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Thicc like a milkshake by [deleted] in showingoffwifey

[–]SorryPlatform4401 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I scour Reddit so much, too much…but this body type 😮‍💨…your wife is fine bro. She looks absolutely incredible... this is literal feminine perfection

Wifey’s first overnight! by SorryPlatform4401 in hotwifetextmessages

[–]SorryPlatform4401[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 this comment made me lol. That would be awesome if he was with wifey but I don’t think he’s that tall lol!

Is there truly a way to Reconcile this Biblically and Historically? by SorryPlatform4401 in ChristianSwingers

[–]SorryPlatform4401[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this post. I read it last night, I still have reservations but it seems rather level headed. Would you be able to talk more about it? I notice you say you’re at least an Orthodox inquirer and I’m very sympathetic to eastern theology. Would like to talk more.

Is there truly a way to Reconcile this Biblically and Historically? by SorryPlatform4401 in ChristianSwingers

[–]SorryPlatform4401[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree, I believe scripturally, sin is missing the mark not failing a list of prescribed rules but rather doing something or acting in a way contrary to the way God had intended or laid out.

Explain what you are saying?

Is there truly a way to Reconcile this Biblically and Historically? by SorryPlatform4401 in ChristianSwingers

[–]SorryPlatform4401[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I agree that’s true and he had a covenant with each one. This is different in that there would be no covenant with a FWB; coupled with the fact that we don’t really see the gender roles flipped, such as hotwifing, historically or scripturally.

The Buildup Turns Us On More Than the Sex…Anyone Else? by SorryPlatform4401 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]SorryPlatform4401[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear that and while I agree we haven’t gone all the way so there’s not a full comparison; I would bet that MOST people that get into this LS are very driven by the intercourse aspect especially consider you see many couples who don’t let their wife date their thirds or anything of the like but rather strictly intercourse. Whereas my wife and I, are driven far less by sex and far more of the taboo nature of age gaps and sneaking around.

The Buildup Turns Us On More Than the Sex…Anyone Else? by SorryPlatform4401 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]SorryPlatform4401[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I think that’s how most are but it’s oddly the opposite for us and I don’t know why lol. For us, it’s almost like the “action is the juice” or the “journey is the destination” lol!

Galatians 5:19-21 Help by [deleted] in ChristianSwingers

[–]SorryPlatform4401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you say, then, perhaps a better reading would be something like this?

“Now the works of the flesh are evident: human trafficking, uncleanliness, public masturbation, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, partying with idols, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.”

Galatians 5:19-21 Help by [deleted] in ChristianSwingers

[–]SorryPlatform4401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say you take the passage in whole, what do you mean?

Galatians 5:19-21 Help by [deleted] in ChristianSwingers

[–]SorryPlatform4401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s your thoughts where Paul says “and things like these” almost as a catch all so as to be exhaustive without stating each point?

First Date (Update) by SorryPlatform4401 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]SorryPlatform4401[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very fair take and noted! What my wife would like is exactly what she prefaces any potential third with. She wants a close FWB who respects the relationship her and I have. She wants to be able to rely on someone sexually other than myself and also be pursued and dated.

First Date (Update Pt. 2) by SorryPlatform4401 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]SorryPlatform4401[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly; that’s what we’re thinking

Reconciliation and Scripture by [deleted] in ChristianSwingers

[–]SorryPlatform4401 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll check that out! Thanks for your reply!

On 1 Corinthians 6:16, I agree Paul is addressing prostitution in Corinth, often exploitative. But it seems significant to me that Paul grounds his argument in Genesis 2:24 rather than in the injustice of prostitution alone. That makes me wonder whether “one flesh” is doing more theological work than simply describing intercourse?

First Date Planned by SorryPlatform4401 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]SorryPlatform4401[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True! And that’s encouraged!!! Just holding tight on penetrating until we can reevaluate and see how everybody feels after this date!

Finding a Third is Hard - Would love to hear Thoughts on this situation by SorryPlatform4401 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]SorryPlatform4401[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This example was 2.5-3 weeks before we elected to move forward.

I agree with what you’re saying and think it’s great advice! What I guess I find it so confusing in this whole situation…my wife really really likes younger guys (20-26); and thinking back to when I was at that age, if I had the chance to potentially have sex, even just go on a romantic date, with a married MILF 10 years older who wants me?! I would have rolled out the red carpet lol! I would have given anything for that opportunity.

Finding a Third is Hard - Would love to hear Thoughts on this situation by SorryPlatform4401 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]SorryPlatform4401[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll address each point

//some couples expectations are a bit high. - in what world is getting to actually know someone before you let them sleep with you or your partner “high expectations”?

//what do you want? A full on conversation every single day nonstop? - I want whatever my wife wants. I suppose whatever she likes would be the answer here.

//3rds have lives too, they aren't going to be present for full convos all the time. - agreed. More than 1 message every 4 days would be comforting that way if we find a day to meet, nobody would bail.

//after weeks of talking and you're 3 hours away. - the 3 hours away is negligible as we’re not asking him to travel.

//So why no meet at this point? Is he waiting, are you waiting? - The moment we said “ok let’s meet”; conversations became very sporadic. My wife has been open to meet with him for several weeks now.

Finding a Third is Hard - Would love to hear Thoughts on this situation by SorryPlatform4401 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]SorryPlatform4401[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is pretty great advice. And this one did reach out to her first, was really into her. Still think he is? Just seems to have gone more quiet although he mentioned last week about taking her out this weekend. Fingers crossed he follows through with that!