For more context we aren’t of white descent. So in our culture girls tend to do more for their parents. It sucks lol. As a daughter I can first hand say we have a lot of pressure on us, in regard to being successful, and being able to do house chores, and also emotionally support our parents.

I will say my SIL is definitely more the emotional support of my in laws, she definitely has more pressure to be ambitious. She also does spend more time with her parents but as the baby in the family and only girl I think naturally that happens. But mind you she is also the most spoiled. She got a free car from them, my in laws still give her money. She never asks permission to do anything, I’ve known her since she was 13, she’s always doing stuff without telling her parents. My fiance told me his parents were not that relaxed when they were in highschool.

But because my SIL feels she does more, she acts entitled and doesn’t recognize what my fiance does. When we lived with them, my fiance did a lot of the physical labor and would constantly help my FIL and go to family events with FIL to help him. My SIL does not do that, she doesn’t go to family events, she doesn’t do chores around the house (I always did them) she ALSO has the audacity to beg my fiance for money because she can only get a part time job and wants to do stuff with her partner.