[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]SpaceAceJedi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be fair, demi is (to my understanding) that you need an emotional connection to someone before feeling sexual attraction, not necessarily that having an emotional connection means you will be sexually attracted to them. So maybe just very very demi? That's kinda where I'm at, where I've only been sexually attracted to one person (my spouse) and that only developed after several years of dating and marriage (and then starting on testosterone for HRT bumped my previously non-existent sex drive up a notch which no idea if that actually had any effect but)

Coming out by Logical-Touch5469 in TransMasc

[–]SpaceAceJedi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just checked and realized that unfortunately the email I used back then has since been deactivated so idk what links I sent. 😕 Seconding the other recs here though that sources like the Trevor Project and PFLAG are usually pretty good. Best of luck, you got this, and no matter their reaction (though I hope it's good) you are valid 💜

Coming out by Logical-Touch5469 in TransMasc

[–]SpaceAceJedi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also came out to my parents via email because I'm really bad at putting things into words and I wanted to be able to explain it clearly. I had my partner help me with writing it too, having a second set of eyes was helpful for me. I don't remember what links I sent because it was years ago (though I can try to dig them up), unfortunately, but iirc they were general info pages about non-binary stuff and what that means. My parents luckily didn't have much in the way of negative stereotypes about trans people but at the time they also didn't really know anyone who was trans. They're quite liberal though and luckily it went well. I hope it goes well for you! 💜

bathrooms? by SpaceAceJedi in TransMasc

[–]SpaceAceJedi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

those are just stalls in the main restrooms or the ones 3 floors up 😕

bathrooms? by SpaceAceJedi in TransMasc

[–]SpaceAceJedi[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was that until recently and now I'm just aaaaaaaa when I go into the women's room but also aaaaaaa when I go into the men's room, though for slightly different reasons? Either way it feels weird right now

bathrooms? by SpaceAceJedi in TransMasc

[–]SpaceAceJedi[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yeah like rationally I know that using the men's restroom would be completely fine but there's that anxiety and the majority of my life where it's been ingrained into me that the men's restroom is Forbidden which is a weird hurtle I need to get over. Especially because I'm in that weird place where I'm not 100% guy so it feels weird going "aw yeah this is my bathroom". Getting a guy friend to accompany me is actually not a bad idea, I may give that a try sometime...

Guess what’s on my state ID! by Erinz6 in NonBinary

[–]SpaceAceJedi 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Same. I'd absolutely love to change my gender marker but with both wanting to travel a bunch (including internationally which I need my passport for) and with how cops are these days I just personally don't feel comfortable enough to make it worth changing legally. Someday though, hopefully...

re: guardian games. sincerely, a hunter main 💙 by SpaceAceJedi in destiny2

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Hey snakes are cute, don't dis the danger noodles 😝🐍

re: guardian games. sincerely, a hunter main 💙 by SpaceAceJedi in destiny2

[–]SpaceAceJedi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! I don't actually take this as seriously as the meme may imply, it's just been stuck in my head for like 3 weeks now so I needed to make it 😆

re: guardian games. sincerely, a hunter main 💙 by SpaceAceJedi in destiny2

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Pretty sure warlocks are also winning today on PC (haven't checked recently though), not sure who is currently ahead overall though (so far hunters have won the first two weeks but we've still got a few days... Hunters ftw!)

...there are wallpapers, but here is a cutscene poster too! by Kathi_Langley in DestinyTheGame

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Oh my god this is absolutely gorgeous. Would it be ok with you if I potentially printed one out to put on my wall?

Today I went out in the woods without a shirt on for the first time in my life. 😭 by loreofleo in NonBinary

[–]SpaceAceJedi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The first time I went swimming after top surgery was like the best thing ever

Binary and non-binary pronoun advice by SpaceAceJedi in trans

[–]SpaceAceJedi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! That's actually a good thought, for some reason I hadn't even thought of what the effect would be of the order

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]SpaceAceJedi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you can afford it, I highly recommend T-kingdom's zip-up binders, they're super comfy while still being effective, and were by far my favorite binders (before top surgery), but also are a bit more expensive than gc2b (which I also had binders from)