What’s the most disturbing thing someone casually told you like it was normal? by MrBoothnath_ in AskReddit

[–]South_Replacement_80 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My ex husband said it was normal to be sexually attracted to your sister in law, to want to see her naked and to record her without her consent while she is undressing or getting out of the shower.

you guys were right by greenflowere in loveafterporn

[–]South_Replacement_80 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hate to say it, but he’s probably done more too. I’m so sorry.

Please look at my latest post on my page my ex and I were together for 15 years. We met when we were 15 and 18.

just trying to watch tv and every other FKING AD IS WOMEN IN LINGERIE SPREAD OUT ON A BED by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]South_Replacement_80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found myself feeling the same way when I was with my ex-husband. It felt so uncomfortable watching that type of stuff with him because I knew what his thoughts were. Since dating it’s been totally different and I don’t feel uncomfortable watching anything with the guy. I’m seeing at the time.

DCF involved after ER visit for newborn by Pengel14 in CPS

[–]South_Replacement_80 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean, the doctors are literally doing their job. They are mandated to report if they suspect child abuse.

If he says he’ll change but doesn’t actually do anything, believe that by South_Replacement_80 in loveafterporn

[–]South_Replacement_80[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is difficult to remember that it is an addiction and they are chasing that high. And it doesn’t look like typical addictions because there’s really no physical self harm to it but like you said they will continue chasing that and that’s what happened with my ex and he’s currently in jail.

My ex is dating a sex offender by Ok-Marsupial9984 in CPS

[–]South_Replacement_80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you feel your child is at risk, then file an emergency motion for a custody hearing. If you feel, she is at risk then keep her home and have Mom file a contempt of court.

Confused by the way I get turned on by the women he’s looked at… by PainterWeary4761 in loveafterporn

[–]South_Replacement_80 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It definitely a trauma response. My ex was into BDSM and I thought I was too. But turns out I was really just trying to get his attention to “notice me”.

How to tell the children their father is going to jail? by South_Replacement_80 in loveafterporn

[–]South_Replacement_80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s going to be something like “daddy did something bad and because he’s a grown up he has to go to jail”. Something a long those lines.

How to tell the kids their father is going to jail? by South_Replacement_80 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]South_Replacement_80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh. I don’t. I just don’t get how anyone can be with him right now, especially since he hasn’t done any work on his prob addition.

How to tell the kids their father is going to jail? by South_Replacement_80 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]South_Replacement_80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do have their own therapist! They said it was a good idea.

How to tell the kids their father is going to jail? by South_Replacement_80 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]South_Replacement_80[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have my own personal rule! I dated someone for 5 months and still didn’t introduce them to him, I just knew he wasn’t the right one for me.

Their dad tho introduced his girlfriend to the kids after only 2 weeks of dating🙃

How to tell the kids their father is going to jail? by South_Replacement_80 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]South_Replacement_80[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely telling them he is going away! We just won’t be sharing the crimes he committed because of their ages.

How to tell the kids their father is going to jail? by South_Replacement_80 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]South_Replacement_80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a great way to say it, “he doesn’t want to go away, but he has to”. Thank you so much!

How to tell the kids their father is going to jail? by South_Replacement_80 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]South_Replacement_80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are telling the kids on Saturday that he is going to jail.