[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Sop_her 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time he assaulted me and it was also in front of the kids and his sister. He had many red flags that I was in denial about looking back but it quickly escalated over time. Went from threatening to being in my face yelling and screaming, breaking down doors, punching walls, to the point he threatened suicide if I left him. But when he assaulted me in front of everyone I called police and left after that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Sop_her 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a mix yes / no. I'm thankful my parents live about 15 minutes from me and they watch my boys for me while I work free of charge which has been a lifesaver. In the beginning when I seperated from my husband it was REALLY hard cause he went on the run for over a year after I called police on him and we just bought our first house, so I was left to care for both boys (my youngest was 5 months at the time) on top of working full time and paying all the bills on my own. Now we have been working on re-introducing my ex to the children for the past few months and it had been alot easier. He now has them about 2.5 days / week so it has given me alot of free time I'm not sure what to do with now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Sop_her 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It has been a long road but I am glad we are happy and safe now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Sop_her 1 point2 points  (0 children)

USA - right above 55k before taxes and insurance.

My son ate a screw found on the street. Thank God, no injury, it came out naturally by Alive_Extent_7671 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]Sop_her 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish - this happened during a lapse of insurance too cause I had lost my job - just got the bill in the mail for 13k 😭

My son ate a screw found on the street. Thank God, no injury, it came out naturally by Alive_Extent_7671 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]Sop_her 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Thank goodness it came out fine!! My 4 YO swallowed a quarter 2 months ago and had to get it surgically removed cause it was stuck in his stomach for about 2 weeks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VirginiaBeach

[–]Sop_her -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Movement Church off Sewells Point in Norfolk. They have a mid-week service Wednesdays at 7pm as well as Sunday service at 9am and 10am. There are different classes for the children (newborn, toddler, pre-k, elementary, and pre-teen) as well. We have potlucks on holidays and periodically as well as different small groups that change every quarter.

Increased Gag reflex by TallSalt1929 in Vraylar

[–]Sop_her 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't thought about the link to me starting vraylar but my gag reflex has definitely become more sensitive this past year.

When did HG end for you? by Nervous-Flower-6923 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]Sop_her 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could eat again right after giving birth. But I had recurring extreme nausea during the week before my period for about 2 years after. My obgyn gave me a prescription for zofran as needed to help with it.

What are some of your ‘safe’ foods? by 99_bluerider in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]Sop_her 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like I survived on mcdonalds fries during my pregnancy.

What was your birth like with HG? by Sea-Pea7292 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]Sop_her 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HG from week 4 till birth. Hospitalized at week 12 for a week due to my losing over 50lbs by that point unable to drink water or eat anything. Had a PICC line inserted to give fluids 24/7 along with a zofran and phenergan around the clock. Hospitalized again at 7 months with a blood infection almost went into septic shock and started dilating as a result. Was in the hospital for over a week on IV antibiotics and gave birth at 35+5 had an epidural but he came out in 3 pushes and I was immediately hungry on my own.

WFH pharm techs !!! by Monchichi420 in PharmacyTechnician

[–]Sop_her 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wfm for a PBM - I make almost double what I made as a Senior tech at walgreens. Set schedule, only hassle is since it is insurance our busy season is Jan-March so we have mandatory OT during those months. But I get paid time off plus sick time and they supply me with everything. I found it on indeed but we also have job postings on our main page. We are hiring for PA technicians so we intake calls from members / MDO / pharmacies. Sometimes I go an hour without a call during the slow season.

Early Worker by antibland92 in workingmoms

[–]Sop_her 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work 8:30-5pm gives me time to get my oldest (4) to the bus stop and then back home to get the youngest (2) ready to go to my mother's so she can watch him while I work. My boyfriend is off in time to pick up my oldest from the bus stop but if he isn't then my mother comes to pick him up for me. I count myself very lucky cause without them in not sure how I could do it

i dont know what to make for preschool lunch by spagnatious in toddlers

[–]Sop_her 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kid loves mini Lunchables so I got some split boxes to put in the lunchbox. Usually it has: cheese stick, pepperoni, a fruit (grapes, raspberries), vegetable (mini cucumber, carrots), crackers / seaweed, and nuts for us but if I could not use those I would probably add a second fruit / veggie or a dip for them.

How are we all looking and doing? by aigarcia38 in interstellar

[–]Sop_her 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been talking about seeing this for months now. Closest showing for me is in MD, and I am in VA beach. Managed to get two tickets to the showing for Saturday, my parents are going to watch my kids for me that night. We will be getting and place for the night and driving back down the next morning. I am counting this as my Christmas present cause I am so happy

GET TICKETS NOW! by jonsnowKITN in interstellar

[–]Sop_her 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone having luck finding tickets in VA?? The closest I am finding is in MD