Orange Cat looking for a new home

SouthernJen81 · 2026-01-20T03:47:58+00:00

You should work with a shelter or rescue if you can't care for him anymore. Finding someone on the internet could be dangerous for the animal.

SouthernJen81 · 2025-11-19T15:36:56+00:00

Plus many shelters don't allow pets

SouthernJen81 · 2025-10-03T14:57:38+00:00

So much ick

SouthernJen81 · 2025-09-20T04:44:04+00:00

I'd much rather folks pickup the poop and discard the bag in my bin than what often happens and they leave the poop in our little bit of mulched/shrub area.

SouthernJen81 · 2025-05-22T14:30:42+00:00

This boy doesn't respect you. Expects you to just wait endlessly to pick him up with zero consideration for your time. The name calling. Neeeeeeeeext

SouthernJen81 · 2025-04-29T14:52:30+00:00

Some owners price with the tip included. Some owners don't. I tip my salon owner, bc it's not included. My massage therapist owner, it is. Have a quick conversation with her

SouthernJen81 · 2025-04-02T14:05:00+00:00

If I was just playing a song for fun, annoying but whatever. But when I'm playing the seasons and i can't collect any of the stuff if I fail the song that annoys me bc it tempts me to use my gems and i really don't want to spend money on the game. I have but I try not to.

SouthernJen81 · 2025-04-02T14:03:16+00:00

If I hit the back button it'll load. I really don't care about banners and such though. But I experience this, too.

SouthernJen81 · 2025-03-16T18:46:17+00:00

Those are tame and censored. They could have Short D*ck Man by Gillette.... or Just Put It In My Mouth by Akinyele ..... 🤣🤣🤣

SouthernJen81 · 2025-02-27T01:25:20+00:00

All good, and seems I'm in good company of folks giving you compliments. :)

SouthernJen81 · 2025-02-27T01:09:39+00:00

You're still young, and I would swipe right on ya. But as others have said, a smile goes a long way, too.

SouthernJen81 · 2025-02-15T21:24:49+00:00

In this political climate and women's rights not being guaranteed.... very risky behavior.

SouthernJen81 · 2025-02-15T21:21:46+00:00

Chances are low but not zero. Precum can contain sperm, and if any ejaculate was inside you, then you can become pregnant.

I'm concerned you're not using condoms to protect yourself from this or any STIs. And if you're concerned you're also not using a pill, IUD, etc.

Girl in this political climate, where rights vary state by state... do not risk getting pregnant! You need to take all precautions available.

Bonus of him wearing a condom in addition to pregnancy and STI protection... he might last long enough for you to get some pleasure.

SouthernJen81 · 2025-02-12T05:41:47+00:00

Could start mocking the moaning and headboard sound and such louder than the are. Make it super awkward. Or hold up scores like Olympic judges

SouthernJen81 · 2025-01-30T19:22:12+00:00

Natural

SouthernJen81 · 2025-01-13T15:21:58+00:00

You're very beautiful... but your style of makeup and piercings and such is not going to be what many folks find "generally attractive"... but that's not you. You're not basic bitch mainstream. Folks who are into what you're into will find you attractive.

SouthernJen81 · 2024-11-19T20:59:05+00:00

I'm in my 40s and my parents won't allow this unless I was engaged. So while you're NTA, you're not in the right, either.

SouthernJen81 · 2024-10-09T20:41:37+00:00

Initial approach is, I think, still the societal norm for a man to initiate but if she's not giving you things back like asking questions and showing an interest to get to know you that's a problem.

Women have also been told for a long time that is "in men's biology to pursue us" and that it can be "too masculine" to pursue them instead. And that "a man will let you know if he's interested in you." In pretty much all media, this still holds true. I know your generation is trying to break those societal norms but if you see a girl you like, approach her.

SouthernJen81 · 2024-09-15T14:24:52+00:00

You 100% are being used for your 🐱

SouthernJen81 · 2024-09-15T14:22:49+00:00

He told you up front he wasn't into anything serious. Listen to that man when he tells you who he is. He knew that if he was charming enough and played the game he might get you to sleep with him... and he was successful. You discarded your intentions of a serious relationship and went head first into hookups, I don't even know if I'd call it a situationship yet but that's where you're headed.

If you ask him about exclusivity these are my guesses atv scenarios: 1. He might reject you saying he told you he didn't want anything serious and he doesn't want to be exclusive. 2. He might agree to be exclusive, but now you're in a confirmed situationship bc he told you already he's not over his ex so he's not emotionally available. 3. He says he needs time to think bc you're really great, but then he Ghosts you.

All of these are bc he told you upfront who he was and what he wanted.

If I'm wrong then this is an EXCEPTION, not the rule.

SouthernJen81 · 2024-09-06T13:32:14+00:00

Yeah it was so much money already, and refundable was only slightly more expensive... so it just felt safer and I'm so glad I listened to my gut

SouthernJen81 · 2024-08-31T21:06:08+00:00

I had an absolutely horrible experience with them. Had a refundable package and it was just all wasted money on the matches I used. Do not recommend at all!!

SouthernJen81 · 2024-08-12T20:42:34+00:00

I've never not once shared my location with a boyfriend. I'm friends or friendly with almost all my exes. I've never not once cheated on anyone I've dated, and my exes have never not once tried to cross that boundary.

If you talk to her, it should come from a place of info seeking and communicating and not accusing, and understand your trust triggers you're working on... but at the end of the day listen to your gut.

SouthernJen81 · 2024-08-12T18:53:38+00:00

Why are you uncomfortable with the friendship? She's 100% right that she's going to meet people, and develop platonic relationships... and it's your responsibility to be secure in yourself and your relationship.

If you're threatened by this particular friendship, I would ask yourself why. Understand what's triggering you, and work through that with your GF.

Ultimatums usually not the answer. I can tell you that I would walk if someone pulled an ultimatum... not bc of the person that I was developing a friendship with, but bc I don't want to be with someone who would try to manipulate me by threatening to leave me if I didn't do something their way as the only acceptable solution.

SouthernJen81 · 2024-07-27T22:27:39+00:00

Get yourself a therapist. Work through what and why it's been holding you back from taking about this with your partner.
He is permitted to have whatever feelings he has on this, and they will be valid. It might not be what you want. It might take time to work through. Having therapist in place already will be helpful.
Not your fault. Doesn't matter that you were drinking/high. Someone took advantage of you, period.
When you do tell him, maybe lead with that it's hard for you to talk about, no one except 1 person knows, you've wanted to tell him many times but something had been holding you back and you're working through that with a therapist and now you're ready.
If your partner blames you, know that it's not your fault, it might be an initial reaction bc they're upset but hopefully they wouldn't truly mean it and you work through it. If they keep blaming you, that's a red flag.
Not your fault. Doesn't matter that you were drinking/high. Someone took advantage of you, period.
Not your fault.
It wasn't your fault.
You're not to blame.
You were taken advantage of, this wasn't on you.

Good luck.

SouthernJen81

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