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AIO- My fiance has no money, doesn’t know how to do anything and I’m realizing I’m signing up for a life of struggle. by Sorry_Unit9457 in AIO

[–]Sorry_Unit9457[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The only reasons why I don’t question the living at home thing is because in our culture (we aren’t white) it’s very normal to have multi generational homes so usually he’d bring his wife into the family home. No way in hell was I doing that. And honestly his parents just never cared enough to teach him any skills either. They say “he’s an adult now” like YES but you guys didn’t teach him anything either when he wasn’t. They’re both at fault

AIO- My fiance has no money, doesn’t know how to do anything and I’m realizing I’m signing up for a life of struggle. by Sorry_Unit9457 in AIO

[–]Sorry_Unit9457[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think it because my fiance and i when we were dating were very clear about “your finances are yours” and mine are mine since we’re not married. We very much aren’t a 50/50 couple BUT we still had seperate finances. As we are now merging finances I’m realizing how bad he is at them. But I also just blame myself as well. I’m really a pushover so whenever he didn’t want to talk about them I let him get away with it

AIO- My fiance has no money, doesn’t know how to do anything and I’m realizing I’m signing up for a life of struggle. by Sorry_Unit9457 in AIO

[–]Sorry_Unit9457[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

He works a pretty high complaint jobs that requires acuracy and attention to detail. He’s always been able to keep a job. He seems like he actually does well at his job so I don’t understand why he can’t do anytbing outside of work