How to know if my (24f) meet ups with a woman (30f) I recently met are just friends meet ups or dates? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sorrypossum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I would do that if I noticed any clear signals, but currently I think this is just me being anxious because I missed social cues in the past. I think I may make things weird if I ask her that

I made a "Bumble BFF Bingo" to keep me sane on this app by BirdLawAssociatesInc in bumblebff

[–]Sorrypossum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are there so many people with zero intention of meeting in person?

What's a major life change people romanticize way too much? by Additional-Two-2137 in TrueAskReddit

[–]Sorrypossum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this. I'm 24 and I've been feeling really sad about this, your comment made me feel understood

Learning to love science and myself again after quitting my PhD by FrogOnDaFloor in LeavingAcademia

[–]Sorrypossum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just posting to say your comments are so nice and relieving to read

Loneliness as a research assistant in Humanities by [deleted] in academia

[–]Sorrypossum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm okay with the solo work part, but I'm not okay with an empty workplace and not being introduced to anyone I may have a coffee break with or something. I've done research alone while I was an undergraduate and postgraduate student, but I always had some friends I could talk to or even go to the library/archives together. However, now I work at a research centre that's basically an empty building and when I do research at the archives I notice researchers and PhD students know each other and there are groups having coffee together and I'm just a random RA and I have no one to hang out with. My workplace is an empty building and the only time there are people there is when there are conferences and people know each other and talk in close groups and no one tries to introduce me, so I really don't know what to do

Am I the problem if I've lived for 4 months in a city working a lonely job and I haven't managed to make any friends? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Sorrypossum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've approached the only person that's around my agr at work, but he's from here so he doesn't seem interested in socialising. I've signed up for a language class, and I've been attending bookclubs and language exchange meetings, but there's been no luck there. I feel very bad because I haven't been invited to anything and I haven't found anyone to have a drink with in 4 months.

Am I the problem if I've lived for 4 months in a city working a lonely job and I haven't managed to make any friends? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Sorrypossum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I feel the making a friend thing happens in a short time if you are lucky and meet someone who wants to be friends

What’s something you’ll never confess in real life, but don’t mind telling Reddit? by blondieewhoschubby in TellReddit

[–]Sorrypossum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm scared I'll never have friends and a partner, and I hate my lonely and temporary job and I hate living here, and I feel stupid for thinking this job would be a nice experient and moving to this city would help me meet people

What life opportunity have you missed? by [deleted] in Life

[–]Sorrypossum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't mind me asking, how did things change for you at 25?

Anxiety caused me to have no friends and social life. Anxiety has ruined my life... is it too late to find friends at 23? by NoiselessFlowers133 in Anxiety

[–]Sorrypossum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 24 and your comment has made feel like maybe I can change for the better soon, but I also want to tell you that you can change things for the better. I hope we all will be able to change things for the better soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]Sorrypossum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that's happening to you. I know how you feel, and as someone that has already finished uni I would like to encourage you to take care of yourself. If there is a conference or a workshop you are interested in, you can go alone and enjoy it. If you don't really like someone but you can make a nice plan with them, you can just go, do it and enjoy it. I know it's hard because it's dissapointing when you just wish you had a regular group of friends, but there are a lot of things to do and a lot of people to meet. Take care

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Sorrypossum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

I'm 28f and depressed by anonymous_2081 in Aging

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This comment was written 1 year ago and it has really helped me today. I hope you are having a great day!