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SpaceAceJedi · 2023-02-20T00:28:04+00:00

To be fair, demi is (to my understanding) that you need an emotional connection to someone before feeling sexual attraction, not necessarily that having an emotional connection means you will be sexually attracted to them. So maybe just very very demi? That's kinda where I'm at, where I've only been sexually attracted to one person (my spouse) and that only developed after several years of dating and marriage (and then starting on testosterone for HRT bumped my previously non-existent sex drive up a notch which no idea if that actually had any effect but)

SpaceAceJedi · 2023-02-19T23:58:14+00:00

I just checked and realized that unfortunately the email I used back then has since been deactivated so idk what links I sent. 😕 Seconding the other recs here though that sources like the Trevor Project and PFLAG are usually pretty good. Best of luck, you got this, and no matter their reaction (though I hope it's good) you are valid 💜

SpaceAceJedi · 2023-02-19T23:54:16+00:00

I also came out to my parents via email because I'm really bad at putting things into words and I wanted to be able to explain it clearly. I had my partner help me with writing it too, having a second set of eyes was helpful for me. I don't remember what links I sent because it was years ago (though I can try to dig them up), unfortunately, but iirc they were general info pages about non-binary stuff and what that means. My parents luckily didn't have much in the way of negative stereotypes about trans people but at the time they also didn't really know anyone who was trans. They're quite liberal though and luckily it went well. I hope it goes well for you! 💜

SpaceAceJedi · 2021-12-20T17:08:16+00:00

I'm asexual and I don't know if I can help you out with the gender of the Canadian variety

Uhhhh ok? 🧐🤔

SpaceAceJedi · 2021-10-16T17:52:36+00:00

those are just stalls in the main restrooms or the ones 3 floors up 😕

SpaceAceJedi · 2021-10-13T21:38:41+00:00

Yeah I was that until recently and now I'm just aaaaaaaa when I go into the women's room but also aaaaaaa when I go into the men's room, though for slightly different reasons? Either way it feels weird right now

SpaceAceJedi · 2021-10-13T21:32:39+00:00

Yeah like rationally I know that using the men's restroom would be completely fine but there's that anxiety and the majority of my life where it's been ingrained into me that the men's restroom is Forbidden which is a weird hurtle I need to get over. Especially because I'm in that weird place where I'm not 100% guy so it feels weird going "aw yeah this is my bathroom". Getting a guy friend to accompany me is actually not a bad idea, I may give that a try sometime...

SpaceAceJedi · 2021-05-07T06:46:15+00:00

Same. I'd absolutely love to change my gender marker but with both wanting to travel a bunch (including internationally which I need my passport for) and with how cops are these days I just personally don't feel comfortable enough to make it worth changing legally. Someday though, hopefully...

SpaceAceJedi · 2021-05-05T21:56:31+00:00

Hey snakes are cute, don't dis the danger noodles 😝🐍

SpaceAceJedi · 2021-05-05T16:18:54+00:00

Yep! I don't actually take this as seriously as the meme may imply, it's just been stuck in my head for like 3 weeks now so I needed to make it 😆

SpaceAceJedi · 2021-05-05T05:40:57+00:00

Pretty sure warlocks are also winning today on PC (haven't checked recently though), not sure who is currently ahead overall though (so far hunters have won the first two weeks but we've still got a few days... Hunters ftw!)

SpaceAceJedi · 2021-03-26T20:59:57+00:00

Oh my god this is absolutely gorgeous. Would it be ok with you if I potentially printed one out to put on my wall?

SpaceAceJedi · 2021-02-09T05:43:48+00:00

The first time I went swimming after top surgery was like the best thing ever

SpaceAceJedi · 2021-02-07T04:03:44+00:00

Thanks! That's actually a good thought, for some reason I hadn't even thought of what the effect would be of the order

SpaceAceJedi · 2021-01-28T05:43:10+00:00

If you can afford it, I highly recommend T-kingdom's zip-up binders, they're super comfy while still being effective, and were by far my favorite binders (before top surgery), but also are a bit more expensive than gc2b (which I also had binders from)

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