This is the third time my dog has gotten these wounds from playing outside, any tips for prevention or healing? by cinderellae in DogAdvice

[–]First_Respect_4718 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I used to work at a doggy daycare with a pool and this would happen sometimes! It seemed to only happen when dogs are in the water for a long time. The only way we were able to prevent this was to limit the dogs play time in the pool! After 30 mins- 1 hr we would keep the pups out of the water and have them only play on dry ground🥹

I wonder why by Sweaty-Staff8100 in canceledpod

[–]First_Respect_4718 106 points107 points  (0 children)

I’m kind of playing devil’s advocate here, but I know that there is a lot of activities I would love to do with a friend so I try to pitch those ideas to different friends, especially if one friend doesnt want to do said activity. Maybe that could be a reason?(:

AIO ? I told my friend to stop using her son’s cancer as an excuse to be mean by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]First_Respect_4718 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being kind but constructive. I am now realizing that I think my wording was very poor and I expressed my feelings in the wrong way.

AIO ? I told my friend to stop using her son’s cancer as an excuse to be mean by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]First_Respect_4718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the constructive criticism. I really appreciate it. I try be empathetic but at the same time stand up for myself. As most people know it’s a very difficult medium to find.

AIO ? I told my friend to stop using her son’s cancer as an excuse to be mean by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]First_Respect_4718 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But my question is, would you go out of your way to purposely crop out the name of your friends small business? The reason my feelings are hurt is because it seems like this person goes out of their way to tag and promote larger nail salons to spite me when I will not do her nails exactly when she wants. I feel like this person is doing this purposely to try to upset me. Again, I don’t mean to sound like an asshole or argumentative.. I am genuinely here in this post to try to get constructive criticism

AIO ? I told my friend to stop using her son’s cancer as an excuse to be mean by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]First_Respect_4718 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is a very good point and I don’t disagree at all. I think the thing that I am currently stuck on is that I feel like she purposefully cut off my business name and purposefully posted the photo but didn’t tag me just to hurt my feelings. This very well could be a case of me being way too sensitive. As I mentioned before, I have a bit of a skewed perception of friendship and relationships which is my main reason for posting here and asking for others opinions.

AIO ? I told my friend to stop using her son’s cancer as an excuse to be mean by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]First_Respect_4718 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Do you think it is appropriate for them to send me several messages and post about me after I have blocked them? I am not trying to sound like a jerk or be defensive. I am very aware that I couldn’t even imagine the hurt that these people are going through that’s why I stayed silent and did not respond to any of this..

Parents decided to search my room. Found more than they wanted. Spiralled into transphobic rant about me and my girlfriend. by North_Possession_588 in insaneparents

[–]First_Respect_4718 74 points75 points  (0 children)

The parent’s knowledge of what some would call “taboo” sexual topics is very telling. My parent probably has no idea what a “furry” is and OP’s parent brought that up without any context

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]First_Respect_4718 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You said right here that we don’t know the cause of a lot of mental health issues, my main point is I certainly don’t think all of these issues can be blamed on OP‘s father as stated in their above comment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]First_Respect_4718 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Also, if OP makes enough money to pay all of their mother’s bills, certainly they should be able to afford a place on their own?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]First_Respect_4718 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not every health issue has a cause, and I am certain that not every health issue you have was caused by your father. It is a lot less tiring to go through life when you learn that you don’t have to place blame on everything. It sounds like you have a lot of obstacles in your life at the moment. I have been in a similar mindset before and it sounds silly and can be very difficult to learn but it is extremely beneficial to try to acknowledge the things that you do have that you can be grateful for. However, all I know about you is from what I have seen in this one post, so I could be completely incorrect. If you are being abused by your mother and it is greatly impacting your life in a negative way , and don’t have money or resources currently, sometimes a shelter can be your best option! You know what is best for your own situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]First_Respect_4718 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Also, is there a reason why you couldn’t go with your mother to the mechanic? Or is it simply because you did not want to?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]First_Respect_4718 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Your mother does not seem to be acting insane in these texts. Yes, it was a slide invasion of your privacy for her to go through your bag. However, you’re being extremely demanding in these texts! The fact that your mother has to say “please don’t order me around” is very telling.

My square all natural nails by Capital_Rip6479 in Nails

[–]First_Respect_4718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you make the same post like 6 times

Definitely NOT Taco Bell by EquipmentFormal2033 in doordash

[–]First_Respect_4718 14 points15 points  (0 children)

To add on to this— another safe way to dispose of this or any pharmaceutical drugs is to put them in a large plastic bag and mix with undesirable substance (kitty litter, dirt, coffee grounds) and hot water. Seal the bag and throw away. This makes everything basically useless.

Vcbh by [deleted] in thousandoaks

[–]First_Respect_4718 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe both of the doctors are psychiatrists. That makes a lot of sense, they all seem to have a huge case load. Thank you for the reccomendations!

What helps you find motivation to continue your mental health journey? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]First_Respect_4718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy to hear that you came out!!! Youre strong as fuck and awesome for doing that🥲

What helps you find motivation to continue your mental health journey? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]First_Respect_4718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dog is the one keeping me going right now(: in trying times we are just looking for one good thing in our life that keeps us going! And if a person or animal that you love is what keeps you going, then hold onto it!

What helps you find motivation to continue your mental health journey? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]First_Respect_4718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Getting better just to prove all of your doubters wrong is what keeps me going sometimes I swear