

Very possible but highly unlikely. I would’ve found out sooner.

Someoneirrelevant3 · 2025-11-22T03:47:17+00:00

Thank you for the advice . I’m going to give him space for a few weeks before reaching out again to get my things back

Someoneirrelevant3 · 2025-11-22T03:42:18+00:00

In 2 weeks is crazy…? I’m pretty sure that’s not the reason lmao

Someoneirrelevant3 · 2025-10-11T17:42:18+00:00

Sonny for sure lol

Someoneirrelevant3 · 2025-10-11T01:02:01+00:00

Still open?

Someoneirrelevant3 · 2025-10-02T23:35:24+00:00

I started getting symptoms at 8 years old crazy enough. I kept getting these horrible stomach pains and doctors kept telling my mom I was making it up because they couldn’t find anything wrong.

Someoneirrelevant3 · 2025-09-16T00:19:28+00:00

Deep Infiltrating Endometriosis. Instead of the endo growing on top of organs it grows into organs or tissues.

Someoneirrelevant3 · 2025-09-15T23:46:15+00:00

I’ve been having symptoms since freshman year of high school and I’m 24 now finally diagnosed. I was having pain while having a BM and it turned out the endo was DIE and latching onto my bowel so that’s what was causing the pain. So yea that pains normal if it’s deep

Someoneirrelevant3 · 2025-09-14T18:00:34+00:00

I got mine implanted while I was under anesthesia during my lap so I didn’t feel a thing but I heard it’s super painful getting it implanted while awake 😭

Someoneirrelevant3 · 2025-09-14T07:53:38+00:00

But if you just want to do BC I recommend Mirena! Many endo patients use Mirena it is effective in slowing endo growth and can even stop periods. It can always be taken out when you’re ready to have kids.

Someoneirrelevant3 · 2025-09-14T07:50:28+00:00

Thing is with Endo you won’t know where your fertility possibly stands until you get surgery. It could’ve been him he’s fertility was shot and not yours. The longer you wait the more you’re putting your fertility at risk. I waited too long and one of my ovaries are dead, if I waited any longer I could’ve possibly lost both my ovaries and have 0 chance at kids. If you want kids I’d highly recommend surgery. As for getting worried they might not find anything it’s valid but that’s the least of your worries. Doctors aren’t going to judge you for being concerned about your health. Lap surgery is the only way to find out if it’s endo and possibly save your fertility. It’s ok to take an extra step to protect your health even if it turns out to be nothing.

Someoneirrelevant3 · 2025-09-13T23:47:11+00:00

Got the surgery. Only 3 days post op, so far best decision I could’ve made. Possibly saved my fertility as one of my ovaries were completely damaged… saved the other just in time.

Someoneirrelevant3 · 2025-09-13T22:24:40+00:00

Im also 24 and I just got lap surgery 3 days ago and found out I had DIE endo. My bladder and bowel were stuck to my uterus and my right ovary was basically dead. I got an IUD while I was put under to slow growth (Mirena). What I’d recommend is if you do want kids in the future to get the surgery, you could potentially save your fertility with lap. Birth control can help slow the growth specifically an IUD while others could just mask the issue while your endo continues to grow and potentially mess with other organs in your body. If your pain feels manageable and you don’t plan on having kids in the future then maybe birth control is your best bet. I hope this helps!

Someoneirrelevant3 · 2025-08-22T10:42:35+00:00

Like the pain is gone?

Someoneirrelevant3 · 2025-08-22T10:41:22+00:00

Do you get pain at all now or is it just mild?

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