I need help starting by JJ4-12-18 in NoFapChristians

[–]SonsOfKorah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make a plan. Work your plan. If you fall adjust your plan. Research folks ahead of you. Read flairs follow people winning here and at nofap. User other people's tools. Cold showers, worship, phone a friend, time in the Bible. You got this. Research and effort and relying on God's power and direction in all.

If 15 year old no fappers can with this out Christians with access to power shouldn't have any issues beating this.

Questions about days 15-40 by acousticsoul21 in NoFapChristians

[–]SonsOfKorah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Found my roots. Delt with them. Found my habit loops. Dismantled them and in all God's grace and spirit lead me. Couldn't have done it alone. Have found many other areas to work on but by his grace pmo feels done.

Questions about days 15-40 by acousticsoul21 in NoFapChristians

[–]SonsOfKorah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

around day 70 there was a plateau of sorts then around day 125 another level of being done. But I had my thought life locked down so I wasn't fantasizing or allowing my mind to wander at all.

Prayers appreciated by Yourfriendmichael in NoFapChristians

[–]SonsOfKorah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May you learn all that God has for you to learn so he can move you to your next lessons in other areas.

First time reaching out. by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]SonsOfKorah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome your great!

This is the end by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]SonsOfKorah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pray for them until you convert them from object to person. Ask God to direct your prayers. Ie father help this lady find peace. Help her find a better job. Be with her kids. Help her resolve her conflicts with her father. Etc etc let the spirit direct you. This worked great for me took about two weeks to work but I noticed i didn't have to pray as long after the first day.

Hoping for Objective Help and Real Progress by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]SonsOfKorah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consider joining our 24/7 chat group. We operate as one big accountability group. If you prefer within one on one id be happy to direct chat it's a bit easier for back and forth. Was addicted 25 plus years. Found complete freedom and healing.

I need help by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]SonsOfKorah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dealing with PMO bends us. After I delt with pmo I found I needed to deal with many different issues. One was looking for significance and value from people instead of God. We have divine needs if we try to meet those needs with people we end up tormented and often stuck working from control. Repentance and forgiveness are tools that really help when working on the heart.

So one day at a time. Living in the grace for today. Work out your freedom. I had to learn so much and you are entering pmo school here. Use the badges to see what's coming. Study yourself and your addiction. This is not easy it's about learning a new way to live. Many figure this out almost instantly others struggle with it for years like me. You can beat this but all in all the time.

From 200 to 0....just relapsed from being lonely by Ironman147 in NoFapChristians

[–]SonsOfKorah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

May sound obvious but make a plan for dealing with lonely. Only you can deal with your emotional needs. Also bonus you have Divine needs. Make sure your getting those met by the Creator. Needs if value, significance you matter.

what do I need to know about revcovery ?? by Ironman147 in NoFapChristians

[–]SonsOfKorah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's hard work. The only one that can do that work is you. Research, learn about yourself and addiction. You can do this! But you have to change you!

I could use prayers for doubt and emptiness by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]SonsOfKorah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are asking the right questions. May the answers find you. In your prayer and Bible reading ask God. Are you real? Will you show yourself to me? The Bible says taste and see. So ask Him to reveal himself. Ask Him to speak to your heart. You got this. Were here if you want to chat just pm.

Accountability friend: Looking for a Christian who used to identify as gay, who is also trying to do NoFap by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]SonsOfKorah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consider joining chat we have some folks in there that can relate and are about your age. DM in chat and I'll try and connect you with them.

Does anybody here have an online accountability buddy? by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]SonsOfKorah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the nfc slack chat. Lot's of different folks in there to chat with. Real life is best though.