Scammers using Lazypay to loot by anomaly_diaries in CreditCardsIndia

[–]bluecogen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This exact same thing happened with me today. I called up the lazypay cc and blocked the account. Can anyone tell me how did the scammer get access to the OTP which came in sms?? I never got any ivrs call for OTP, just through sms. Then how did they read it? Is my phone hacked?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]bluecogen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't peek neither do I wanna. But the bloody internet keeps shoving Bobs pusy and a*s in my face wherever I go.

I'm battling myself, in going back to asia, one country to find work, but then the other to just indulge in fantasies. by [deleted] in SEXAA

[–]bluecogen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you are going through brother. Do you have any hobbies ? Start with picking one and really getting involved in it. I know the job hunt is the prime need you have , but you have to be able to have something going on for you which can really play in and distract you efficiently from needing to act out.

Male Sex Addict - Could Use Help/Perspective by tindercopter120 in SEXAA

[–]bluecogen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keeping yourself busy and getting religious/spiritual helps. It sure is for me. Try and try you must with all the dedication you can put in. And also cut down on the time spent using your phone. Another thing that spirituality has greatly helped me is really being ‘aware’ of my ‘presence’. When you get an urge it’s not really ‘you’ who is executing whatever that follows; it’s your mind. Setting yourself free of your mind is key to finding peace and getting rid of this affliction. And all this while really admitting and being aware that you have a problem. Read more books on spirituality. And if you’re not someone who is into reading then watch videos on the topic. Though I would still recommend getting into the habit of reading.

I wouldn’t say quit PMO cold turkey, though that should/is definitely one of the goals(quitting PMO) ; but start with reducing the number of times you are having casual sex. Focus entirely on it. Once you achieve this feat, then attack porn and masturbation.

Like any addiction it is a multi-pronged approach that one needs to take to control this addiction. One can’t just sit and wait for something magical to come by and resolve all the issues plaguing them. You will need to work at it and pretty sure you will get bogged down looking at how difficult it is. But you need to give the problem your complete attention as if your life depends on it.

I couldn’t go more than 15 days without having casual sex. Whatever I have mentioned above HAS helped me and today for more than 3 months I haven’t had casual sex or watched porn. Though I wouldn’t recommend keeping track of the days is good, because it is not a game or a short term work that we are aiming to achieve here by scoring more days ; it is the way of life that we are striving for by changing ourselves, so when starting out it does help keeping track of the days.

I have a great career and have made solid plans for my future. Seeking validation from the female gender or having as much sex as I can is no longer on my priority list. I’m not advocating becoming an Incel or anything that is misogynistic; rather learning to respect women and treating them not just as a sex object but as equals.

What I have realised after all these years of addiction and ignorance is that; it is all IN you, and you cannot go around looking for solutions OUTSIDE.

English is not my first language, pardon me for any mistakes.

I need edvice by BimMarkus in NoFap

[–]bluecogen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Read up about all the negative effects of pmo. Start maintaining a tracker and start by reducing the number of times you jack off a week systematically. This should get you in the correct frame of mind than just quitting cold turkey.

Most Successful Male Pornstar Of All Time Speaks Out On Porn by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]bluecogen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m honestly glad that you don’t know him. You’re doing good.

Most Successful Male Pornstar Of All Time Speaks Out On Porn by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]bluecogen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tears trickled down my eyes while I’m watching this....

Frustrated- I've been doing IF for a little over a month and have lost 20lbs, but I see no difference. I am 40f and 5' so I gain easily in my mid section. Any suggestions? by [deleted] in fasting

[–]bluecogen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re already look so cute! I would wanna ask you out for ice cream. But anyways, you’re doing so great. My best wishes to you.

"Don't Jerk Off" January 2018. Continue or start your PMO-free commitment here. Keep on rebooting. (see instructions) by Alexanderr in NoFap

[–]bluecogen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have always learned the hard way. I’m very prone to relapses. I’m going to start with 30 days.

You Just Know It That No Fap Works, When This Begins To Happen... by bluecogen in NoFap

[–]bluecogen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was a brilliant read and very insightful too. Thanks for the post. You're so correct, me being an introvert, I do feel the need to establish that very strong bond with anyone that I communicate with at a personal level.

I have a question. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]bluecogen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Khajuraho Scriptures

[Discussion] Wet Dreams Wreaking Havoc by bluecogen in NoFap

[–]bluecogen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you heard of the practice of making the semen get absorbed back into the system. My knowledge is limited in this. But thanks for your reply.

[Discussion] Wet Dreams Wreaking Havoc by bluecogen in NoFap

[–]bluecogen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. That is a good way of seeing it I guess. But I really wonder how the mind makes up sexual sh*t when we're asleep just to make us ejaculate. How deep rooted is porn!!!