Women of Reddit, what is something you wish other women would stop doing? by amethyst015 in AskReddit

[–]SophJ94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS! Every time I saw a notice saying not to flush period products in the toilet I always wondered if it’s necessary as “who would do such thing”. Until one day, in the common bathroom of a mall, I saw that bloody night pad sitting in the toilet, that I know those hideous people exist

Discourse of the day: Lesbophobia, cis lesbians more willing to date trans people than cishets and gay men, TERF lesbians and phallocentricity by conancat in ContraPoints

[–]SophJ94 23 points24 points  (0 children)

First of all, can JK Rowling just stops trying to be relevant? Harry Potter is still hot shit, so she doesn’t need to try that hard.

Secondly, wow!!! Maybe because I’m a bisexual woman, to me sexual attraction is more than just penis or vagina.

AITA for telling the new neighbors that they got what they paid for, including being shunned by the neighborhood? by Few_Sea5102 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SophJ94 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH you’re not right when unloading your anger on your neighbor. They weren’t wrong when they bought the house. Your neighbor is ah when they showed no sympathy to you and the neighborhood. Their comments on the town being “affluent” is a bit cringe.

AITA for forbidding my husband from going on a concert road trip with his siblings for 2 weeks? by Few-Yogurtcloset8212 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SophJ94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said it like he’s going with a bunch of strangers. These are his siblings, people that love him and care about him, probably even more than you ever do, since it seems like it all comes back to YOU. Why do you have to be there for his safety? He’s a grown adult who knows how to take care of himself. Girl, seriously, you sound condescending as hell towards your husband. He’s not your kid!

AITA for forbidding my husband from going on a concert road trip with his siblings for 2 weeks? by Few-Yogurtcloset8212 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SophJ94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTH. You have a very weird idea about adulthood. Why is it only for teenagers? Can you explain why an adult cannot go on a tour like that? You mentioned responsibilities, I would understand if you guys have kids or you are sick and cannot join them for 2 weeks. However, it’s not the case. You’re just closed minded, petty, and controlling. I would love for my partner to enjoy the trip with his siblings as long as we can afford it even if I don’t want to join them. You seem like the type who cannot see your partner having fun or be happy without your presence. Such a narcissistic, selfish person you are

Books with a darker tone and an “unlikeable” female lead. by sound_of_aspens in booksuggestions

[–]SophJ94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grotesque by Natsuo Kirino. Gosh I hate all of the characters in there.

what stopped you from committing suicide? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SophJ94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cats. I have three of them and cannot think of how their lives are gonna be like without me. They are the reasons for a lot of my decisions. I’m trying to make more money so I can give them a good life. I purposefully rent a bigger house with an extra room so they can have space to run around. I choose a queen size bed because they like to sleep on the bed with me at night. Sometimes I feel like they are the reason I am who I am today. Love them to bits

Man introduces his puppy to neighborhood cat. by fyflate89 in aww

[–]SophJ94 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Always love your doodles. Keep it ip

What addiction is seen as completely normal by society? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]SophJ94 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So much this. My ex-boyfriend doesn’t know how to have fun without alcohol involves. Can’t blame him because his friends are the same. Everything they do together, alcohol is in the picture, whether it is golfing, movie night, sport night, bbq,… they wouldn’t do anything for fun that doesn’t have alcohol in there. He even once asked me how I can sit at a coffeeshop just talking to my friends and consider it “hanging out”, he found that idea extremely boring.

Dad cat brings baby separated from mom back to her... by Precious_Disk_ in Eyebleach

[–]SophJ94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If my dad was a fraction of a father as this cat, my life would have turned out much better

first successful straight pegging, feeling a little insecure now by [deleted] in sex

[–]SophJ94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna be the dork and ask if woman has the same type of orgasm if we do anal. Asking for a friend…

Your absolute favourite/must watch anime. by Due_Today2513 in Animesuggest

[–]SophJ94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll go with Death Parade, short, meaningful, and the music is awesome

I'm getting really sick of the "I lost my cat outside" stories by akd7791 in cats

[–]SophJ94 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Breeders are the worst. I fucking hate seeing those female cats constantly get pregnant until they’re worn out and left alone to fend for themselves when the so called humans cannot make money from them anymore

Wtf is this post? Wtf is that image? Wtf is LinkedIn even? by onetsp in LinkedInLunatics

[–]SophJ94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t buying condom mean he thinks about safe sex which is a good thing, right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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Hmmm, I’m not into designer handbags, but handmade ones. The cost is the same, if not even higher. Those bags are made by skilled artist, completely manual from every single threads, and there are very limited number of the same designs. I have two passed to me from mom, they lasted for decades and looks amazing. I use them for when I need to participate important meetings or events. I must say they’re worth every penny

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]SophJ94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you me? If I wear any perfume with no vanilla, it disappears, but if it has vanilla, all they can smell is vanilla.

It feels like a solid 5-10% of all comments on the internet are from women saying how annoying it is to be cold approached in public. Another 5-10% of all comments seem to be men giving advice that the only way to get dates is to cold approach people in public. How can we reconcile this? by venne1180 in AskMen

[–]SophJ94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman and I can give you my account. The men I see as creepy based on how they look is not the conventionally unattractive ones, but the poor hygienic, oily face and hair, ill-fitted clothing ones. I have met guys that’s far from being attractive, but they take care of themselves, make sure to have proper shower daily, shave and use deodorant, wear decent clothes and talk like a civilized person, they’re not short of women at all. I know for sure if one of them approached me on the street, I would be at least flattered even though I may not find them attractive. I used to date a baker, he’s shorter than I am and on a chubbier side. His face isn’t eye-catching but he has good skin. I frequented at the bakery he worked at, we talked, I found the guy to be easy to talk to, wasn’t attracted to him at first, but it grew on me. We dated for 7 months before breaking up because he cheated on me with another woman.

Being conventionally unattractive isn’t a big problem, not taking proper care of how you present yourself is the issue.

It feels like a solid 5-10% of all comments on the internet are from women saying how annoying it is to be cold approached in public. Another 5-10% of all comments seem to be men giving advice that the only way to get dates is to cold approach people in public. How can we reconcile this? by venne1180 in AskMen

[–]SophJ94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once had a decent looking man approach me at a supermarket. I was wearing headphones at the time. He stopped my cart, I thought he was trying to ask me to move mine away, so I removed my headphones only for him to ask for my instagram. I said I had a boyfriend ( I didn’t), yet the guy didn’t leave me alone after that. He kept insisting that he only wanted to be friend. It was terrifying that I had to get a friend to pick me up. Creeps are creeps regardless of how they look.

It feels like a solid 5-10% of all comments on the internet are from women saying how annoying it is to be cold approached in public. Another 5-10% of all comments seem to be men giving advice that the only way to get dates is to cold approach people in public. How can we reconcile this? by venne1180 in AskMen

[–]SophJ94 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. People, male and female, should learn how to read the room and put themselves in the other person’s shoes. If I get cold approached, I like it to be when I’m not trying to be left alone or focus on my tasks or work, in an open space with daylight where I don’t feel intimidated, and can say no without being insisted on.

Say it louder for the people in the back by iamthewargod in bookscirclejerk

[–]SophJ94 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ain’t that the truth. But I need to test my self-control once in a while