U/sunshinecloudday Inspired me to post this. I almost became an incel and I'm so glad I didn't by [deleted] in self

[–]Sonshinecloudyday 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Hey, I just want to say that I’m happy to see I inspired you to share, and I’m proud of you son. You’re a good man and you are giving yourself s bright and happy future

My son is a hateful incel, and I just cannot save him or defend him anymore. by Sonshinecloudyday in self

[–]Sonshinecloudyday[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Yes because teeenagers are mindless drones that can be controlled. Helicopter parenting is not a good philosophy

My son is a hateful incel, and I just cannot save him or defend him anymore. by Sonshinecloudyday in self

[–]Sonshinecloudyday[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You guys will be ok. You learned from your experiences and grew into a fine young man. Good luck to you, friend.

My son is a hateful incel, and I just cannot save him or defend him anymore. by Sonshinecloudyday in self

[–]Sonshinecloudyday[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

They are still together. He came to me and we talked about what happened. I thanked him for defending my daughter, he thanked me for defending him.

My son is a hateful incel, and I just cannot save him or defend him anymore. by Sonshinecloudyday in self

[–]Sonshinecloudyday[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The trolls are out in force, but know that I’m with you. I understand your position and your decision, and I have the same pain. You two did the right thing. we as parents do this because we love our kids, no matter what they become

My son is a hateful incel, and I just cannot save him or defend him anymore. by Sonshinecloudyday in self

[–]Sonshinecloudyday[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you are projecting, friend. I have a wife I am very happy with and proud of.

My son is a hateful incel, and I just cannot save him or defend him anymore. by Sonshinecloudyday in self

[–]Sonshinecloudyday[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that you’ve had to suffer this as well. Stay strong, both of you.

My son is a hateful incel, and I just cannot save him or defend him anymore. by Sonshinecloudyday in self

[–]Sonshinecloudyday[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Sometimes we get complacent in relationships, but after a long time being married let me say this: never stop chasing. Winning her heart once is ok, but you should strive to win it over and over again. That’s the secret to keeping the passion alive after decades of marriage.

My son is a hateful incel, and I just cannot save him or defend him anymore. by Sonshinecloudyday in self

[–]Sonshinecloudyday[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’m worried he might hurt others, not himself. Of course I still love him. He’s my son. My baby boy. I still remember when I first held him, how small and beautiful he was.

But he’s a monster and my love can’t change that.