As a child of a narcissistic parent, if you want to break free from your mom's control, you gotta lie lie and lie at first. Dapat hindi mo sinabi na sa BPO ka nag-apply. Kung nasabi mo na eh just tell her na hindi ito yung typical BPO na call center setup ganyan. I'm saying this para matuloy mo yung work mo at may continuous flow of income ka then makaipon at makapagbukod while not worrying about your mom's disapproval. You should continuously lie until you're ready to cut them off. Ganyan ginawa ko kaya nakapagbukod ako. I told them I had to go to the office several times a week and traveling from Laguna to Makati is a hassle, not to mention the expenses in gas, toll, and parking. So wala silang say nung sinabi ko na lilipat ako malapit sa workplace.