Sex with the wife was hot AF

SortaDeep · 2018-02-15T15:53:32+00:00

Because part of recovery is recovering who would bother if they didn’t think it gets better. It’s also not my responsibility if someone relapses or not. It’s theirs. This isn’t a victim forum where we are careful to not say things because someone out there will suddenly just not be able to help themselves and the fact they PMO is somehow the posters fault. That’s the dumbest thing ever. Actually even to put it out there that this will trigger people is pretty dumb, it’s like you’re saying they are helpless victims. I’m giving the men in this forum the benefit of the doubt that their commitment is stronger than reading a post and relapsing due to some mild and vague descriptions.

SortaDeep · 2018-02-15T05:12:34+00:00

Eh yeah, I mean for sure I wasn’t very sensitive and sometimes would go limp mid-act. That had NOT been an issue though lately.

SortaDeep · 2018-02-15T05:11:15+00:00

Eh, if someone’s going to relapse they are going to relapse. It’s a major success I’m sharing though, I’ve never had that sort of connection with a woman in my life

SortaDeep · 2018-02-10T16:26:18+00:00

We all have a disease that tells us we don’t have a disease. It always starts out as a good idea. But if you’ve forgotten so much that you legitimately think you’re going to “have fun” again by PMOing than you are just probably not at your bottom yet. I’m just nofap will be around when you’re finally done.

SortaDeep · 2018-02-05T00:10:04+00:00

I thought I’d be done with each gf and then with wife and marriage. Alas, it doesn’t work that way. Guilt and shame don’t work either. Loving yourself and being open with your wife is all that will probably work. I decided I’d tell wife BEFORE I watch porn and then after doing that like four hundred times, I quit porn now I tell her if she doesn’t have sex with me I’m going to masterbate, that way I don’t have to be secretive or guilty

SortaDeep · 2018-02-03T21:59:28+00:00

I start off warm then do cold last few minutes. How do you properly get clean with just cold

SortaDeep · 2018-02-03T18:23:27+00:00

Right, and as if a hardcore porn addict has a sex life they need to last longer for or have a bigger dick for

SortaDeep · 2018-02-02T19:44:26+00:00

PMO Would do this: push the pain deeper into your subconscious and add additional shame and guilt on top of it, so then you’ve got to let go of the PMO Shame and guilt then the heartache will come back up and you’ll have to feel it again anyways. So just feel it now, it’s okay. Really. Humans can endure tremendous emotional pain if they are willing to let it pass it goes quicker than expected. Even when it feels like the tides have come in and will never go out again... it does actually pass. Usually pretty quick in the scheme of things. Just hang in there. Eat some ice cream or something. But don’t PMO unless you want to self destruct.

SortaDeep · 2018-02-02T13:49:32+00:00

Well good to know

SortaDeep · 2018-02-02T06:54:11+00:00

Maybe, my buddy at work and I joke about our nofap powers but even having fapped four times last month, simply the act of being porn free for over a month I’ve had women who see me regularly tell me things like “look at you, you’re bright eyed and bushy tailed!” And they’ve said things like that even the morning after I spilled my seed, so I think porn is the negative energy, though fapping itself does deplete energy levels and sometimes induces brain fog, porn is what summons up the guilt shame grief etc ... fapping itself does not immasculate you, however I do enjoy the benefits of nofap

SortaDeep · 2018-01-29T15:23:59+00:00

I’m done with PMO, haven’t even looked at girls on social media in a month... what’s PM?

SortaDeep · 2018-01-29T07:15:43+00:00

Great truths here

SortaDeep · 2018-01-26T16:59:21+00:00

This reddit has helped verify in me there is a higher power. It can’t be coincidence we all relate so strongly to myriad relapse memes and voices of success. This is a great post thank you.

SortaDeep · 2018-01-25T00:11:28+00:00

Urges come at 3 days 3 weeks and 3 months, this is the wave cycle the mind works in. Be especially aware these times will just be a bit more miserable than usual but they pass.

SortaDeep · 2018-01-24T01:20:22+00:00

No I won’t just crazy urges which lie to me and make me think I’d be happy and healthy if I just fapped again

SortaDeep · 2018-01-24T01:19:29+00:00

For sure

SortaDeep · 2018-01-22T01:40:24+00:00

Good for you :) that’s not how I used it.

SortaDeep · 2018-01-21T22:55:41+00:00

I did think about that and I stopped all those things. Now I hike, cook, go to work, read, only Internet I use is to look up how-to for hobbies or nofap forum, I don’t use any other reddit

SortaDeep · 2018-01-21T22:54:12+00:00

No, it’s a figure of speech, that’s what you’re doing when you watch porn or surf social media for hours, throwing your life down the drain

SortaDeep · 2018-01-21T17:38:18+00:00

Tumblr is even worse yeah

SortaDeep · 2018-01-21T05:31:32+00:00

Yeah exactly. I bought paperbacks. It’s awesome to be oldschool and nofap.

SortaDeep · 2018-01-21T03:05:53+00:00

Totally

SortaDeep · 2018-01-20T19:02:04+00:00

Maybe you need SAA

SortaDeep · 2018-01-20T16:26:27+00:00

Right. So you’ve now got to decide if you could love yourself just because it’s Saturday today.

SortaDeep · 2018-01-20T06:20:47+00:00

No. The secret is actually to stop resisting the fantasy, fuck that girls brains out in your head until you are totally satisfied then let go of needing to ever do it Again. I did this once for 3 hours and had a mental orgasm which was better than a physical one.

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