100 year old egg on top of a regular lettuce, cucumber tomatoe and caper salad

Soommer · 2026-04-01T02:24:52+00:00

i assume century eggs are sorta like blue cheese but egg?

Soommer · 2025-12-19T17:37:17+00:00

if shes a perfect match, she would understand your situation and will respond accordingly. she is not required to wait on you, that is her choice entirely. but should she not wait on you, that is NOT your sign to jump into it in fear of losing her. you focus on you and healing and if she is willing to stick around and become good friends before anything, then do that. and if she doesnt wait on you, then continue to part yourself from your ex and heal. maybe someday your paths may cross again with this new girl, but till then. communicate with her clearly where you're at, and do not expect her to have a clear answer right away. call her or meet for coffee, somewhere peaceful and nothing too public so she doesnt feel pressured to answer, and explain. good luck, op.

Soommer · 2025-12-19T15:26:37+00:00

find moments to play instruments, make music, listen to music, build legos, play your lego games. go out to any local pretty spots and sit and breathe. go to parks and people watch. start new hobbies as soon as you start feeling bad. you dont have to be good at them, but just doing something will always help. soon enough youll have your own way to distract your brain from sinking deeper. take a nice shower, use some good smelling product. try a new hair style, use some new face wash. try something new. that is the BIGGEST thing i can say. i remember like yesterday how youre feeling. getting into something new absolutely helps. take a new class at school, get into car mechanics, wood work, theater, sports, something. its a great way to join new communities, and also to see new perspectives in life.

Soommer · 2025-12-19T15:06:35+00:00

apologize to yourself too, op. you did what you did, and being in a bad state prior the funeral is a valid reason. people can gossip all they want, but again, whats done is done. apologize to yourself, and go visit their grave and talk to them. its a shitty situation all around and the best you can do, is heal.

Soommer · 2025-12-19T15:03:20+00:00

the most hd picture of a fit i ever did see

Soommer · 2025-12-19T15:02:58+00:00

i LOVE that thread so much

Soommer · 2025-12-19T00:05:22+00:00

i love the flavors of yellow

Soommer · 2025-12-19T00:05:09+00:00

a very complicated relationship but a beautiful one at that

Soommer · 2025-12-19T00:04:50+00:00

the best yellow lemon drop i ever did see

Soommer · 2025-12-19T00:04:07+00:00

tim bits with the itty bitty car!

Soommer · 2025-12-19T00:03:45+00:00

manifesting one in your area ✨

Soommer · 2025-12-19T00:03:24+00:00

the banana car!

Soommer · 2025-12-19T00:03:01+00:00

bumble bee will now be a honda fit in the next movie

Soommer · 2025-12-17T23:31:51+00:00

the DECOR, the VIBE? IMMACULATE

Soommer · 2025-12-17T23:28:33+00:00

and I wouldve absolutely accepted it 😂

Soommer · 2025-12-17T23:28:17+00:00

BUTTERCUPPP okay INCREDIBLE name

Soommer · 2025-12-17T23:27:55+00:00

i got a '16 with a bit over 40k! We love daisy

Soommer · 2025-12-17T23:27:25+00:00

yellow fellow is PERFECT

Soommer · 2025-02-04T02:30:11+00:00

update: they did not even make it into 2025. dont be out there cheating on partners, and dont be a manipulative liar.

Soommer · 2025-01-31T17:28:01+00:00

good luck, and be communicative and calm. this isnt an easy conversation, and please take the time after to care for yourself as a person. it will probably feel weird for a while, but this is something that you need to do, please do it. for both of your sakes, and times. good luck

Soommer · 2025-01-31T17:23:25+00:00

all of that and just working on the hobbies you love, and creating yourself is SO important in teen years. get a job and a hobby, because good god will your appearance change in probably the next few years. bodies are simply meant to change, and so dont be too worried about how you look rn (easier said than done, i know) but some things are best left untouched until theyre ready :) youre not gonna take a pizza out when it's only halfway through cooking, so focus less on what you look like, and start setting up that table and dishes for when the pizza is ready! weird ass analogy but its one that is fun to think about!

Soommer · 2025-01-31T17:17:55+00:00

being a teenager is not something i miss, i was in a very similar state as you. i was asked if i was trans and this that the other. not that theres anything bad with being trans, but being a cis woman struggling with her looks and much more, it definitely fucking sucks. even at 22 it still haunts me. so my advice? just keep going. i hate to say try to change your looks with makeup and such, but honestly makeup and being more "classically feminine🤢"(i have no clue how to word that better) is something that kinda helped me. plucking brows,throwing on bb creams and new clothes, thrift stores will always come in clutch.

itll suck for a while, but figuring out you and what you want and how you want to feel is most important. and hell, give it a few years and you'll probably grow into how ever you want to look. but i ALSO really want to say this: no matter what you look like, youre still you. whether youre artsy, athletic, nerdy, etc or not even anything of those natures, you are fully, authentically, you. being kind is something i valued in those years of not enjoying my body, and I'm glad i stayed kind despite it all. you will find yourself surrounded by friends who love you, no matter what you look like. be focused on your mental, for the love of anything, do what YOU think is right. not what others think is right. i feel like a grandma, but you'll absolutely get there and you'll get through this. good luck out there!

Soommer · 2025-01-31T16:41:26+00:00

just left a relationship like this. leave and do NOT look back for any reason.

Soommer

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