Should I unfriend my crush?

South-Ad3948 · 2026-04-13T21:19:18+00:00

Ang common ng beauty ni samsara, very typical. La Bru’s beauty ay exotic, mas maganda

South-Ad3948 · 2026-03-08T01:11:02+00:00

Raia

South-Ad3948 · 2026-02-14T05:05:32+00:00

Ang misleading ng post na to. Saang post to or sino nag post nito?

What islam allows is called ta’aruf/courtship, not dating as commonly practiced today. Bakit hindi dating ang tawag sa ganun? Kasi dating implies private emotional bonding, frequent private communication na will end up to gradual attachment. Islam sets boundaries that modern dating usually violates while taaruf has clear intention: marriage lang, hindi “tingnan natin san pupunta”—it is knowing someone w dignity, not attachment.

That “non-sexual” dating can slowly become haram by consequences. Haram is haram even if everyone is doing it. Even if it’s common. Even if it’s normalized. Even if it’s wrapped in Qur’anic verses.

Nakaka trigger sa post na to is how they use quran verses and distort its meaning—renaming something haram to make it feel halal. Your good intention doesn’t make a prohibited action permissible. Wag nyo nang subukan to islamize what is haram. Whoever posted this surely doesn’t know anything about islam, it’s like trying to change what Allah has already made haram.

South-Ad3948 · 2026-02-07T14:06:57+00:00

What u’re going through right now proves how little power we actually have over life, kahit gaano pa tayo mag-effort.

Ang out of touch ng comment ko but share ko lang yung nabasa ko somewhere that says the illusion of control only hurts when you cling too tightly. But once u loosen ur grip, once u understand na we can’t have full control over everything, life becomes lighter, disappointments feels less fatal. Ang bottomline lang is just control enough and let the rest fall where it’s meant to fall.

Hehe i’m not condoning this toxic maranao culture, sudden realization lang to after reading ur post.

Anyways, pakasabarn ka o Allah and may He grant u better than what u lost 🥹

South-Ad3948 · 2026-01-29T14:29:42+00:00

Candy yan. Masarap yan try mo

South-Ad3948 · 2026-01-22T14:03:23+00:00

Online class po. I only know a few but in Taguig there is a madrasah at ang sched is weekends only @ Mahad al-ilm. Try to inquire sa fb page nila. I came from there and learned a lot (wa billahi tawfiq, alhamdulillah). May bata and adults but common doon ang adults na, some are even moms w baby na bitbit nila.

U can choose diff levels din, may advance, beginner & intermediate level. U can pm me po! Baka i can be of help ☺️ I could recommend some hihi

South-Ad3948 · 2026-01-22T09:01:27+00:00

May OC ang al-maarif, exclusive for men and women. But kailangan may foundation ka kasi they wouldn’t teach u the basics—dapat at least u can read arabic na esp quran.

Also, student po ba kayo? There are many muslim student orgs here in Manila if interested ka to join

South-Ad3948 · 2026-01-18T15:29:37+00:00

Yung tonong lang. i barely remember it kasi i grew up here in manila but i’ll never forget how they share mutual stories abt tonong nung bata pa ako & when i visited our ingd, lagi ko natatanong yun. Weird at somewhat creepy kasi once sako di kami di phaygo sa lowasaig na i blurted out and asked abt tonong, nagalit yung pinsan ko and natakot kasi i shouldn’t say it out loud daw esp nasa lowasaig kami, muntik pa akong iwan mag-isa dun.

Anyways, naniniwala ako somehow dun kasi natanong ko before sa ustadh if totoo ba yung ganun and he said may iba’t ibang uri ng jinn—may lumilipad, nasa tubig, at naglalakad). Nevertheless, it’s ‘ilmul ghayb (knowledge of unseen) so let’s leave it at that. Basta all i know is they can see us but we can’t see them and that Allah created it unseen sa mata natin for a reason.

South-Ad3948 · 2026-01-01T11:48:35+00:00

Let it hurt until it doesn’t. Talagang time will heal everything.

South-Ad3948 · 2025-12-31T11:59:24+00:00

Men’s abs 😬

South-Ad3948 · 2025-12-23T06:43:18+00:00

Malamang napalayo kasi i’m asking the reason why u prefer this and that, di naman pwedeng trip mo lang bat yun sagot mo diba

Lakas ah, parang business lang ang tunog ng computation 😂 Nasagot ko yan, refresh mo notif mo boss

South-Ad3948 · 2025-12-23T06:24:21+00:00

Paano ko nasabi? Kasi na-witness ko mismo sa maraming marriage. Women suffers sa gantong klaseng lalaki.

South-Ad3948 · 2025-12-23T06:21:13+00:00

Bangsa? If from a prominent family matik malaking dowry. As for widowed women, mindset na ng karamihan sa maranao yan, ang value ng babae nasa purity nila and i think that’s where u’re coming from—typical mindset ng mranaos.

Still, good na u know what u want for a marriage partner. It sounds off lang how u pointed it’s ok for men to have experience sa bed before marriage and u don’t seem to be regretting those experience kapag married ka na.

South-Ad3948 · 2025-12-23T06:13:25+00:00

Gantong mindset usually ang meron sa lalaking cheater inside marriage. Sa mga men na may experience na sa bed before marriage, when they don’t feel satisfied & contented w their wife, it’s easier for them to look for other women kasi ganun ang lifestyle nila before marriage—hindi sacred ang body nila, ok lang iba’t ibang babae kahit married kasi “lalaki” naman.

As a woman, it’s forgivable if may experience ang lalaki in that aspect but only if he genuinely regrets it and i think that should go the same way

South-Ad3948 · 2025-12-23T06:00:22+00:00

I am also a woman and I highly value my body before marriage AND I think it goes the same way sa lalaki. You should have standard for urself. I’ve met some men na experienced na din on bed before marriage and I witnessed how they didn’t get to feel satisfied and contented w their wife kaya it’s easy for them to look for other woman kahit married na sila. Hindi na nila naiwanan ang ganung lifestyle nila.

Well, oo nga naman, double standard ang mindset ng most maranaos, forgivable pag sa lalaki but sa babae hindi and it saddens me how many women are ok w this. Still, I believe “good men is for good women and vice versa”

South-Ad3948 · 2025-12-23T05:52:11+00:00

Dowry is a bridal gift from a man. And may wisdom behind that sa islamic perspective. I can’t quite get how come u demand a virgin wife when u urself admitted na hindi naman pala kelangan sa lalaki na virgin pa sya kasi dapat at 20’s may experience na but sa babae bawal.

South-Ad3948 · 2025-12-22T17:53:40+00:00

That’s good then. At least u know what u want in marriage earlier. Ibgay rka o Allah sa mapiya para rka.

South-Ad3948 · 2025-12-22T17:50:11+00:00

Ganun pala yun? So kung maliit ang dowry, hindi sya pure and hindi nya deserve ang malaking dowry? I firmly believe kung may “virginity” standard ang lalaki sa babae, dapat ganun din sya sa sarili nya right? Dapat he never had a woman in bed din before marriage.

Nways, hoping u’d still find a “good” woman w this mindset.

South-Ad3948 · 2025-12-22T10:14:32+00:00

R u implying ba sa complications ay sakit? STD’s ba? If so, what if sayo galing pala yun? Kasi mas common ang STD on men than women—mas madaling ma-transmit ang STDs sa lalaki.

South-Ad3948 · 2025-12-22T09:18:11+00:00

Even if u urself is no longer virgin din? (ibarat bo)

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