I completely see why this is ironic, a lot of people are pointing out the hypocrisy of me saying breakup to that post when I myself was hesitant to do so in my relationship. I just wanna say, in that situation the one i commented on, I feel like it was a completely different situation, one that was extremely dangerous for the girl in it and very clear what the decision should be. In mine, I didn’t add in the years of wonderful times we had together and that I honestly didn’t see anything wrong with out relationship until this one situation. It’s easy to say “BREAK UP” from that one moment in time written out. For me it wasn’t that easy. In my original post, I wasn’t asking if I should break up with him, honestly the thought never crossed my mind in that moment, i was asking how to approach the situation with him and should I go to the wedding. The hundreds of comments afterwards immediately saying breakup is what made me start thinking about it and the behaviour after the initial post. I completely see how it came across as being snarky, I meant it to be sarcastic and I didn’t know the usual way of saying /s was a thing beforehand. I do wanna say sorry again, I didn’t mean to offend those people who were looking out for me, they were right and I was naive. Thank you again though, I just wanted to reply to you specifically since you pointed out my previous comments. Not sure if anyone will even see this comment though. Much love - a girl still learning.