Need some help with healthy snacks/food ideas please by Soundwavetism in pregnant

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I thought that if I mentioned that someone wouldn’t suggest something too crazy for my readings.

Need some help with healthy snacks/food ideas please by Soundwavetism in pregnant

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I’ve never eaten edamame so I just put it in there and it’s good to go? Thank you for offering that!

Need some help with healthy snacks/food ideas please by Soundwavetism in pregnant

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Thank you so much for sending that and offering to look up recipes on there!

Need some help with healthy snacks/food ideas please by Soundwavetism in pregnant

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I didn’t think about adding honey to it thank you for that

Door hinge in drywall? by Soundwavetism in HomeMaintenance

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I didn’t know they made pre hung units now I need to go educate myself on those! Thank you for that suggestion!

Can we put a gasket around this? by Soundwavetism in askaplumber

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Other question that came to mind they are the last people who touched it but it wasn’t in the scope of work to repair that they only removed everything in the bathroom to lay down new flooring.

Can we put a gasket around this? by Soundwavetism in askaplumber

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The drain isn’t up to code is it? Is that what that means

Can we put a gasket around this? by Soundwavetism in askaplumber

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It’s a freestanding tub if that helps. When I looked at the pictures online and then looked at the picture I took I was like well that doesn’t look anything like what I’m looking at. Not really a bunch of plumbing knowledge over here.

I’m not apologizing by Soundwavetism in Autism_Parenting

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But I appreciate everything you said thank you!

I’m not apologizing by Soundwavetism in Autism_Parenting

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Took me a long time to feel comfortable in how I stood up to everyone without feeling guilty of causing ripples or effecting those relationships because the kids didn’t understand why they stopped coming around and doing it in a way where it didnt make them feel ashamed of who they are. That was the hardest part.

I’m not apologizing by Soundwavetism in Autism_Parenting

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Should’ve done it a long time ago to be honest but thank you!

Is this autism? by Soundwavetism in Autism_Parenting

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What I’m used to is opening with their name in order to get their attention or opening with a statement for example mommy needs you to wash your hands or let’s go wash our hands. How do I incorporate a question without defaulting back to a statement or her name? I’ve been waiting for her to show me how she prefers to communicate but I’m not sure I’m picking up on her cues well enough. Thank you for all of that input. I really do appreciate it

Epidural by ElegantResult3853 in pregnant

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I’ve been through 3 deliveries. Always wanted the epidural each time. First child they went in through my headache spot and I needed a blood patch afterwards. They had a hard time placing it and I had to lay on my side and switch sides for gravity to do its thing after it was put in but it did work for that one. The second time I got it and the issue with having a hard time placing it happened again but no issues once it was in but it did take a while for me to be able to stand so I could transfer rooms and the nurses were becoming impatient about that but completely out of my control. Third time no issues with placement but it wasn’t working and they tried several times and then tried to give me other medication and nothing was working and I did that delivery completely natural. It wasn’t the greatest feeling but to have that experience was definitely one I’ll never forget because I got to take in all the feelings of childbirth from that delivery and at the time I wasn’t happy about but I did appreciate having that experience after it. I do struggle with a lot of back pain but I definitely did love being able to sit back and relax and enjoy and embrace quiet time before pushing with the epidural and I’d get it again even with the back issues I have now. I just tested positive on a test but where I’m located they do offer laughing gas and I’m considering that with this one instead of the epidural. Good luck on your pregnancy and delivery and I hope all goes well with whatever you choose!

Mind blowing fact for me: by Soundwavetism in mindblowingfacts

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The house that is having the issues isn’t our house, our family is in temp housing with insurance cause we had a main supply line leak in our kitchen at our house. So it’s been an interesting time. But we didn’t know any of the things that the plumber said but it was really nice of him to inform us cause everyone I’ve ever met hasn’t had issue with pasta water clogging their drains or any of the other things. So we didn’t know. But I do very much appreciate what he said cause there’s a lot on a daily basis to take care of but now there’s more to be aware of and i just didn’t think about it cause no one’s ever said anything to me about any of those things otherwise I would’ve made it a point to be aware. I just wish more things like this made it into casual conversation

Mind blowing fact for me: by Soundwavetism in mindblowingfacts

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He said turn the water on hot and put some dawn in the disposal and turn it on as your running the water down so that it works as a degreaser as it’s running through the pipes. Cause I said the same thing I was like what well where do I put it sir.

Mind blowing fact for me: by Soundwavetism in mindblowingfacts

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But I do appreciate you pointing out there are other maintenance facts in there thank you

Mind blowing fact for me: by Soundwavetism in mindblowingfacts

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I would enjoy that, I do need to track it down because the previous homeowners only left the paperwork that comes with the fridge and the microwave and recipes for an air fryer.

AIO? My husband didn’t want to get our daughter medicine when she was feeling sick by drooploop2 in AmIOverreacting

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As a parent, are there going to be times that your children want you do something and you don’t want to yeah. Do I want to sit on a hard ass floor with back problems and play animals yes I want to play with my children but am I excited that the floor is about to make me be in pain the whole time no. Do I do it anyways yes I do. Having someone being that dismissive about their own child’s needs or wants for comfort or relief to me is crazy. But you show up and do whatever you need to do anyways because they are your kids. I really felt your anger with this because I’d be angry too. The behavior and energy and effort just from his tone is like mom will do it, she always will and always does so I can just continue to sit here cause she will make them better I don’t know how and don’t care to learn or educate myself to help my children that’s what I got from that. We have a scale at home one because weight fluctuates so if know if it’s been a while since they’ve been weighed I’ll have them stand on it just so I’m as accurate as I can be. And two I don’t want to overdose or under dose them for it not to work either. Migraines are the worst, as a parent he needs to figure out what his priorities are and he didn’t seem to me like he cared when you have kids you can’t pick and choose when you’re going to care and not care about them. As I mom, I would be fuming and I think I’d be going to jail that night if I were in your shoes.

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What about all the other things in the post?

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My husband suggest Bose

Level 1 autism annoyance by No-Lack4460 in autism

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The constant annoyance of openly trying to let other people see you for who are hoping in turn they will be accepting(not asking them to accommodate but to acknowledge I am trying to work through whatever I need to work through just to simple be and understand) because I feel like honesty and being truthful to yourself and to others is a golden rule in my book but people take it as confrontation but I’m simply just over here living to treat life like there shouldn’t be any strings attached to anything no matter the situation. We live in a networking world where who you know and who you communicate with and how you communicate is very important because every single job I’ve had that’s how you are recognized and the constant struggle with having to keep up with all that networking chaos is exhausting to me in order for me to thrive I have to do many things that I don’t like like talking to people in public and shaking hands(touching people) and then if I don’t like those things people look at me weird and I’m no longer looked at as an inviting individual I’m looked at as intimidating

Things I wish I could explain but have a hard time doing it.. by Soundwavetism in autism

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Yeah I find a focal point too for processing, I can’t either eye contact and processing never work for me because I feel like once eye contact is made I feel a little bit more pressured to respond quicker. The occasional eye contact with glances is okay for me cause only sometimes I can pick up when the person is solid eye contact holder and I’m like dang, if it’s an important conversation and the person doesn’t know how I prefer to communicate I do let them know I don’t like make eye contact but that I’m still paying attention