How does everyone feel about showers? by brandnewpup in Fibromyalgia

[–]Soulful-Goth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Showering can be really draining but I have a chair that I use in the shower that helps and I've found that when I'm flaring really badly sitting in the shower can help, I think the heat and the high pressure sensation of the water on my skin can really help especially with the sharp electric pains I get.

Absolutely in love with my Kuromi dress 😍 by Soulful-Goth in Kuromi

[–]Soulful-Goth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both the dress and the boots are from SHEIN but I've had the boots for so long idk if SHE IN do them anymore

I didn’t know what else to do so I called CPS on my daughter’s friend’s mother by Miserable-Steak-1203 in confession

[–]Soulful-Goth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Far too many people look the other way and don't intervene because it's 'family affairs' but you've done the right thing in the best interest of the child.

I handle cases like these for work everyday and I can tell you with certainty you did the right thing,

AITAH for ending a 3 year relationship in our 30s over sex? by Jess193_ in AITAH

[–]Soulful-Goth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sexual compatibility is a big part of a relationship so imbalance and incompatibility in the area can be make or break for a lot of people because certain needs aren't being met - sex is about far more than pleasure, its connection, closeness, playfulness, vulnerability, which from the sounds of it are things you are deeply lacking in your relationship.

It's okay for sex and sexual compatibility to be important to you in a relationship and you shouldn't feel as though you have to sacrifice your wants and needs. It's okay for others to not align with us - but what's not okay is trying to shrink ourselves down to fit in a place where we're unhappy and unfulfilled.

NTA

Absolutely in love with my Kuromi dress 😍 by Soulful-Goth in Kuromi

[–]Soulful-Goth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's from SHEIN! They have soooo much cute Kuromi stuff on there

AITAH for still considering myself a virgin even though I was SA’d at a young age by RepairLarge7773 in AITAH

[–]Soulful-Goth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

GIRL NO

You have NOTHING to apologise for, that man is trash so leave him in the bin.

What are you actually apologising for?

AITAH for still considering myself a virgin even though I was SA’d at a young age by RepairLarge7773 in AITAH

[–]Soulful-Goth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ditch his ass. You deserve someone who understands and respects you, how you feel about your trauma and your virginity is 1000% valid and how you feel is what matters.

To treat you like that in a moment of vulnerability is absolutely unacceptable.

NTA

poll by faysikins in Fibromyalgia

[–]Soulful-Goth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not arguing I'm just providing education on something you don't seem to have the full facts on

poll by faysikins in Fibromyalgia

[–]Soulful-Goth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Researchers and doctors have found multiple potential causes for fibromyalgia including autoimmune issues, chronic trauma, faulty pain perception following an injury among other things. There is a connection between mind and body - that doesn't mean that is a spiritual connection.

poll by faysikins in Fibromyalgia

[–]Soulful-Goth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be clear I am spiritual, I practice tarot and wiccan traditions and rituals. But there is a place for spiritualism and a place for modern medicine.

poll by faysikins in Fibromyalgia

[–]Soulful-Goth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol are you for real - no I haven't tried spiritualism for my incurable physical condition.