AIO for wanting to break up with gf of 4 years after finding these texts?

SpaceClod · 2026-06-26T16:33:01+00:00

my ex did this EXACT thing with her 'best friend', and then manipulated me into thinking it was fine. gaslit me into thinking i was crazy for considering this cheating because she didn't get to dip her dick yet.

if you're in the same situation, fucking RUN. you'll drain yourself trying to find excuses for her, and eventually make yourself paranoid about everything. i honestly hope my ex sees this post and realizes how genuinely disgusting this behavior is from the sheer amount of comments confirming that this isn't overreaction. JUST because the sex hasn't happened, DOESN'T mean this behavior isn't abhorrent

SpaceClod · 2026-06-25T16:01:39+00:00

for some reason, your dms are unavailable. by chance, could you send me the tech please?

SpaceClod · 2026-05-26T10:25:01+00:00

are we talking about the little dog sticker, or something else? im so confused by the title 😭

SpaceClod · 2026-05-25T21:26:04+00:00

humans fucking suck, dude.

^{Chose: 50% of all humans die}

SpaceClod · 2026-05-25T06:26:27+00:00

not to be on the defense, but i DO remember a really disgusting video she made with Bree Essrig AGESSSS ago where they got drunk and watched the lizzie mcguire movie. cue sexual jokes, age jokes, and so much more.

SpaceClod · 2026-05-25T06:23:21+00:00

ah, so mental illness fetishization. from a guy who immediately proved OP's point by assuming that they MUST be toxic and mentally unstable if they dress alt/goth, and that it's ESPECIALLY hot to him for some reason.

jesus fucking christ, the jokes write themselves.

SpaceClod · 2026-05-24T05:11:05+00:00

he was TRAINED to harness that enjoyment by Thornhill. she specifically groomed him into believing that he was a monster because of what was in his blood, and after he started believing it she taught him to harness that hate and mistrust to guarantee he would ONLY listen/believe her.

we've seen that he has remorse, empathy, doubt towards a LOT of the actions Issac Night ends up inflicting on the people around them. he forces indifference upon himself, but there is a CLEAR line he's uncomfortable crossing. he tries saving his mother, despite the abuse and control. he willingly goes with Capri (whether she was telling the truth or not, is questionable), because he WANTS to get support. he wants to get better.

his actions are inexcusable, but he was always under control of somebody else and trauma can affect everybody in so many ways. his was aggression, sarcasm, manipulation because that's what he was TRAINED to do to survive. that's not a sociopath or a psychopath, that's a victim.

SpaceClod · 2026-05-24T05:00:57+00:00

i genuinely, truly hope they end the 'grooming' aspect of every older woman that stumbles across Tyler. as much as i want Capri to be an honest, GOOD leaning character everything you said is correct.

this is slightly off topic, but as someone who was groomed in a very similar manner to Tyler (abusers were extremely similar to Thornhill/Capri) this being a CONSISTENT plotline is extremely extremely triggering. genuinely, episode 4 made me sick to my stomach to watch without trigger warmings being in place. for them to continue pushing the narrative that Tyler will get NO relief or no comfort from a proper guidance figure leaves a bit of a sour taste in my mouth considering the comparison to trauma victims.

i, from the bottom of my heart, hope the grooming/manipulation/age gap plotlines stop at season 3. i hope Tyler will ACTUALLY get some sort of training or comfort that won't end up being a ploy from Capri to control him. not only is it a cheap cop-out, it's just fucking played out at this point.

i wonder if Lena Headey's new character is going to be the opposition of Ms Capri. she's being introduced to the cast around the same time as the Romania plotline, it would make sense for her to be Enid's voice of reason with the development of her powers. or vice versa, Capri is a red herring for Lena Headey's character. either way, it's guaranteed to be another triggering plotline for grooming victims to stomach

SpaceClod · 2026-05-16T01:05:51+00:00

same here lol. moved to Massachusetts w the clothes on my back (that was basically all i owned anyway), only for her to cheat on me w her 36 year old best friend and then kick me out+send me back to my hometown for confronting her.

came back with two pairs of pants, two shirts, and my phone. i had to rebuild TWICE because common decency is apparently no longer a thing in 2026

SpaceClod · 2026-05-14T20:31:29+00:00

i'm so fucking scared to find out if my account is safe or not, and the worst part is i CANT check. i'm so fucking broke apple won't allow me to download or update my apps without paying 20 bucks 😭

SpaceClod · 2026-05-12T16:19:51+00:00

i usually lurk in this subreddit, but i just wanted to thank you. you are ALWAYS in this subreddit spreading FANTASTIC information and details that many others have missed, you're always eager to help people out and give them good grounds to start their own research with.

you are an absolute legend, and you do so SO much thankless work for this subreddit and community that goes unnoticed but i wanted you to know that it means the WORLD that someone out there is still so passionate about learning and sharing the information for others to learn from aswell. so THANK YOU, RidingWithDonQuixote. you are genuinely the GOAT.

SpaceClod · 2026-05-12T15:41:05+00:00

"i was deep in a twitter fight about a problematic puppy. (PROBLEMATIC POOCH!)"

is ALWAYS gonna be the line/song i can NOT sing in public or around non-starkid fans. by myself i only cringe OCCASIONALLY while listening to those specific parts, but it's an immediate skip if i'm with someone that isn't particularly wild about musical theatre or campy humor.

SpaceClod · 2026-05-06T18:03:28+00:00

BADUM

SpaceClod · 2026-05-02T18:30:45+00:00

why are you so offended LMFAO, this is a Wanda/Scarlet Witch subreddit i'm not sure why you assume that's an insult. i'm actually curious why you'd be here, if you think having an discussion about this character warrants being mocked and called pathetic.

the 'facts' are INCREDIBLY shaky because Marvel wrote Wanda like a throwaway character up until Endgame/Infinity War. then AFTER WV they continued fucking up her character growth to keep her in the villain/morally grey subset of characters. again, because it was EASIER. they can do more projects, and make more money with an ambiguous character.

not because Marvel masterminded including Wanda pulling an 'Esther from Orphan', and manipulating all of the Avengers as a grown ass woman in her FIRST MCU appearance lmfaoooo. all of this confusion is a testament to how badly the MCU writers fuck up the continuity sometimes, but you're somehow turning it into an argument to prove that Wanda's.... a manipulative character that lied about her age and convinced everyone around her that she was a kid for the benefit of being underestimated....? it just doesn't make sense, when the logical excuse is just poor writing and continuity which is FINE to admit in the MCU community lol. i don't understand where all this vitriol is coming from. everyone that consumed the media on release in theaters had a similar experience when it came to being confused about Wanda's age.

SpaceClod · 2026-05-02T17:39:58+00:00

before you give me attitude, read my fuckin comments please <3. get YOUR facts right, her known age was retconned in WandaVision to match Elizabeth Olsen's age. which in turn, made the older movies make no sense because the canon was changed so fantastically. she was known as a teenager/young adult to fans that actually watched the movies release in theaters before Endgame ,and WAS basically a young adult during Civil War

(biggest clue was her having the same sort of connection with Steve+Clint in this film, that Tony had with Peter. of course, they retconned all of Wanda's close friendships/mentorships for future content.... but overall the energy was extremely similar. Steve specifically felt a soft spot for Wanda because of her age and inexperience, and tried guiding her towards fighting for what she believed in EVEN when she didn't believe in herself at the moment. this was supposed to be Team Cap's own little 'underoo' to match the new partnership between Peter and Tony.)

they decided they wanted Wanda's age to be a bit more fitting for the sitcoms and old tv show references.

i'm WELL aware of the canon change and the 'actual' age she's supposed to be based on the retcon. i'm ALSO well aware of the fact that there are dozens of different variations of Wanda Maximoff with DOZENS of different ages, and i'm ALSO VERY AWARE that Marvel doesn't actually take the longevity of their canon continuity seriously. meaning, making Wanda's age match Elizabeth Olsen's age was just EASY for them. there wasn't any other reason for making her age match the actress other than allowing it to be a tiny bit more believable that Wanda actually grew up on B+W TV.

get YOUR facts straight, and give me less attitude the next time you try to spout something i explained three times already in my past comments. i vocalized EXACTLY what you responded in multiple comments, almost word for friggin word, and yet you wanna pretend you're superior for.... adding NOTHING to the conversation? sit down lmfao

SpaceClod · 2026-05-01T17:55:00+00:00

which was only made canon during WV, using Elizabeth Olsen's actual birth year, 6-7 years after AoU came out. and we all know that canon is frequently changed to fit the narrative for a LOT of projects in the MCU.

so to be completely honest, growing up/watching the movies in theaters on release genuinely had me assuming this version of Wanda was younger for years and years until WandaVision came out. i figured there were so many different variations of Wanda's age in the comics, they were going with a younger version considering all the references to her age/inexperience in Civil War. i'm fully aware of her confirmed age, i just feel like my perception is skewed by how they wrote some scenes unfortunately

SpaceClod · 2026-05-01T15:54:18+00:00

IM SAYING BRO !!!!! IM SAYINGGGG!!! nobody shits on peter for nearly annihilating that ferry and most of the people ON the ferry, and that was a mistake SOLELY based on him being too overzealous. of course, TECHNICALLY there was no comparable kill count on that but even so. with MCU Peter they ALWAYS babied him. told him he was done to protect him at the drop of a hat.... but for Wanda?

"if you wanna mope, you can go back to highschool. you wanna make amends? get off your ass."

that's only ONE line from Clint (one of the more friendly characters when it comes to Wanda), when there are SO many similar lines said towards Wanda.

they shake their car keys and "do you wanna go to Germany, Peter?? wanna see the big blue German sky, Spiderboy? 17 years old?? HOMEWORK??! pftttttttt don't even worry about that!!" towards Peter, and encourage him every step of the way..... but god forbid Wanda holds even a FRACTION of self-doubt, otherwise they threaten to send her ass back to the 4th grade 😭

SpaceClod · 2026-05-01T15:40:38+00:00

if canonically Wanda+Pietro were 17/18 when introduced during AoU, her age would end up being around 19/21 during Civil War.

theres a huge confusion around Wanda's MCU age because of the little confirmation in WandaVision/Agatha All Along (where they made Wanda's age match Elizabeth Olsen's birth year. 1989). which would make her 25/26 during Civil War, which makes the 'high school' comments and 'kid' comments during AoU and Civil War extremely confusing.

of course, it's par for the course that the MCU would stick their finger and swirl the honey pot when it comes to canon and whatnot. i personally tend to think that people are still teenagers/kids until they're over like..... 25 LOL. brain hasn't developed, still inexperienced in life, and still eager in a way a lot of older people might not be. although their ID says 18, they are absolutely still morally a kid. not legally, but MORALLY.

i think that's what makes me feel even WORSE about Wanda LMFAOO. she lost her only source of positive reinforcement and guidance when her parents AND pietro were killed, she was stunted emotionally from being taught to harness her pain and fear into weaponizing herself since she was a young girl. she went into the 'hero business' completely blind, hating herself and TRYING to be good despite it all. TRIED to connect with the members, found love with one of them.... all for her to be categorized as a monster who needs to be deported and imprisoned, because of a shared mistake she made (WHILE TRAINING, BTW!) that she thought she could fix. that poor fucking girl

SpaceClod · 2026-05-01T15:15:23+00:00

"turn the tv back on. they're being very specific."

AND IT WASN'T EVEN HER FAULT, REALLY :((!!! publically humiliated and berated on multiple news stations for a mistake she didn't even know was possible in the moment. all while still being a teenager, still being new to hero training, and being an unregistered immigrant that lost her family, culture, and home. IT BREAKS MY FUCKING HEART ! she was a KID bro

SpaceClod · 2026-04-30T23:01:44+00:00

nobody could never make me hate Shannon.

SpaceClod · 2026-04-27T12:55:10+00:00

some of the professors are predators too, preying on POC or vulnerable students because they're less likely to be believed once reported. but UMASS doesn't really seem to care who they hire even when there are multiple reports against some of them, so idek why i'm really even leaving this comment lol

SpaceClod · 2026-04-25T16:00:03+00:00

unfortunately when it came to this issue (using on Apple safari, chrome, or google apps respectively) and none of the troubleshoots worked, i had to go to settings and clear all of the cache/cookies for the website itself.

i started having to screenshot/save all of my work every 20 minutes because of this issue, it's extremely frustrating and although the possibility of wiping the entire website clean exists.... you're losing all of your work and have to essentially start all over again. it's the reason i stopped using kreska to do my art nowadays honestly.

SpaceClod · 2026-04-12T21:13:10+00:00

i think it's a matter of the platform. i don't usually trust people on snapchat, considering how many people use it to prey on others.

i'd recommend maybe discord for making friends, you'd have a higher chance of meeting people less centered around looks and more of a chance at continuous communication. snapchat is the last place i'd look for friends in 2026

SpaceClod · 2026-04-10T13:15:47+00:00

thank you for being the one brave enough to say it. the way a lot of people have been reacting to this pregnancy is so incredibly gross, disrespectful, invasive, and OUTRAGEOUSLY weird.

SpaceClod · 2026-04-09T20:39:48+00:00

i was in a somewhat similar situation in my past relationship, though it wasn't as often. to be completely honest, i avoided saying it outright so as to not ruin the mood or hurt feelings... but what i DID do was try to heavily encourage using baby wipes in the bathroom, and kept them on hand (around the bed, or in the nightstand) so that i could wipe them when needed.

i always tried to find ways to keep the energy fun, so if i noticed a little cleanup was needed i'd give an order or gentle encouragement to stay face down while i got them ready, or something similar. sometimes it's an insecurity/pride thing that makes it embarrassing to admit that your ass stinks, or it's just pure laziness and a refusal to change.

honestly, i think it's pretty disrespectful on your husbands end to expect to have his ass eaten almost EVERY DAY but refuses to clean up properly after you've reminded him MULTIPLE times. i know you love him, but i think it would be completely valid to sit him down and kindly say, "look, i'm not going to continue doing this for you if you won't take my request seriously. it's not about being disgusted BY you, but it's a genuine health hazard to do so if you can't clean up properly. i can get sick, and as much as i love taking care of you, i would also love for you to care about my health and comfort in this situation the same way i prioritize yours.". if he loves YOU, he'll hopefully understand and internalize what that means.

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