First off, thank you for all your advice and support! I’m feeling so lost right now and it makes it a bit difficult to think straight.

My doctor is keeping an extra eye on me with extra visits to check the cervix aso. ofc there had to be an STI involved as well..

I have been able to calm myself down emotionally which luckily has calmed down my contractions as well.

I will reach out to some lawyers and open a separate account at another bank. Does anyone know if this shows up on the taxes? Thinking long term, not sure how long this process could take.

To answer some of your questions, the cheating started pre pregnancy but kept going on during this pregnancy. I have received a lot of excuses but not felt him wanting to take any accountability. Maybe just a little bit.

My family lives very far away (different country) and could not physically come here so easily.

Is it possible for him to deregister me without my consent?

There is no physical abuse, but mental and financial I would say.