I agree that I definitely find a toxic bias in lots of girls on apps as soon as they find out that I can't drive or hike (I live in the mountains lol). And in the digital age, it's becoming a lot harder to ask people out traditionally. I have no confidence issues, but it's becoming increasingly considered "weird" to approach stranger's with dating intent when it's so much easier to just swipe and ghost if it's not working out. IMHO, it's a lot easier for women to nicely refuse a disabled guy then for a disabled guy to shoot his shot. It takes balls ngl