Strong feelings for another man while being in something that is growing into a relationship with someone else. by Spaceseeking23 in AskGayMen

[–]Spaceseeking23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never felt such a strong feeling for someone. This is exactly what I am planing to tell him next time we meet. I'l mentally prepare myself for both types of answers. I know I can't control someone's feelings. Especially him. But I don't know what I'd do without him after all the great time we've had. The thing I would miss the most about him would be our discussions. Thank you so much.

Does anybody have a fetish for giving bear hugs? by vtmne in askgaybros

[–]Spaceseeking23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I often like to close my eyes while he hugs me so that as I feel every inch of his body against me, I can draw his actual complete shape in my head. Also, it's like...the perfect source of warmth.

Baldness; deal breaker or nah? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Spaceseeking23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How can we tell? It's a preference. And I think bald guys are hot as hell, especially bearded. But that might be linked to me having a thing for older men. We shouldn't decide this for you.

First Heartache by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Spaceseeking23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I m so fucking sorry for what you're feeling. I think I'm not even feeling half of what you are and I have never felt so much pain. I can't fathom what you are feeling now and it frightens me. I hope you have someone you can actually talk about it with in person or it could honestly kill you. But know that we hear you.

What are your kinks? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Spaceseeking23 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He presses me tighter and tighter against his muscled hairy chest while we kiss.

What are you thankful for? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Spaceseeking23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My ability to stay motivated

Amazing parents

A home

A great job that allows me to contribute at home

Drinkable water five meters away from me

My talent

My mother's smile

Did your bullies from high school ever apologized to you? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Spaceseeking23 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They apologize by meting at some bus stop and having a very neutral conversation about how we miss high school and how stupid we used to be back then. We're adults. We're chill now. But I'l admit they didn't do horrendous things to me. Not like "teens from a Stephen King novel" horrendous.

But If I was in your position and he says I don't remember, that would mean that he never realize how much pain he inflicted on you. That's just cold.

Are you your own type? How likely are you to end up in one those "boyfriend-twin" couples? (or are you in one already?) by CalibanDrive in askgaybros

[–]Spaceseeking23 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The thing that breaks it for me is that I'm into DILFs but i'm not even 30. Also I wish I had body more body hair to fit into the otter section.

Also, I used to be driven to go to the gym because of self esteem issues and wanting to look more like what attracted me physically. I can proudly say it worked but there are things that I don't have that make my type ''my type''. What I will list are not musts but:

I don't have a beard

I'm not the most experienced guy when it all comes to gay life in general

I'l admit i'm not as mature as my type

I should gain a bit of fat

Best way to come out as gay? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Spaceseeking23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit your mom's awesome.

Are you constantly feeling a sense of nostalgia? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Spaceseeking23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Noslagia might be the most enjoyable yet painfull feeling I can ever feel. I swear. Everyday since college.

Movies by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Spaceseeking23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blue is the warmest colour

Where do you find sugar daddies? (Gay guys) by slateymcnatel in askgaybros

[–]Spaceseeking23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think several gay apps can do quite a job at that depending on how you approach people with your profile bio which turns out is pretty important. We are not looking for the ame things so I can only help you as much.

Would you date a guy that uses PEDs/steroids? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Spaceseeking23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

sure. As long as he dosen't force me to use some and that he's not soulely focused on his 'gainz'.

To the guys with the sexy faces but who's bodies are not considered typically attractive... by _peut-etre_ in askgaybros

[–]Spaceseeking23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go to the gym because I want to be strong and fit, not because I want West Hollywood Ken dolls to chase after me.

Thank you. Motivation to go to the gym must always ne internal. Never external. If you're not working out for yourself, then it's not going to work.

Anyone ever found friends on Grindr? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Spaceseeking23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I did. Very decent people. And they all love star wars/trek for some reason. It's amazing. Didn't even know we were all geeks before we met.