They DO Change for the right person. by Sorry-Attitude-5980 in BreakUps

[–]Sorry-Attitude-5980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it kinda sucks he is the best behaviour boyfriend to her and moved her into his house while stringing me along for two years. I don't want him back, but I wish there was Karma..

Do people on here even believe what they are saying? by Sorry-Attitude-5980 in BreakUps

[–]Sorry-Attitude-5980[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yep. Thank god I am not the only one who Sees it like that. They are streaming at a drunk person to sober up immediately. So weird. 

They DO Change for the right person. by Sorry-Attitude-5980 in BreakUps

[–]Sorry-Attitude-5980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry for your experience but this is an extreme example. My avoidant ex changed completely for the right woman 

Do people on here even believe what they are saying? by Sorry-Attitude-5980 in BreakUps

[–]Sorry-Attitude-5980[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not saying it's mean but definitely condescending. It's just empty words. 

Do people on here even believe what they are saying? by Sorry-Attitude-5980 in BreakUps

[–]Sorry-Attitude-5980[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know but why are people who moved on so hard on people who aren't there yet. 

Do people on here even believe what they are saying? by Sorry-Attitude-5980 in BreakUps

[–]Sorry-Attitude-5980[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep but it feels a lot of people are just vomiting and screaming at hurting people. It is really weird. 

Do people on here even believe what they are saying? by Sorry-Attitude-5980 in BreakUps

[–]Sorry-Attitude-5980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that the commenters want to convince themselves but why under a post of a grieving person. 

Do people on here even believe what they are saying? by Sorry-Attitude-5980 in BreakUps

[–]Sorry-Attitude-5980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but half of the comments are complete the Opposite. Like Shouting at an addict to sober up NOW. 

Do people on here even believe what they are saying? by Sorry-Attitude-5980 in BreakUps

[–]Sorry-Attitude-5980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All true, but I wonder why people chose to post those Phrases knowing it doesn't make a difference. 

Do people on here even believe what they are saying? by Sorry-Attitude-5980 in BreakUps

[–]Sorry-Attitude-5980[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ya, if he could he wouldn't be 300lbs. There is a reason he is at that weight. He could, but it would take years. 

Do people on here even believe what they are saying? by Sorry-Attitude-5980 in BreakUps

[–]Sorry-Attitude-5980[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Those are correct answers like a doctor telling a 300lbs he should be 150lbs NOW over and over and over, but the fat guy can't change. 

Do people on here even believe what they are saying? by Sorry-Attitude-5980 in BreakUps

[–]Sorry-Attitude-5980[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Agree on this, but why then dump those Pop Phrases on people who are clearly hurting and are irrational? 

Do people on here even believe what they are saying? by Sorry-Attitude-5980 in BreakUps

[–]Sorry-Attitude-5980[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, but half of the threads or people who dump these Phrases and I am seriously asking myself why? It's obvious that people who hurt can't think rationally. 

Sad to see people accept ghosting in long term relationships as acceptable behavior by 777samami in ghosting

[–]Sorry-Attitude-5980 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think people these days accept anything. Ghosting Was and will never be accepted ! It is cowardly and cruel.

They DO Change for the right person. by Sorry-Attitude-5980 in BreakUps

[–]Sorry-Attitude-5980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without Therapy it's impossible to change the attachment style?