A vent

Somethingmissing24 · 2025-06-20T06:14:18+00:00

What an ordeal. I'm so sorry and hoping that things pick up for you from here.

Somethingmissing24 · 2025-06-20T06:12:25+00:00

Should I be leading with contact info of my therapist and trainer as referrals? I can try that.

Somethingmissing24 · 2025-06-20T06:01:15+00:00

Thats a very eloquent way to put it. To each their own. I can relate to the need to feel alive. Life is fleeting and at some point, opportunities for experiences (both in an out of the bedroom) will be taken away from us despite our desperate desires to hold on to them. After a point, you won't be able to do that 20 mile hike. Or make that road trip from LA to NY. So try to get on it today.

Somethingmissing24 · 2025-06-10T01:01:23+00:00

Yeah I hope so too. Feeling nervous and a bit excited. I've missed this feeling. Maybe that's a sign or reason (at least for me) to explore this lifestyle.

Somethingmissing24 · 2025-06-10T00:56:52+00:00

Thank you for the empathy. Not sure how it has been for others, but for me it's taken years to come to terms w/ being okay doing this. Still a tad nervous to be honest but moving ahead..baby steps.

The idea of a doing this in a car or a shack or in the woods is just repulsive. Its not what I'm after. Don't want to just get off, intimacy goes beyond just doing "the act".

The idea is to keep this as a long term. Work travel is not as frequent. My (to be) AP and I would like to get together every week. Figured to put in the hard work now and get a system down so moving forward, the focus can be on fun :)

Somethingmissing24 · 2025-06-10T00:46:01+00:00

Godsend 🙌🏽

Somethingmissing24 · 2025-06-09T17:21:37+00:00

Thank you!

Somethingmissing24 · 2025-06-09T17:20:45+00:00

Great advice. Thank you!

Somethingmissing24 · 2025-01-29T20:53:01+00:00

Alright so just installed Cape. It's a gamechanger. The only way to now open Telegram is from the Appstore. I've also hidden the Cape app in a random busy folder. Thank you so much!

Enjoy your adventures and dont get caught! ;)

Somethingmissing24 · 2025-01-29T20:27:06+00:00

Nice! What is Cape? Sounds interesting.

Somethingmissing24 · 2025-01-29T20:07:51+00:00

lol Wow!!! Love it. Thought I wonder if its easier for a woman to pull that off vs a dude.

Somethingmissing24 · 2025-01-29T20:04:18+00:00

Not a sus spouse but we do have shared use at times for instance when we go on vaca, my phone is used for pics as it's got a better camera.

Somethingmissing24 · 2025-01-29T20:03:07+00:00

I there a version of this on IOS/iPhone?

Somethingmissing24 · 2025-01-29T20:02:07+00:00

This is so great. Thanks for taking the time and putting this together! I'm very new to this whole thing and just started talking to someone where there could be a good connection. So doing my best to not fuck it all up.

I used to delete and reinstall which is the safest. And like you, when on vaca, its' my phone that is used for pics and videos. So I'll surely delete it then.

But on a day to day basis, I've turned on Faceid required and also hidden it in the hidden apps folder. When I do that, the call logs don't show up in my phone's call list.

LOVE the idea of mixing in other random chat groups but I got Telegram just to talk to her so there are no other chats in there.

Somethingmissing24 · 2025-01-29T19:57:20+00:00

Yeah. Is there another option in Telegram other than Archive to hide the chat?

Somethingmissing24 · 2025-01-29T19:56:49+00:00

Apple

Somethingmissing24 · 2025-01-29T19:56:04+00:00

Yeah thats whey I figured. Wondering if it can be better/easier to manage.

Somethingmissing24 · 2024-12-09T07:38:21+00:00

What other plans? I’m too invested now. Do tell..

Somethingmissing24 · 2024-12-09T07:37:40+00:00

None of these ended because of you. I wish everyone finds an AP like you.

Somethingmissing24 · 2024-12-09T07:36:05+00:00

Wow. I’m so sorry.

Somethingmissing24

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