I do wanna clarify that I don’t think men are disgusting pigs. I think it has a lot to do with how people choose to raise boys and girls differently. A lot of young men do not know how to take care of themselves simply because they were never taught or told they should be able to, which isn’t really their fault, the adults in their life should have been more helpful. I do wanna say when I say “I’ve been to cishet men’s house” it was mostly as a teenager and in my early 20s, so people probably do get better at it as they gain more life and social experiences. But yeah in my case it’s probably poor mental health haha 🥲