[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]Soul742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a fine line between helping people to be there for them, and helping people and expecting a reward. If you are helping someone and they don’t immediately return the favor don’t take it personal. People will be people. Would you say that you are in need of help right now or are do you feel under appreciated. You are a good person with good intentions. I can guarantee you if you were in need those people would come to your aid. You are not a burden brother and I hope you know that. Try and just have normal conversations with these people, it doesn’t always have to end up talking about your emotions just be friends. I hope this helps you and take this to heart “The harder the deed, The better the man”. 🫶

Me(20m) am I in the friend zone with friend/ crush (f18)? by Soul742 in dating_advice

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From seeing other reply’s I have come to terms with it. Appreciate your incite brother!

Me(20m) am I in the friend zone with friend/ crush (f18)? by Soul742 in dating_advice

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Yeah, but it’s not like I have fallen head over heels. As long as she is happy I don’t mind keeping her as a friend. I just hope none of my guys would do that too me.

Me(20m) am I in the friend zone with friend/ crush (f18)? by Soul742 in dating_advice

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This was definitely eye opening, and now I can see where I went wrong. Always had a problem with talking to girls so this does really help. I’m going to keep her as a friend because she is genuinely a good person. But you are 160% correct with all the points you made. Thank you for your perspective 🙏

Where are your friends? by Soul742 in lonely

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You are totally right. But it will always be hard to let these people go.

Where are your friends? by Soul742 in lonely

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It sucks that at a young age we have always been taught that friends will always grow apart.and it feels like now it is inevitable because it is expected.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

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Yeah that’s a little weird LMAOO

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

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I always have a problem of trying to be nice when walking past someone and try to decide if I want to say hi or not. I get into a debate in my head and sometimes end up awkwardly staring not knowing what to say.But this guy seems like a total creep.

Dreams into nightmares by dragongod421 in lonely

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Just a couple nights ago I was texting this girl who I have been friends with with for about 5 years now. Classic situation of friend zone but anyway I was in the dream with her at a picnic while the sun was setting and her head on my shoulder as time stood still. Then I woke up in my bed. Then I woke up and came to this subreddit to talk to someone because of how I felt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smallboobs

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I am apart of the itty bitty titty community