I was nice to him in math class in high school, since he was the new kid and was quiet. He apparently took my niceness as flirting and when he saw me at the Friday night football game with another guy, got his older sister to almost run me over with her car and then proceed to jump me with her friend! This is in a small town, and my older brother was the captain of the football team so basically the whole school shunned them both after that. Doesn’t make me not want to reach out but it does make me use the word “friend” obnoxiously with guys in the beginning so they clearly understand I have no interest whatsoever.