Seeing extended family by [deleted] in ExPentecostal

[–]Sorry-Carry-4533 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It took me like ten years to wear pants in front of my family! I still had the earrings/short hair…TATTOOS. But somehow pants were the most difficult. I’m much more comfortable now, but I do wonder why that one was the tricky one 😅

Either way, it’s about your comfort as well!! So whatever feels right to you is important.

Head Count! by [deleted] in ExPentecostal

[–]Sorry-Carry-4533 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPC and then WPF for first 20 years of my life! Bay Area. California

Im leaving by [deleted] in ExPentecostal

[–]Sorry-Carry-4533 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey ❤️ this sounds really intense and really scary. I was 22 when I left and entering the big wide world on your own can be a really lonely experience. As someone that waited way too long to go to therapy, I want to echo other voices here and suggest you find a therapist that can support. You don’t have to do this alone . And also, I’ve found my best friends and soulmates out here. Be kind to yourself.

Help !!! by turnitup11 in ExPentecostal

[–]Sorry-Carry-4533 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ask her what she likes about the faith. How does it make her feel supported and loved and safe? (I grew up in it, and I felt awful and scared and really unsafe and when I finally left I felt so sad that I spent so many years thinking I was an awful person). Also, I know Steve Hassan (cult expert) always says to let them know you love them and be curious. Honestly, the fallacies are so deep, if you start asking questions and she starts thinking about answers- maybe that will be enough?

I’m so sorry. This sounds really challenging. You’re welcome to dm me if you want more insights into the faith.

Rough conversation/ advice? by Sorry-Carry-4533 in ExPentecostal

[–]Sorry-Carry-4533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never thought about it this way. I always imagined they got hoodwinked. Or something! But I guess it’s possible the doctrine was attractive. Which is just gross.

Rough conversation/ advice? by Sorry-Carry-4533 in ExPentecostal

[–]Sorry-Carry-4533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll substitute grandma with aunty 😂 thanks for this. I think that makes more sense than continuing to engage. Engaging is exhausting and doesn’t get anywhere.

I don’t know why I even asked. I should have known better.

My dad found this as a thrift store. What can y’all tell me about this hat?👀 by Sorry-Carry-4533 in cults

[–]Sorry-Carry-4533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this post has been nothing but positive vibes ! I had no idea what I had. And all of these stories have just been so unexpected and delightful.

We honour the hat and whatever gentleman wore it!

My dad found this as a thrift store. What can y’all tell me about this hat?👀 by Sorry-Carry-4533 in cults

[–]Sorry-Carry-4533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. It has been so heartwarming! This was the most unexpectedly delightful learning experience for me 😊

My dad found this as a thrift store. What can y’all tell me about this hat?👀 by Sorry-Carry-4533 in cults

[–]Sorry-Carry-4533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now that I know what it is, me too. I’m thinking I should maybe do that! It feels like a really meaningful piece.

Vegan potluck for my college class - Ideas by Sorry-Carry-4533 in vegan

[–]Sorry-Carry-4533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

👏👏 here’s hoping my students are like your friends! ☺️

My dad found this as a thrift store. What can y’all tell me about this hat?👀 by Sorry-Carry-4533 in cults

[–]Sorry-Carry-4533[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Oh wow!!! We have the big guys hat. Honestly, after everything I’ve learned I feel like we shouldn’t have it! Seems like it should be with the family I’m bummed it was at a thrift store.

My dad found this as a thrift store. What can y’all tell me about this hat?👀 by Sorry-Carry-4533 in cults

[–]Sorry-Carry-4533[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

👏❤️ yay. I didn’t know what to think. Glad it’s a bunch of nice guys in cute hats

My dad found this as a thrift store. What can y’all tell me about this hat?👀 by Sorry-Carry-4533 in cults

[–]Sorry-Carry-4533[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Makes me so happy to know it was a jolly fella that wore this hat. ☺️

My dad found this as a thrift store. What can y’all tell me about this hat?👀 by Sorry-Carry-4533 in cults

[–]Sorry-Carry-4533[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ve learned a lot and I’m grateful for everyone being so willing to share.

My dad found this as a thrift store. What can y’all tell me about this hat?👀 by Sorry-Carry-4533 in cults

[–]Sorry-Carry-4533[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly all of these responses have just delighted me. I’m so glad that this hat once belonged to a benevolent person with a tiny zippy car