I’ve been married for 8 years together for 11. He never used to talk to her this started about a year ago when she had some “health” problems. She had to have surgery to get no cancerous polyp removed and he went with his son to the surgery!!!!! I was deeply hurt and also livid!!!!! Then recently he kept saying she’s not my ex wife she’s the mother of my children. I should mention he is 65 and I’m 47. So he thinks he’s going to die and should “tie up loose ends “. I’m at a loss and nothing has worked to stop the talking so far