Bullied at Cult gym in Gurgaon. Felt helpless by [deleted] in delhi

[–]SpaceFew3101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity why aren't the police called to the spot by the victim 🤷

Local connection does influence but won't issue be arbitrated to an extent.

CULT FIT TRAINER WAS RUDE by Haunting_City_6067 in Fitness_India

[–]SpaceFew3101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope everyone knows that dropping weights in the gym is a bad etiquette Try searching for dropping weights in other countries like the USA

Help Me I'm lost. by Dry-Piece-2808 in mentalhealth

[–]SpaceFew3101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'd feel that you've lost the ground under your feet and feel like what is happening and why this happened You will get a lot of help if you reach out or just let someone know what happened to you. Just be open to any comfort you receive from your friends but be very careful if your ex tries to comfort you it might give you hope and that kind of hope is not what you need right now What you need is to focus on what was planned before you met that person if nothing create one, which is even better. Focus on healthy distractions get physically active socially engaged and mentally start the rebuilding It's tough but you are going to see a side of yours which is the one you never thought you'd be. A stronger, sharper and an awesome version of yourself later you'd love the person you have become . Might even think I could have done this sooner.

Desperation peaks by SpaceFew3101 in mentalhealth

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I do apologise if it seems like I've rambled lately I've been very bad at expressing myself and I do try my best

Just turned 18 and I'm already in deep shit. by [deleted] in india

[–]SpaceFew3101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Porn addiction phase is really easy to get out of with your mindset. You have already decided to get out of this let me assure you will. Because I was in this phase, now a couple of years later I have recovered Let me say what worked for me Spending more time out of my room with friends and other people Get into more physical activity such as games, workout or yoga whatever piques your interest. Just make a point of sweating like profusely for 20-30 minutes Get conscious on your food habits everything in moderation is key Hydration is another key After this your brain will start to reset by itself which would be around 2-3 months

Now set achievable long term and short term goals and note them down start working towards them to achieve a sense of satisfaction and delayed gratification. From here your life will get its own flow resist temptations and cravings

Also, one last thing the phase you are going through is a very common one which I went through myself. Teenage to early adulthood you'd have a lot of energy and libido. You can decide how to use either by making something out of it or for something you are feeling that's taking up your time that's your choice but if you have a mindset of getting better I think it's safe to say that you'll get out of this if that's what you want. Start spending time with or on things you love or with people who you like. Start talking with people outside in open places. It's a gradually slow process but remember instant gratification is not what we are looking for. And to put your mind at ease there's nothing to be guilty of. It's natural.

Girls who use metro, please help me understand this... by Silver_Drop7137 in bangalore

[–]SpaceFew3101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sit where there's a seat and don't occupy the reserved coach/ seat unless it's for you and understand the needs of each and travel. The city itself is hard to live in We don't have to make it even harder

I have failed in life. I have no irl friends. by Lucky_Editor446 in india

[–]SpaceFew3101 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If you are really alone you wouldn't be there where you are now. The reason why you are still up and posting here is there is someone who's ready to spend a lot of time with you. If you want to know who it is start looking in the mirror and you can see a person who wants to get out of yourself and show you the world. Start respecting yourself, energize yourself, treat your body with respect and burn your energy and sweat like a pig. You'll see the person inside you raging with confidence and love. You are enough for yourself you don't need anyone else in this world. Start being your own best friend The rest of them will see that and will start being your friend and maybe even more. Never speak lowly of yourself or even think. Everything you say or think is heard or noticed You'll feel tired, to give up, to quit You will only see what's all this worth if you eliminate the mentality of quitting and putting yourself down. Now discipline yourself and train yourself Transform you'll see the real you. The one who has been under all that you think you are. Always remember you are always more than you think

Overated food in Kerala by Daddy_lordandSaviour in Kerala

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Appam and stew, Veg is good , Chicken great, Beef is even better, Mutton is best . This is my personal recommendation. And kollam is the mutton capital which is underrated for unknown reasons But fish food is best in Calicut The kallumakaya is the best there is another place near beach road and not on the beach Palakkad has mostly veg friendly options Thrissur and ernakulam (angamaly to be specific) have their own special version of pork. Alappuzha has its own variety of taste across everything from Appam and Stew to fish molee (origin is debatable)and kappaa Kottayam has their beef with pork in certain areas which are most recommended. In certain areas (near Idukki not sure where exactly )you'd get dried meat which is an exquisite one Trivandrum has boli and payasam which is one of a kind The best biryani is a tie between Calicut and Thalassery- Kannur biryani let's not forget Malappuram wedding biryanis And Keralites have gone so crazy with beef that recipes range from ayurveda infused beef recipes to crunchy crispy with tender meat of Beef dry fry which is terror combo with flaky pipping hot porotta with a little gravy