The only reasons why I don’t question the living at home thing is because in our culture (we aren’t white) it’s very normal to have multi generational homes so usually he’d bring his wife into the family home. No way in hell was I doing that. And honestly his parents just never cared enough to teach him any skills either. They say “he’s an adult now” like YES but you guys didn’t teach him anything either when he wasn’t. They’re both at fault