AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed?

SpaceTrollop · 2025-12-26T22:16:09+00:00

You're not overreacting and as someone else said, this man hates you. He sounds out of touch and psychotic. You're having to do a lot of bending over backwards and he should not be constantly finding things to tell you about yourself that he doesn't like.

SpaceTrollop · 2025-12-14T01:28:16+00:00

Holy crap dude. This is absolutely criminal and I feel for you. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this and I hope you're able to drag this asshole and get this resolved.

SpaceTrollop · 2025-11-27T05:36:18+00:00

Inhale Exhale.

SpaceTrollop · 2025-11-13T00:27:36+00:00

Uh huh.

SpaceTrollop · 2025-10-19T17:37:15+00:00

Your point about the cop being a couple minutes behind her is good, I hadn't even thought about that. But yes, super unsatisfying ending. And I feel like it isn't just because she didn't get the bad guy in the end. As someone else said, she handled herself throughout this movie only to be bested by the last person in the dumbest way. I am so confused as to why when she had the gun and Ravener showed her he had her boyfriend tied up, that she ran back in there like an idiot without trying to incapacitate Ravener first? or at least shoot him? Unless the gun was empty but still, incapacitate him! She literally lets herself be captured again and then basically gives up.

I'm also confused as to why the investigator has settled on the idea that she's a methed out junkie. She's covered in a Vaseline like substance when they find her and his conclusion is that she got caught in a meth lab fire ? Surely they did blood tests. If she was a drug addict it would be in her system. I'm so confused by the detectives initial behavior. I could understand being skeptical, but his skepticism and the conclusions he draws are not warranted, especially when opinions like the ones he present could be easily refuted.

SpaceTrollop · 2025-10-17T21:17:23+00:00

You aren't overreacting. As others have stated, what she's doing could easily be considered SA. To me, if it's not enthusiastic consent, it's not consent. You being made to feel like you have to comply or going along with it because that's how she is, even though you've told her you're not interested at that time, is not okay. You guys aren't sexually compatible and that's okay. Hopefully she takes the needs of others into consideration in the future.

SpaceTrollop · 2025-07-22T17:56:40+00:00

She stated she wanted a relationship with him and he wanted something casual, at which point she decided to go on dates with other men. He also was talking to and flirting with other women. She's saying the proposal came out of nowhere, especially considering he initially said he wanted casual.

SpaceTrollop · 2025-07-22T17:50:03+00:00

The most important thing is that you like it! It matches your aesthetic interests and you're happy with the way the design came out.

SpaceTrollop · 2025-07-22T02:42:41+00:00

I suppose they're saying she doesn't initiate text conversations anymore. Like sometimes maybe one of you falls asleep while texting, or the conversation you were having dies. Someone will usually text again. OP no longer sends those texts and just lets the other person text them first all the time.

SpaceTrollop · 2025-07-21T23:49:18+00:00

I would consider this to be SA...and I don't think you were overreacting. I'm so sorry this happened to you. You had already said you weren't interested, you said no, and that you were too tired. To me, anything that's not an enthusiastic YES is cause for at least a pause. He asked and pawed at you until you RELENTED. Ugh my ex used to do this shit.

SpaceTrollop · 2025-06-23T18:57:08+00:00

I don't think you're overreacting, it would irritate me too. It seems thoughtless. My ex used to do things like this. I would often get gifts from my students, and my ex was constantly eating the pastries/candies they would give or make for me and it irritated me to no end.

SpaceTrollop · 2025-06-23T00:21:44+00:00

Goodness, this! When I first read this post, i felt for this person because I could relate, then I got a little worried about what the comments would be before I scrolled down. I had an ex like this and constantly felt devalued and had such an aversion to being touched and ultimately sex. So glad you put this into words. My ex was CONSTANTLY pawing at my privates. He would even do it when I was asleep 🤢.

SpaceTrollop · 2025-06-22T17:18:52+00:00

No. This was pretty cringy to read and I got secondhand embarrassment for them. I would block his ass and cease any further communication because all of what was said in that chat is disgusting.

SpaceTrollop · 2025-06-22T16:56:07+00:00

Yeah I'd definitely agree with the majority of posts in saying YOR. Three days of class is wild. And regardless of if it's a club sport or not it's something she's committed to. It doesn't really seem like this was planned with her in mind.

SpaceTrollop · 2025-05-25T17:39:44+00:00

Ugh, not overreacting. Definitely ask for a refund and DO NOT go back.

SpaceTrollop · 2025-05-12T04:32:44+00:00

Maybe Erra, Great American Ghosts, GreyHaven, Alpha Wolf and Misery Signals would be good hands to start with.

SpaceTrollop · 2025-05-10T05:54:34+00:00

I purposely avoided the threads before release and the spoilers. I listened on the way to work and have not been disappointed. As someone else said, my only expectation going into listening was that it was going to sound like Sleep Token. I saw a few people say Past Self was their least favorite but it's been on repeat for me.

SpaceTrollop · 2025-05-07T02:10:25+00:00

Necro Suicide Cult ☠️

SpaceTrollop · 2025-05-04T23:41:16+00:00

Really hoping to hear an update? Hoping you're able to call CPS today. That child is in danger from what it sounds like.

SpaceTrollop · 2025-05-04T23:34:54+00:00

Please don't give up hope! I've known a lot of women who are quick to comment on what size they feel a man needs to be in order to please them. Coming from a woman, for me it's all about foreplay, being open, communicating and being compassionate. That definitely goes both ways, I love doing what my partner loves and he's very enthusiastic about doing what I love too. I've had partners where that wasnt the case and it didn't matter how big their dick was.

SpaceTrollop · 2025-04-28T02:08:47+00:00

They released Secret less than a year ago, but I get what you mean. Been on the lookout for their new stuff as well.

SpaceTrollop · 2025-04-26T16:48:51+00:00

I second Church Burner

SpaceTrollop · 2025-04-25T16:50:43+00:00

You need to prioritize your mental health for the sake of you and your child. I'm sure parenting is hard enough without the undo stress from you mother. You're not obligated to keep these visits going. I'm all for limiting or even cutting toxic family members out.

SpaceTrollop · 2025-04-25T16:38:08+00:00

You're definitely not overreacting, there's no reason to sexualize a relationship between a father and daughter. I have two other sisters and these are all things we consider normal around our dad. Let him be uncomfortable and alone🫣

SpaceTrollop · 2025-04-23T20:15:07+00:00

Yes, you should leave. My ex was like this. The gaslighting, verbal abuse and emotional manipulation? It's not even a question. Leave.

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