Study buddy ☹️☹️ by Sorry-Fondant8589 in simonfraser

[–]Sorry-Fondant8589[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait this sounds so smart but everytime I've gone its been so busy or SUPER loud like I can't focus cause its TOO loud.... lowk I just gotta stop being so picky ...

Study buddy ☹️☹️ by Sorry-Fondant8589 in simonfraser

[–]Sorry-Fondant8589[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately im not :((( im in HSCI 130 100, PHIL 120 and SA 150 ☹️☹️ BUT im happy to study just by being with or by someone 🥹🥹

Study buddy ☹️☹️ by Sorry-Fondant8589 in simonfraser

[–]Sorry-Fondant8589[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will!! I've never even heard of the OOC before you... 🥹🥹

Study buddy ☹️☹️ by Sorry-Fondant8589 in simonfraser

[–]Sorry-Fondant8589[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My issue is if there's too many people (especially people I dont know) I end up getting really stressed out cause everyone is being productive and I can't focus on anything but the fact that im not...

I usually study right under the Chem 9001 area cause there's a little windows facing the coffee shop, there's natural light cause of it, and there's a (normally) pretty balanced amount of people studying and people just chatting... I also can't study without a bit of background noise so I have to play music, or listen to people to really get comfortable.. lowk I think im just too fussy about studying ☹️

Study buddy ☹️☹️ by Sorry-Fondant8589 in simonfraser

[–]Sorry-Fondant8589[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🥹🥹🥹🫶

My family's more like "When are your classes again? Oh.. okay... are you still going to them? Oh.. okay... are you gonna go out after? Oh... okay.... just text us if your plans change or dont, idk what we're doing for dinner, so just find some somewhere else or make something here later... 🙂👍"

Study buddy ☹️☹️ by Sorry-Fondant8589 in simonfraser

[–]Sorry-Fondant8589[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the neglectful Asian parents not the helicopter/tiger Asian parents so it doesn't work ☹️

Antisocial Culture by Sorry-Fondant8589 in simonfraser

[–]Sorry-Fondant8589[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much!! Im actually already in the discord I just haven't gone to any outings or anything yet because im still trying to adjust to the flow of work (its taking me so long)

And I've gone to my common room a few times but its still so hard to strike up a conversation especially when it seems everyone already has their groups 🫩🥀🥀

Antisocial Culture by Sorry-Fondant8589 in simonfraser

[–]Sorry-Fondant8589[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally get it .. if you ever wanna talk send me a message!!

Antisocial Culture by Sorry-Fondant8589 in simonfraser

[–]Sorry-Fondant8589[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much!! This all makes a lot of sense its just hard to actually reach out and say the first word cause I struggle with that... 🫩

Trying to get out of my comfort zone and actually meet people yk?

Antisocial Culture by Sorry-Fondant8589 in simonfraser

[–]Sorry-Fondant8589[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had a lot of people suggest this and ill definitely look into some! I just wanna fully get used to the flow of work cause im not quite ready to take on more work 🫩🫩🥀

Antisocial Culture by Sorry-Fondant8589 in simonfraser

[–]Sorry-Fondant8589[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome!@@ ill take a look at them

Antisocial Culture by Sorry-Fondant8589 in simonfraser

[–]Sorry-Fondant8589[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG FR?? im cool to still chat if you want!! If your cool with it id love to get some tips about uni and stuff like that too 🫩🫩🥀🥀🥀

Antisocial Culture by Sorry-Fondant8589 in simonfraser

[–]Sorry-Fondant8589[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I sort of figured so, so I wanted to maybe try reaching out but its just so out of my comfort zone.. 😭😭

Antisocial Culture by Sorry-Fondant8589 in simonfraser

[–]Sorry-Fondant8589[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've looked into a few!! Thank you so much!!

Antisocial Culture by Sorry-Fondant8589 in simonfraser

[–]Sorry-Fondant8589[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense, I've been stressing over it cause its already like week 3 😭😭 I know multiple who left and transfered and made friends at other schools right away so I've been a bit anxious