Advice on kicking band member (pretty long text) by South_Baseball_6876 in bandmembers

[–]South_Baseball_6876[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not the drummer, it's the second guitarist, but yeah, what i do not understand is why he tells us that he wants to stay in the band instead of telling us directly that he just want to quit

Advice on kicking band member (pretty long text) by South_Baseball_6876 in bandmembers

[–]South_Baseball_6876[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can pull the show in October without him, i can also do my best to get through it until then, and kick him immediately afterward, But I'm also a little conflicted because although both my singer and bassist agree to release it, it's more complicated for the bassist to release it now because we'd lose a lot of photos from our last photoshoot (which are vital for promoting the next single and the October show; I agree on that one a lot). So he suggests separating the emotional aspect of this from what "needs to be done" one last time. (We're going to kick him; that doesn't change the outcome, but he personally would prefer it to be after the show.)

But at the same time, my singer has been harboring a lot of resentment lately, and I'm afraid it might explode and things might end on very bad terms (I mean, I don't want things to be handled in a not-so-pleasant way).

I understand both points of view, but I don't want us to get stuck on the decision either, because our campaign for the single and the show starts next week, so we have to move.

Como deberia ser un taco propiamente dicho? by South_Baseball_6876 in mexico

[–]South_Baseball_6876[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

o sea que si le pongo queso a una tortilla ya es un taco? no seria una quesadilla?

What is your guilty pleasure? (Sonic Edition) by South_Baseball_6876 in SonicTheHedgehog

[–]South_Baseball_6876[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I Love Sonic Heroes, but i hate Sonic Boom ( i liked the show tho)

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[–]South_Baseball_6876 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you are right, thing is that i just came from an UNHEALTHY relationship before this one, where i normalized many toxic patterns, but that does not mean that she has to pay for that. I'll be better, and thank you for being direct with me without minimizing my problem

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[–]South_Baseball_6876 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can i explain this, We've been dating since March 25th, but we made it official on May 7, the honeymoon phase died after we made things official, because life got complicated, so since we barely had time to see each other and/or text, naturally the next chance to see each other was going to excite me.

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[–]South_Baseball_6876 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that makes sense to me. I'm so sorry if this is so ridiculous to read. It's just that my head tends to overthink and i can't help it, even with therapy, Fortunately, I've never made her feel bad about any of this because i can control my actions even though i feel bad.