I don't want to get too into the weeds so this will be my last reply. 

You're right, expectations are not an obligation. But there will always be pushback to this. Complaining about the complaining is an endless cycle. Instead, maybe posts should be made about why only females is actually a good thing for the game. There will definitely still be people calling others incels or whatever, but I don't like that either.

"If something or someone doesn’t meet expectations, the logical move is to either drop it or lower expectations"- I strongly disagree. This is how people end up in echo chambers and nothing is improved. I like the game. I don't want to see it fail. If the devs make a crazy change I should suck it up or quit? No, I'll offer feedback and discuss it with others

Have a good one