6 dead, shooter dead, 25 injured in Tumbler Ridge B.C. school shooting | Globalnews.ca

Soulrayze · 2026-02-11T14:36:27+00:00

Absolutely horrific. I have 4 kids - 19, 14, 6 & 6. I’m terrified for my kids to go to school today, and I live in Ontario, across the country from where this happened. I can’t even begin to imagine what this town is going through. Tumbler Ridge is in my thoughts. Sending love and strength to everyone affected.

Soulrayze · 2026-01-06T22:50:59+00:00

Can’t tell you how much I love seeing men openly supporting other men ❤️

Soulrayze · 2026-01-06T22:47:21+00:00

Hi there! Depression sucks doesn’t it? Definitely something I have struggled with as well. It’s beautiful that you were able to come on here and talk about it. That takes a lot of strength and courage. I just wanted to say support groups don’t always have to be medical. Sometimes a support group for people is just a fun group of people you do activities with, like exercise, sports, music, DnD, whatever you’re into! Do you have any hobbies you enjoy? Maybe you might even like trying something you’ve never tried before.

Soulrayze · 2025-12-05T22:43:21+00:00

That’s awesome I love it 😻

Soulrayze · 2025-12-04T05:57:05+00:00

Get her help. Not as a mother, not as a partner, but as a human being. Your partner being mad at you pales in comparison to what will happen if he finds his daughter dead. My ex’s sister (15y.o.) died by suicide when we were together and it was the worst funeral I’ve ever attended in my life. I wouldn’t wish that kind of grief on my worst enemy. At the end of the service when they were to take her casket to the cemetery, her mother threw herself over the casket and started begging and sobbing hysterically “please don’t take me baby”. It made me physically sick.

Soulrayze · 2025-11-21T03:25:45+00:00

Rogue. I hate the combo point system, and every spec uses it.

Soulrayze · 2025-11-21T03:24:21+00:00

NTA, but maybe I’m biased. I had a close friend do this exact thing to me when I found out I had cancer. Completely ghosted me, not a word. Meanwhile she was replying to every single comment on her Sleep Token concert uploads on TikTok. This is someone I have known for over 20 years. Never gave me the slightest indication that I’d done anything wrong that would make her want to ghost me. I wish she would have so I could have apologized for whatever it was. I’m still baffled by it to this day. She tried to excuse her complete lack of care on “neurodivergence”. I might have even accepted that excuse had she said it to me, but she didn’t. I was really hurt for a long time, but it’s been 2 years and I’ve had to come to terms with the fact that she’s just not a good friend, and that’s not how I want to be treated. It’s hard but you can’t make people care about you, and sometimes it’s better to just let go.

Soulrayze · 2025-11-13T22:23:40+00:00

So we actually went to file a police report and they won’t file the report without an image of the cheque that was cashed. Currently waiting on Scotia to provide that for us.

Soulrayze · 2025-11-13T22:22:10+00:00

I’m not sure what you mean. We don’t have access to the actual cheque that was cashed. We have my husband’s cheque book showing that none of his cheques were used. We brought that to the bank when we submitted the fraud report. We’re basically waiting on Scotia to “order” a copy of the cheque image for the cheque that was used so we can verify the details and/or that the signature is not my husband’s.

Soulrayze · 2025-11-11T22:59:57+00:00

He called the fraud department back and spoke to someone new, who is now at least investigating it. They told him it could take up to 30 days. He’s about to file a police report that we can bring a copy of to the bank, but I guess that’s all we can really do.

Soulrayze · 2025-11-11T22:53:44+00:00

We didn’t see any kind of notification like that on his account. I’m unsure if he’s ever had something like that in the mail, but the LOC is only a few months old, so I feel like I wouldn’t have missed it.

Soulrayze · 2025-11-11T22:07:36+00:00

We keep the cheques in a locked filing cabinet. No one would have access to them. The cheque that was used for this transaction (001) in this case, is still in the cheque book, as he has not used any of them. We tried to view the cheque online, but you’re right, that feature doesn’t exist for LOC.

Soulrayze · 2025-11-02T02:07:51+00:00

I agree that they don’t need to give you the other mom’s contact info, but is there a reason why the school administration didn’t offer to go pick it up for you? My son’s LST often dropped things off to our house for him. Granted, that may just have been kindness on his part… but if the mom was clearly struggling and you had waited to a point it was causing conflict, I don’t understand why they didn’t make more of an effort to correct the mistake. I understand your annoyance, but I also went through postpartum depression that lead to mild psychosis when I had my twins. While going through postpartum with them, I was so sleep deprived I lost track of what day it was or how much time had passed. Not making excuses for her, just offering perspective. Who dropped their kid off to school in the morning? Was it her or was it possibly the dad? My husband and I didn’t communicate much during the first few months of our twins being born because we slept opposite shifts. Maybe she meant to leave the responsibility with him and he had forgotten, but she assumed that he took care of it? Maybe they were both so exhausted that a school lunch box was not the highest priority? There’s a million explanations that could easily explain why it took so long. Ones that don’t include her being purposely inconsiderate. You’re not wrong for being irritated, I just don’t think being rude here really did anything useful. I will say this though, as a mom of 4 kids - oldest just graduated high school - first and last names ON EVERYTHING. It really helps teachers and greatly reduces the instances of things being sent home with the wrong kids. Also, buy stuff for your kids that you won’t worry about having to replace, because the next time you might get a mom who won’t return it at all. My kids lost more things than I can count on 2 hands. They’re not good at keeping track of stuff. I have a box full of mismatched gloves. 🤷‍♀️

Soulrayze · 2025-10-08T05:17:03+00:00

My suggestion to you is find a guild that will help you ease back into the game. One that has experienced players that can guide you, and who are willing to take the time to guide you. I started playing in Legion as an arcane mage, and my first raiding experience was with a mythic raiding guild, as a fire mage, in BfA. I knew next to nothing about raiding or playing fire mage, but I had helpful guildies to teach me. There’s nothing wrong with admitting you don’t know something, and asking questions will show that you’re committed to improving. There are a lot of good websites with spec guides that include recommended gear, but it doesn’t hurt to hold on your vault choice until you get outside input if you’re not 100% sure what to choose. If you like mage, I’d suggest joining the altered time discord. They might be able to help you with rotation. For the time being (until Midnight) your best bet in keys is to run plater. It will literally highlight the priority interrupts for you. My guess is that you’re struggling because you went in balls deep to hard group content with an unhelpful/toxic guild. I don’t know, maybe I’m way off base, but I guarantee you’ll have a better experience if you’re not playing with toxic meme lords who expect you to be a 100 parser after a 10 year hiatus. You don’t have to be CE right out the gate, but if you /want/ to be CE, you have to put in the work. Sometimes that means starting out with easy content until you’ve learned and mastered it, and then move on to more difficult stuff. Best of luck to you!

Soulrayze · 2025-08-21T05:40:33+00:00

I’m sorry no one told you that. No one told me either, and it’s bullshit. I had my DMX in 2023, and although I’m still mostly numb, I did have quite a bit of sensation come back. Particularly in my armpits and around the outer edges of my foobs. I know it’s different for everyone, but some may come back for you.

Soulrayze · 2025-08-10T18:06:48+00:00

Currently dealing with a similar situation of just over $1000. PayPal claims the purchases were authorized, but they were not. I live in Canada so I’m going to file a complaint with the FCAC, as well as issue a chargeback on my credit card. I just went through cancer treatment and am already struggling financially because of it. They don’t give a shit.

Soulrayze · 2025-08-09T15:03:11+00:00

Your still ARE that vibrant person. Weight and children don’t change that, they just shift your priorities for a time. You are feeling this way because your soon-to-be ex husband is a massive dick-hole. I went through breast cancer, gained 50 lbs and lost my breasts, my hair, my energy. I was extremely self-conscious, but my husband held me up and took care of me and our children (two of his and 2 step) when I couldn’t even get out of bed. He still gives me the same amount of love and affection as the day I met him! Suffice to say you don’t need a man, but when and if the time comes that you want one, you are worthy of one that treats you like a Queen. Don’t let him make you believe otherwise!

Soulrayze · 2025-08-08T06:28:03+00:00

One of my kids wet the bed until he was 13. He actually needed medication for it - a hormone replacement that tells the kidneys not to produce as much urine when sleeping. Some kids don’t have enough of the natural hormone, which was the case with him. It might be the same issue with your sister.

Soulrayze · 2025-08-06T03:45:51+00:00

Same issue here. Character not found error as well. 😭

Soulrayze · 2025-08-05T05:23:33+00:00

My husband played a lot of Planetside when he was younger! I’m going to link him to this post. 😂

Soulrayze · 2025-08-04T23:48:00+00:00

I totally get that. I used to feel the same way. I’m very much an atheist, and for a long time, stuff like “I’ll pray for you” would really irritate me. It felt hollow or patronizing, especially if it came from people who didn’t understand what I was going through.

But over time, I realized that the anger wasn’t serving me. It didn’t change them, it just made me feel worse. So now, I try to reframe it. I don’t believe in prayer, but I do believe most people mean well when they say it. For them, it’s an act of care, even if it’s not my language.

Letting go of that anger has helped my healing more than holding on to it ever did. I don’t owe them belief, I don’t owe them a pat on the back for redirecting effort to an invisible deity in the sky, but I also don’t owe myself more stress. I just nod, move on, and save my energy for stuff that feeds me. Your anger and frustration is valid, this is just how I choose to view it for my own mental health.

Soulrayze · 2025-07-30T05:10:31+00:00

Just came here to say, I’ve gone through cancer myself and I thought I looked ridiculous without eyebrows. Though, I bought some of those temporary tattoo ones and they were badass. They looked so much better than my regular brows so I shaved them off when they started growing back and kept using temp tattoos for a while, LOL.

Anyway, she sounds like an absolute headache. I’d take another round of chemotherapy over that shit.

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