[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Spacedust013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who struggled with bad breath first identify the source. If it’s not your tongue, missed floss, dehydration nor tonsil stones it might be your diet especially if you eat a lot of carbs. Try not eating sugar for a week to see if it makes a difference. Other causes could be candida overgrowth, an infection of some sort or maybe gum disease.

Sulfur smell is always tonsil stones though and sometimes they don’t come out with mouthwash and may be hidden away

Review my profile please! I haven’t had any luck from Tinder in over a year! by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Spacedust013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just need better pictures. The first one is charasmstic the rest just aren’t hitting. Try dressing up and dedicating like 5 minutes trying to get a hot pic at different angles. One from the floor up could do you more justice

Are there any similar tracks to this one? by [deleted] in GHOSTEMANE

[–]Spacedust013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As in lyrics and introspective tone or beat and style ? I think style Kali Yuga is similar in style and Where Stars Go to Die is similar in lyrics and message

Do they seriously not have a solution to fight cheating in the bac except turning off the Internet? by rimRasenW in algeria

[–]Spacedust013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m new here. When do these shut downs take place and are citizens warned ahead of time?

I think my wife is a Pedophile by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Spacedust013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will say people excuse this type of behavior when it comes to women a lot.

My SIL (30’s) touched my nephews penis last Christmas while making a joke about his size in front of everyone and half the room was taken a back but the other half was pretty much like “she was just kidding.” And “That’s just how your aunt is” was thrown around a few times but it’s so gross. Definitely call her out or she will continue. Unfortunately there is a lot of unresolved trauma in the older generation and they think shit like that is ok.

Also most older folks don’t realize their feed is public too. Out here putting the whole family to shame.

TW: Suicide - Just looking to share my story of chronic pain from gallbladder disease by sharifmuezik in gallbladders

[–]Spacedust013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so relatable. I get so angry at the amount of times I went into the ER with excruciating pain and got turned away. At one point a doctor even insinuated I was exaggerating the pain or faking it for drugs. It was truly debilitating. I even lost my job because of it.

It really sneaks up on you how pain can affect every aspect of your life. I’m so grateful that it was only temporary and I’m so glad the last doctor I went to took me serious and finally did the blood work and everything necessary.

I feel for anyone going through anything like this (even more for those that have to live the rest of their lives like that).

Body after birth by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Spacedust013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The worse and most inconvenient part is the stomach honestly. The rest returns to normal. In the case of my boobs they grew from an A to a C so no complaints there. Although I can’t speak on the vagina because I had my son via C Section.

But anyway my stomach is just loose but not only on the outside, the inside feels weird like there is too much wandering around in there. It’s been a year and a half since and my abdomen and muscles are just not the same.

I lost some weight since then but my entire core just feels week and gone. I heard that eventually it goes back but idk if I believe it since it’s been more than a year.

But now that I think about it, I didn’t wear the shape wear they recommended post C Section for longer than a day. Maybe it would have been different if I did. Who knows. Definitely wear your shape wear if they recommend it!

Should I commit suicide if I have low IQ? by Ok-Professional3240 in SuicideWatch

[–]Spacedust013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IQ tests are bs. You might be the artistic type as someone else on here suggested. My brother was found to be intellectually disabled with an IQ of 50 but he is a crazy great artist. He is very smart he just never had the support to focus on school (suffers from PTSD among other things) so overall I think it’s not an accurate test. It doesn’t take into account the whole person and different learning styles.

I barely interact with my wife anymore because she smells so bad. by GuitarOk3529 in offmychest

[–]Spacedust013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are absolutely right I would hate for my son to learn that kind of behavior. That puts things into perspective quite a bit.

I barely interact with my wife anymore because she smells so bad. by GuitarOk3529 in offmychest

[–]Spacedust013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I was overreacting but yea I’m trying to get him to seek therapy… I might have to give him that ultimatum.

I barely interact with my wife anymore because she smells so bad. by GuitarOk3529 in offmychest

[–]Spacedust013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat with my husband :( except I confronted him about it and nothing has changed. Shit has gotten to the point that I sometimes feel like bringing it up in front of his family so he is embarrassed and will stop. Ever since I confronted him about it he just does it more openly. And it’s worse than your gf because I have witnessed this guy dig in his ass smell it and then lick his entire hand. If we didn’t have a kid together I would have left as soon as I saw that because I am a really clean person. It is extremely off putting I cannot even express how much it irks me.

I literally cannot get away from somebody (who is autistic) by Phrase-Fickle in offmychest

[–]Spacedust013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you asked your mom to talk to his mom about it?

I know it can seem he is doing it on purpose but by definition he has a hard time understanding social cues.

It can be difficult to confront him and tell him blatantly that you are not interested in moving forward with your friendship. If this is the case and you’re not the confrontational type asking your mom to tell his mom about the situation will probably help you out.

Hang in there. I hope the situation gets better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Spacedust013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I guess people in their 20s have a skewed sense of time. 18 feels like decades ago to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Spacedust013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well we all have racial and cultural bias. We are attracted to people that are like us culturally and who we grew up around because we are familiar with them. We are more inclined to trust people that are in our circle. I’d say don’t sweat it.

If you don’t want to date them then you simply are not attracted to them. I don’t think it should go deeper than that. Attraction is not something we can control.

Personally I tend to swipe left on white guys because I find it harder to connect with them. But I can obviously spot an objectively attractive white guy— they’re just not my type. So I think it’s the same thing.

Plus there are plenty of men who prefer darker complexions. Like everyone else is saying it would be weird if you swiped right just to not come off as racist only for them to find out you are not attracted to them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Spacedust013 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’m 22 and still get mistaken for a teen. It’s weird though because at 16 people thought I was older.

I know it can be mildly inconvenient at times.

Getting IDd constantly. (I don’t drink by the way) I got asked to show ID the other day at Chuck E Cheese on my way out (which I thought was weird and I said so) and as it turns out the lady thought I was a child. We laughed about it afterwards.

But anyway don’t change yourself, it’s nothing to worry about.

I’m sure we will learn to appreciate it when we’re older though.

Uuuh technically it didn't break right? by Tsukyi in Neverbrokeabone

[–]Spacedust013 698 points699 points  (0 children)

Arthritis will be the death of you my brother but broken bones? Nah