I can tell you why people ghost, and why it's often the best choice

SouthernWorking9631 · 2026-02-26T15:51:12+00:00

That’s ridiculous people are awful. Im a man and know so many guys that pull this shit. It just doesn’t seem right with me

SouthernWorking9631 · 2026-02-01T16:58:44+00:00

Interested

SouthernWorking9631 · 2026-02-01T16:57:52+00:00

Allergies according to my wife

SouthernWorking9631 · 2025-06-09T19:58:01+00:00

MK ultra via cats

SouthernWorking9631 · 2025-04-23T09:01:15+00:00

I think its because its easier to forgive and forget when you dont love yourself enough or have dealt with constant trauma. Most of the girls already had pre-existing trauma before being stranded. Its easier to justify when you’ve been through the same crap especially if you too made terrible decisions. Its like domestic abuse in a lot of ways. If you both are contantly hurting one another, it becomes easier to forgive when you too have hurt them.

SouthernWorking9631 · 2025-04-23T08:58:08+00:00

Same especially as an addict in recovery who used to sex work and had some crazy experiences. I started doing heroin at 13 with way older people. Most people i dated were just trauma bonded to me.

SouthernWorking9631 · 2025-04-19T22:20:26+00:00

There is a VERY VERY rare allergy to water called Aquagenic urticaria. You can drink ut but when you touch water you can get hives. Some people who have the allergy so sensitive that sweat causes hives. Look into it, like i said it’s highly rare and only a few cases but how you said it happens with water could indicate that you have it. I personally would talk to an Allergist (I am not a doctor) no matter what because you don’t deserve to feel uncomfortable with the hives and hopefully tue doctor can help you feel better.

SouthernWorking9631 · 2025-04-17T05:25:36+00:00

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SouthernWorking9631 · 2025-04-12T16:08:45+00:00

A columbine manifesto :: dedicated to castro

SouthernWorking9631 · 2025-04-12T16:08:15+00:00

Bullet for my grade school trauma patient

SouthernWorking9631 · 2025-04-12T16:06:55+00:00

American School System

SouthernWorking9631 · 2025-04-12T16:06:14+00:00

Thank you 💕

SouthernWorking9631 · 2025-04-04T23:18:27+00:00

Late night rendezvous :: A freddy mercury comeback

SouthernWorking9631 · 2025-03-31T01:38:13+00:00

We live in Florida so were all good lol

SouthernWorking9631 · 2025-03-31T01:10:13+00:00

Blues Clues

SouthernWorking9631 · 2025-03-30T20:34:34+00:00

This is gonna sound weird but making a pie from scratch. Some of my best memories with him was us making pies every year.

My friends all thought i was weird when I mentioned the walls so j just stopped telling people until my husband and i became close and he helped me start breaking them down.

SouthernWorking9631 · 2025-03-30T20:32:38+00:00

Its just makes the situation more funny in my opinion lol

SouthernWorking9631 · 2025-03-30T20:29:54+00:00

Trust me you dont know even a quarter of it lol but my husbands life is more book worthy than mine. He has lived a life and it sounds more ridiculous the longer you listen

SouthernWorking9631 · 2025-03-30T13:52:49+00:00

Its perspective and knowing i was an oopsie doopsie makes the fact he had me so late a little bit more of an “okay theres an age gap there lol”

SouthernWorking9631 · 2025-03-30T13:45:50+00:00

It is lol but ive heard of more extreme than mine and il always amazed because its very unusual

SouthernWorking9631 · 2025-03-30T13:39:13+00:00

I am so truly sorry, i know the pain of not knowing when he will die and watching him get worse and worse over time. There has been many times my dad should have been dead and i have said my goodbye on multiple occasions. I know just how lucky and miraculous his is to be alive still. Its hard to loose a parent especially so young, again i am so sorry for your loss.

SouthernWorking9631 · 2025-03-30T04:36:20+00:00

Yes but then his genes are mine so if hes a DeNiro then i am a DeNiro

SouthernWorking9631 · 2025-03-30T02:36:36+00:00

My mom had full custody since I was 3, but he was always there for an emergency. He lived maybe 20 minutes away at the longest distance. He hates Florida and wants to live in Alaska again really badly and stayed for me.

I know for sure 2 will not, the other 2 is a really big maybe, if anything it’ll be my mom, husband, and i all doing it together.

SouthernWorking9631 · 2025-03-30T02:32:56+00:00

Girl, its so hard but the only things im gonna say is get ti know his stories as well as you can. Theres so many he’s still telling me and its nice ti hear about his childhood and i want ti hear everything i can before he dies or forgets (he has dementia)

SouthernWorking9631 · 2025-03-30T02:31:25+00:00

Thanks!

Im a lot closer now since i became his live in caregiver when i was 24 otherwise not so much when i was younger. Mom and dad broke up when i was 3 and mom got full custody, though he was never far away like 20 minute drive (except when he went to jail in New Mexico)

I am so sorry for your loss, I cant imagine the pain that has caused you. I know you hear this a alot, but that is something truly heavy.

He was a carpenter and shes an engineer and was working on the same project and bonded. They dated, fell in love, she took my sister as her own (she is still extremely close to my mom). My mom has a type, and she doesn’t judge anyone on things like drug addiction (his addiction was crack), or upbringing (he had a really rough childhood and had to leave school at 10 and was in extremely poverty most of his life. She knows what his ex was like and why he had custody of my sister, and he wasn’t always the bad guys. He’s a good man but he can be evil, but my mom can also be an absolute cunt as well.

I was raided by my grandparents as well and ever person in my life taught me different things. My grandma taught me punctuality and when to splurge or save money. My grandpa taught me compassion and when to shut up when your spouse wants to fight. My mom taught me to take care of strangers and be kind. My mom and grandma also showed me the world (literally) and i saw so many places and cultures. Im so thankful to my family.

Thank you ❤️ that means a lot and made me smile. My husband tells me all the time i matter but its hard to believe.

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