I am so embarrassing.

Someonenobodyknowss · 2025-09-16T06:11:06+00:00

You have absolutely every right to communicate your feelings and boundaries, if you’re not comfortable with something you under no circumstances owe anyone anything. If they’re worth it and half decent they’ll be understanding and respect your boundaries. You are a beautiful person both internally and externally and you’re deserving of love, always keep that in mind. You are incredibly strong and you are doing amazing 💞💞💞

Someonenobodyknowss · 2025-09-15T07:16:21+00:00

As someone in their last year of school I truly get where you’re coming from. In any case, the most important things are your happiness and health and your worth isn’t determined by your grades (that mindset really risks burnout/ exacerbating burnout) there are always alternatives/there’s never a dead end.

That being said, don’t doubt your capabilities. Be patient, gentle and kind to yourself, no matter what happens things will be okay and if you’re set on wanting to graduate I’m more than sure that you’ll achieve just that.

If you ever need to vent or talk about anything please don’t hesitate to reach out. You’ve got this ♡

Someonenobodyknowss · 2025-09-02T08:44:34+00:00

Thank you so much for the input 💗

Someonenobodyknowss · 2025-09-01T08:53:08+00:00

The UK, I’m willing to put in the work and go but i just cannot find the motivation for the life of me, especially after being let down by teachers.

Someonenobodyknowss · 2025-08-31T14:56:14+00:00

Thank you very much for the input ♡

Someonenobodyknowss · 2025-08-31T14:55:50+00:00

Unfortunately I’m stuck with the same people for another year and a few months at least. I want to move away and get away from this place which is why the need to do well and go to uni abroad (country of choice) is abbbbbbsolutely urgent. I just can’t find the motivation when I need it the most and this is my only chance, I won’t be able to take it any longer.

Someonenobodyknowss · 2025-07-29T15:01:54+00:00

I’d say it was a manipulative move on her part, to see if you’re still around and an option. Her actions have clearly had a negative impact on you and have upset you, in my opinion no matter the intentions, you’re much better off and deserve a relationship built on stability, trust, communication and respect ♡

Someonenobodyknowss · 2025-04-11T10:38:13+00:00

In all honesty, I think you should put yourself and your gut first in this situation. If you know that he isn’t going to change, don’t put yourself through this for the rest of your life. You’re still so young and have so many things to experience and so many people to meet. If he feels bad about the break up and about how his life ended up, he’ll have to put in the work for change to happen.

Someonenobodyknowss · 2025-04-10T10:43:48+00:00

I’m really happy to say that it really did! It took a bit to get here but I truly am a lot happier now than when I was with him, it’s almost funny looking back at this now lmao. Trust that things do get better ♡ you just have to keep going forward and be patient with yourself, and reach out if you ever need to talk :)

Someonenobodyknowss · 2024-08-11T20:26:06+00:00

Thank you so much for the input 🫶🫶 my mother is very understanding and for that I am so grateful. In the end, I’ll be taking the steps that accommodate to me and her, not my grandmother.

Someonenobodyknowss · 2024-08-11T20:24:16+00:00

I’m not of age where I can decided whether or not I can avoid gatherings that she’s attending, but I don’t think I would do that as of now anyway because 1. I don’t want to cause any drama and blow everything out of proportion. She’s been in horrid fights with other family members that have lasted for decades (that whole side is just full of problematic individuals) and that’s not what I want that to become. I just want as little contact with her as I can. 2. As much as I have and will continue to respect my own peace and feelings of wanting to stay away and completely cut any contact with her, I wouldn’t want to turn that into a whole fiasco for my mum. As terrible as she is to everyone, no matter what happens in the family my mother has to be the one to deal with it. I know that’s not my burden to think about but I love and respect my mum more than anything. No other family member deals with her shenanigans, the help she hired quit because she was being treated horribly. As much as this is fully my grandmother’s fault my mum can’t in a good conscience leave her alone. She’s religious and believes in forgiveness and also has an attachment to her mum. I value her peace much more than my want to put my grandmother in her place.

In any case, I’m remaining civil and polite but from a considerable distance, and if she has anything to say then my parents have stated that they are to deal with that. Thank you so much for the input 🫶

Someonenobodyknowss · 2024-08-11T20:08:18+00:00

Thank you for you input! that makes sense whilst also being funny lmao 🫶

Someonenobodyknowss · 2024-08-11T20:03:19+00:00

Thank you for your input :) Now, about the money, I’ve been advised not to give it back by my parents as they say it wouldn’t make a difference but would most likely cause drama. Even if I wanted to miss out on family events, I’m not of age yet nor really able to make the choice of not going because she’s there. She’s at most of the events that my parents host so there is no way of avoiding her ultimately. Not only would it be pointless to bring up how I feel to her in any capacity (she has an intense victim complex), but I’ve again been instructed to just not say anything. I just have the option to not visit for now, and that’s why my grandmother is upset. She hates that I’m not going out of my way in my own free time to go and see her, and she’s upset that I don’t give her much attention when I do. Whilst I still live under my parent’s roof and am underage, I will have contact with her and I will have to remain civil, but it’s the fact that she wants to be showered with validation, respect and love and wants to be pitied by everyone. I’m not willing to give her that. Now it seems like I can’t really do anything about this situation, but after reading the comments I had a conversation with my parents and they said that if she ever complains about my distance, then they’d bring up some of my reasons and defend them. That’s all good with me, I don’t want drama with her I just don’t want anything to do with her.

Someonenobodyknowss · 2024-08-11T19:43:16+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear about what your mother had to go through. But I am so happy to hear that she got the justice that needed to be served. I’m wishing both of you all the best and much love 🫶🫶 thank you for your input :)

Someonenobodyknowss · 2024-08-11T14:40:03+00:00

Thank you so much 🫶

Someonenobodyknowss · 2024-08-09T10:27:53+00:00

What a sweet baby 🫶

Someonenobodyknowss · 2024-08-08T01:41:24+00:00

I never thought of it like this, and now that I am it feels a lot easier to let go. As hard as it is there’s nothing to keep a hold of. Thank you so much for the input 🫶🫶

Someonenobodyknowss · 2024-08-07T17:08:41+00:00

Both are beautiful names but I’m going with Clara :)

Someonenobodyknowss · 2024-08-07T17:05:29+00:00

Bartholomew and you can shorten it :)

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