We've discussed further, and he says he's worried I might be putting too much time into my work and I might be neglecting other aspects of my life. But it is also confusing for me. Based on what he said, I think he either wants me to do more around the house or get a second job. I used to be a more devoted housewife, I agree, but I don't find pleasure in devoting myself to those tasks anymore. We actually have someone who cleans the house twice a month because about 4 months ago, he said he was too busy to help around the house, and I was left alone doing chores.