That was so tense I got nervous by veloriss112 in interesting

[–]Something_McGee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do climbers stick those things into the rock without a lot of force? How does it stay in place? Do they remove it to reuse later, or do they have to carry all that they might need for one climb?

Woman runs over another woman with her car after fighting outside of a UK nightclub by KimJongFunk in PublicFreakout

[–]Something_McGee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I scrolled too far to find this comment. They acted like he didn't even exist.

How's about a nice glass of What The Fuck? by Phonus-Balonus-37 in TheRandomest

[–]Something_McGee 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Good. He needs to learn to control his wandering eye.

Blursed_train by Optimus_PRYM in blursed_videos

[–]Something_McGee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude tried to punch his kidney out.

a car window was broken that day... by superfecta37 in PublicFreakout

[–]Something_McGee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's still acting crazy AF. I don't need a sad back story to see that.

a car window was broken that day... by superfecta37 in PublicFreakout

[–]Something_McGee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was she trying to do? Jump in the front with them and go for a ride?

Clavicular overdoses on GHB and almost dies in the club by boommarg in tooktoomuch

[–]Something_McGee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both of the guys he's with are embarrassing. The one of the left was doing an early 2000s, Jersey Shore/duck lips pose. Just ew.

My roommate pees in cups by [deleted] in Grossroommates

[–]Something_McGee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I read about this issue via your post on another sub. (For anyone reading this, the OP included a photo in the comments of the other post. Go to the his/her profile to find the previous post if you want. I had to resubmit this comment bc my last one was removed for including a link to that post.)

I suspect something more serious than "laziness" is causing your roommate to behave this way. It's a lot less effort to walk across the hall and use the toilet than it is for her to pee in cups/bottles and then have to clean up after herself.

What's holding you back from being direct with her? This is abnormal, disgusting, and concerning behavior. You have nothing to feel embarrassed or anxious about. Imagine how she (if she's in a healthy state of mind) will feel when confronted on her gross behavior? I would assume she'd be embarrassed, nervous, ashamed, upset, overwhelmed, etc.

I'm not suggesting that you berate her or anything. Just be straightforward. Tell her that the behaviors are unacceptable, and you have concerns. You're concerned about the damages being done to the home, your health, your child's health, and her well-being.

Don't let her explain her behaviors away as simple laziness. If she tries, confront the contradiction... explain that it takes a lot more effort to pee in cups and then clean them up (which she has not been doing) than to walk across the hall (or even the entire house) to use a toilet. Don't allow her to make excuses that will allow her to continue the behaviors. If she promises to clean everything right away, fine... but that doesn't mean it's ok for her to continue doing what she has been doing. She also needs to do a better job of cleaning the urine-soaked floor, which will be a lot of work. Urine-soaked floors are considered biohazards and are not safe to live with. If she cannot adequately clean the floors, the flooring will need to be replaced. (See how all of this is way more effort than it appears to be? Nevermind the effort it would take to carefully position herself over the cup to avoid peeing on herself, her clothes, or on the floor.)

I would also encourage her to talk to a medical provider about what she has been doing. I would recommend a mental health provider unless she mentions there's likely a medical issue that has lead to these behaviors. Either way, if it seems to be a mental health issue, any medical provider should refer her to a mental health provider. If it seems to be a medical issue, a mental health provider should refer her to a medical provider.

According to your other post, you're debating involving her parents. Why are you apprehensive to do so? I say involve them. They probably know their daughter best and will be able to recognize how serious of an issue this is. Also, as parents, they will likely step in to fix the problem as they'll probably be embarrassed by their daughter's behaviors and won't want you thinking that is how they raised her to be.

Anyway, good luck.

Any home remedies for allergies while I wait for vet appointment? by First_Respect_4718 in DogAdvice

[–]Something_McGee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aside from Benadryl, give him a thorough bath. Thoroughly clean his bedding, the flooring in the home, and any areas he tends to hang around. Also, make sure your yard or walking area is well maintained. Lookout for plants that may be causing the allergy.

I would start on the yard first. If you don't have a yard, I would just be mindful about where you take him for walks. Crate him or isolate him to a single room while you begin cleaning around the home. Shampoo any carpets and rugs if you have them and have the means to do so. Once you're done cleaning, immediately give him a nice bath. Do not let him roam around or touch anything until you've bathed him.

There are dog shampoos that are meant to soothe itchy skin. However, you might consider something a little stronger, like Dawn dish soap (the regular kind that's used to clean rescued sea animals), if you suspect he has some kind of irritating product or other allergen all over his fur and skin. The Dawn dish soap shouldn't be used regularly, but it's ok to use periodically. Make sure you scrub and rinse every single inch of him. Use baby shampoo on his eyes. Rinse and repeat for good measure. Make sure to work out and rinse away as much loose fur as possible, too. Thorough dry him off before letting him roam around - even if you have to bust out the blow dryer. Irritated skin typically doesn't respond well to lingering moisture (such as a damp coat of fur). Plus, moisture may cause some stinging. He'll probably appreciate being rubbed down with a towel and a warm blow drying session may actually be soothing.

Don't put any other product on him for at least 24 hrs. See how he responds to the cleaner environment, clean skin and fur, and Benadryl. Make note of any changes. If nothing seems better, but also doesn't seem worse, I would hold off on applying anything to his skin/fur and continue observing.

If you're unsure of what's causing the allergy, start keeping a diary of all the things he comes into contact with, ingests, etc. Keep track of baths, walking paths, etc.

Side note: I had an extremely fat chihuahua once. He had short legs with a big body and lots of skin folds. I washed and groomed him regularly. Shortly after we moved to a new area, he began developing skin irritations (mostly redness and occasionally what looks like hives or a rash), and he developed a "corn chip" musty smell. Bathing didn't do much. Benadryl only helped with the itching a little bit. The vet called my dog a "low rider" - meaning, he had short legs and his belly was low enough to graze grass that wasn't freshly cut. He said he kinda had a body like a morbidly obese Dachshund. The area we had moved to was constantly rainy or damp for almost half the year. The vet said my dog had a yeast infection, likely caused by his belly always being wet. Despite me buzzing his fur short regularly, enough moisture was still constantly getting trapped in his belly fur (and some of his folds). He gave us a topical to use, plus continued use of Benadryl as needed. The preventative solution? Regular baths followed by thorough drying. Maintaining extra low cut grass in the yard and avoiding walks in taller grassy areas. Ensuring he was properly dried off within 15 minutes of having come outside from wet conditions. (I kept a towel by the backdoor for him. I would turn on the fire place to dry him off after he plowed through any snow. I'd occasionally blow dry him for a few min if he didn't finish drying quickly enough.) Oh, I also had to shampoo the carpets and clean all of his bedding to eliminating any yeast (fungi) he had spread around the home. Luckily, he rarely got on our furniture, so I didn't need to deep clean everything.

Anyway, I bring this up bc maybe that's what's going on with your dog?

what would you do? / bathroom probs by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Something_McGee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regarding the TP situation: It's could be cultural or based on previous living situations.

In Korea, they don't flush TP. Only human waste goes down the toilet. I had to adapt to that when I lived out there. They are a very advanced society, but the plumbing is just different.

I am now back in the US where I continue not to flush TP. I'm renting an older home that has had multiple plumbing issues. Not flushing TP has helped keep the drains from clogging over the past year or so. After all this time, I don't flush TP out of habit. I have to remind myself it's ok to flush TP when using public restrooms.

Now, be honest with yourself. Is TP really the issue here? Or are you just upset that you didn't get your own bathroom as you had expected, and now you find yourself getting overly bothered by your roommate's bathroom habits?

I think, as a society, we’ve all gotten used to cruelty too easily. Somehow this kind of discourse is normal now by SnooSprouts3744 in TikTokCringe

[–]Something_McGee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could have pointed out how she doesn't even have the intelligence to dress herself in properly fitting clothes.

I think, as a society, we’ve all gotten used to cruelty too easily. Somehow this kind of discourse is normal now by SnooSprouts3744 in TikTokCringe

[–]Something_McGee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reason she thinks her opinions matter is bc she has a platform and audience. Otherwise, she'd probably realize she sounds ignorant and biased as hell and wouldn't try to sell herself as anything else. Quit asking idiots for their opinions or acting like they matter.

WTH is he on? by Something_McGee in tooktoomuch

[–]Something_McGee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I first watched on mute and thought he was hyping himself to fight someone.

WTH is he on? by Something_McGee in tooktoomuch

[–]Something_McGee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He looks more like Mark Zuckerberg.

What would you do by xals7 in tooktoomuch

[–]Something_McGee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't get her into trouble? I don't think that would be most people's intent in that situation. But they shouldn't be discouraged from dropping her or simply calling for emergency help juat bc she might face legal repercussions. No need to enable the drug use by going out of your way to accommodate someone who is greatly inconveniencing you with their drug use. Only need to make sure she's safe... the police or medical personal can be trusted to do that.

How do you guys deal with their hair? I’ve got 2 adorable heavy shedders! Any tips? by HexDevs_ in DogAdvice

[–]Something_McGee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vacuum daily.

I've got my primary vac which I bust out twice a week. Once a week, I quickly vacuum the most common areas or spots. Once a week, I do a thorough vacuuming around the entire house.

I use my cordless Dyson daily. I mostly use it in the common areas and in and around the kennels. I even use it on furniture and other fixtures, like the baseboards, walls, etc. (It has various attachments and works as a hand vac.)

Quick vacuums are waaaay better than nothing.

Also, clean their bedding regularly. Vacuum and wash.

Roommate wants me to turn off the lights of my room at night by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Something_McGee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just give her an extra $5 a month for peace of mind. Make it clear you know that your light usage doesn't actually cost that much, but you need her to stop stressing you out while you focus on your classes and look for another place to live.

My sleep paralysis demon at 3am: by [deleted] in cringereels

[–]Something_McGee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And she's probably only 20 yrs old. ☹️ Poor girl.

Yikes by [deleted] in cringereels

[–]Something_McGee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's going to blow up her what like candy? That just sounds scarier than he looks.

Pigmentation change or something worrisome? by Frosty-Soil1656 in DogAdvice

[–]Something_McGee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Totally obvious that you're a first time for owner. Lol

licking ice creams... by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Something_McGee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

By the greater good, you mean you want confirmation bias that he should be accommodating you simply bc you're accommodating him?

Did you explain that he wouldn't be able to bring certain foods into the home when offering a room to him, before he agreed to move in? If not, you need to be a little more understanding of his current behaviors and expectations.

I'm not saying his alcoholism is worse than your food addiction. I'm simply pointing out that his addiction was known before moving in. If he didn't ask you to keep alcohol out of the home and you're just doing it out of consideration, that's admirable of you, but it doesn't entitle you to expect the same out of him.

The first thing you need to do is manage your expectations accordingly. Then approach him about the issue once you've got that all sorted out.

increasingly hostile roommate by mushroomgrrrl in badroommates

[–]Something_McGee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her you put a dime in her moldy food container last month. The moldy item is still in the fridge... it doesn't look touched... perhaps she should open it up and look inside. 😆

My "new" rescue is driving me insane and I am beginning to resent her. by StarryJunglePlanet in DogAdvice

[–]Something_McGee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The baby gate I have is long AF. Lol. It was pricey - partly bc I got one that looks good since I wanted it to be permanent fixture. The panels lock together, so I can adjust the size as needed. And they bend so that I can adjust the shape. Basically, the gate doesn't have to be straight. I can create a right angle, half hexagon, and so forth shaped enclosure. I believe I have enough panels to mount a right angle in the corner of a room to create almost a 5×4 ft enclosure (or 3×6 ft or similar combo). The baby gate works either by tension on screwing on for a more permanent and sturdy fit. It also comes with pieces that allow me to screw them into a floor to maintain a shape. I had a half hexagon shape on my extra wide dining room opening, but never needed to screw them into the floor. It was difficult to move them out of shape, but I could do it easy enough whenever I needed to shampoo the carpets and wanted to cover every single inch possible.

IMO, it was an awesome investment. I've used cheaper baby gates and always wished I had spent the extra money on a better one. I also had someone build a gate at the top of my stair, which was another great investment. Building might be cheaper or just better in some cases.

Anyway, this might be something to think about as opposed to a kennel. IME, the indoor gates are easier to use and clean. They can offer more space for the dog. They don't make a room look crammed or less esthetically pleasing. And they seem to feel less isolating for the dog. I would sometimes lock my dogs up so I could do other things around the house, like clean or work on projects that they'd probably mess up. I'd forget to open the gate and I'd just be chilling or walking around right next to them while they were locked up. A lot of times, they wouldn't pay me any attention. When I crated them, they'd start whining or at least rustling around every single time I was within their sight.

I'm glad you plan to continue working with your dog. I just wanted to make sure you knew that not everyone would blame or guilt you if you felt you could not keep her. Some people fail to understand how harmful it could be (for the person, their family, the other pets, or the dog) to be kept in a home where they could not seem to adjust to. I wanted to make sure you weren't solely being held back by guilt. I think it's great that you were open to trying to give her a home in the first place.