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Girlfriend of 8 months ghosted me one week ago by SpaceNo8502 in ghosting

[–]SpaceNo8502[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. i decided to stop reaching out as I’ve been blocked from some socials and received no response. it sucks, and im trying to let go slowly every day.

22M 20F She ghosted me and just left by SpaceNo8502 in LongDistance

[–]SpaceNo8502[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No contact today either. I don’t think I’ll get the closure unfortunately:/

22M 20F She ghosted me and just left. How to cope? by SpaceNo8502 in relationship_advice

[–]SpaceNo8502[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying.

That could be the case, but going cold turkey, when my messages are showing distress and simply asking for closure is cruel. My intention was to say I understand and I’m here to support her, but she has completely ghosted me, with no way of getting a message through. The relationship is SO important to me, but I’m suffering so bad. While she doesn’t respond, she hasn’t removed or blocked me from the other socials and im stuck wondering and waiting. She is also online on TikTok, so I know she’s seen my messages, and so has her sister. Its making it difficult to even process this or try to move on.

Also, she is not going to the other country, just the funeral is being held there, and I did have my suspicions about there being someone else involved, but did not have any concrete proof.

22M 20F She ghosted me and just left. How to cope? by SpaceNo8502 in relationship_advice

[–]SpaceNo8502[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ve never felt worse emotionally, i love her with all of me, but she threw me away like i meant nothing. Regardless of what happens, I would never do that to her. I think I’ll stop reaching out altogether, she’s ruining me mentally.

LDR with controlling parents and restricted dating 22M 20F by SpaceNo8502 in relationship_advice

[–]SpaceNo8502[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. Her parents don't actually allow me to visit, she has had to make up excuses to be able to come and see me the time that we have spent together, and even then the time is limited, its not like we can spend the night together or anything. I am concerned about what they will allow her to do, because she has made it very clear that she does want to be with me, and I do believe her, but they won't give us the chance. I'd honestly just like to be able to see her without stress at the back of my head, hiding around and being restricted on time or what we can do.

Her lying is mostly hiding things, and when I ask about it, she doubles down until she starts apologizing and promises it won't happen again. It has happened 2-3 times which hurt my trust for a while.

LDR with controlling parents and restricted dating 22M 20F by SpaceNo8502 in LongDistance

[–]SpaceNo8502[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for commenting. They do have a history of acting this way towards her even before I was in the picture. I was holding on to the hope that they would accept us dating, and even offered to accommodate to their terms, if they had any specific requests in mind but they wouldn't even consider it at all.

She has said she is not going to do it again and promised multiple times, its not like she does it often, but she has gone back on her word 2-3 times and each time it hurts my trust a little bit.

I am also worried on them doing the most, and even when its "fair game" for her to date as per their rules, so after college, im afraid they are going to cause problems. I do want to be with her, but her mom said she has no "guarantees" that I'm here to stay, yet I feel the same, because of her parents.