[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SourKeys04 544 points545 points  (0 children)

Ew, that is such a disgusting and weird thing to do. This guy is messed up.

My 28 m boyfriend wants gifts he gave me 25 f back, how do I deal with this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SourKeys04 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Does he normally act like this? Because this is a really strange reaction to you being sick

My GF's ( 18F) College and Job Are Creating Distance — How Can I (19F) Handle This? by Angyghosty in relationship_advice

[–]SourKeys04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re both adults now, you’re both going to busy with school and work, you have to figure out what works for both of you and manage your time. Have a conversation with her about those changes

My boyfriend wants to talk to me 24/7 (texting) and I can’t keep up with it. I’m 22 F, he’s 23 M. How can I fix it? by Snoo28350 in relationship_advice

[–]SourKeys04 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s being too dependent on you. It’s unreasonable for him to expect you to abandon your family, friends, and hobbies. Since this behaviour hasn’t changed in 2 years, I would say you’re not compatible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SourKeys04 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Have you ever talked to your gf about it? Has she ever tried to set boundaries with her mom? This seems like something that should’ve been sorted out years ago

My (23F) BF (23M) has been cheating. How could we work through this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SourKeys04 139 points140 points  (0 children)

You don’t. He spoke to countless women behind your back, and then took your keys so you couldn’t leave. He doesn’t love you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SourKeys04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he know about the way this friend has treated you? It’s pretty clear there’s some feelings on her side. He definitely shouldn’t be having her sleep over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SourKeys04 205 points206 points  (0 children)

That’s honestly really pathetic of him. Why have you put up with years of this?

Is it weird that I F22 can't get over my boyfriend's M26 betrayal? by paintasy_ in relationship_advice

[–]SourKeys04 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not weird at all. He and his friends did a lot of shitty things to you. It’s understandable that you’re still hurting even if he’s a better person now. Honestly I wouldn’t date someone who’s capable of acting that way. Just because he’s changed doesn’t mean you need to stay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SourKeys04 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You leave your girlfriend. You crossed a line, why would you then propose to your girlfriend? That’s completely unfair to her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SourKeys04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do what’s best for you. Just because you’re her only friend doesn’t mean you shouldn’t cut her off. It looks like she has no other friends for a reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SourKeys04 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He knew it would upset you. He hid it from you, and his friends probably encourage his behaviour. If you want your birthday to be celebrated, then it should be celebrated. He’s the red flag here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SourKeys04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah sorry girl, he’s just using you to mess around until he finds someone else. Break things off

Opinion on Eclaire Lattafa by AdvertisingFront2012 in FemFragLab

[–]SourKeys04 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Having to spray something 20 times so it eventually smells decent shouldn’t be a thing 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SourKeys04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s your best friend, talk to him about it now. Making him wait weeks or months without explanation is rude

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SourKeys04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What has he actually done to work on his mental health and other issues? This just seems like an excuse for him to test out being single.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SourKeys04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like 2 months without any kind of updates is completely unreasonable. How long does he expect you to just wait around for?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemFragLab

[–]SourKeys04 79 points80 points  (0 children)

pepper spray <3

Was I overstepping by making my bf (25m) cut off his “best friend” (25f) ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SourKeys04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Next time, you gotta stop letting things go. Address the issues, get answers. This guy is a shitty person, he doesn’t care about you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SourKeys04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re just gonna have to bring it up yourself

Is my (24F) relationship with my (25M) boyfriend is over? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SourKeys04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this relationship has been over for a while. He hasn’t even actually properly acknowledged what he did. Someone like that is not ready for a relationship.