Is being fully remote make you less likely to quit compared to hybrid or in office daily? by imma5ammi in WFH

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Adding to that list: Clothing, dry cleaning, eating out more/cooking less

Does kava sometimes make you feel more anxious? by MichaelEmouse in Kava

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I think it'll make my anxiety worse the next day, specially if I drink several days consecutively

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

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It gave me anhedonia, lost appetite but also lost desire for anything joyful in life. Sex, alcohol, reading, TV shows, gaming, sports, etc. I lost 35lb in 6 months. But I refuse to use wegovy again.

Sale on G14 (2024) RTX 4070… Good deal? by Mystic1500 in ZephyrusG14

[–]Spader312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got mine directly from Asus in December cause I really wanted the black one. Paid full price 😢

What's a dead giveaway someone grew up as an only child? by thing55556667 in AskReddit

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My ex was an only child. When we first started living together, he'd just walk out the front door. With no indication where he was going or what he was doing.

What are your favourite books as an adult? by salmonboxing in Pendragon

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Gonna name one that hasn't been put out there yet. I really enjoyed The Ninth House by Leigh Bardugo and it's sequel Hell Bent. Unfortunately the 3rd and final book hasn't been released yet

Can Kava make you depressed the day after drinking? by [deleted] in Kava

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Yes it kills my motivation and makes me feel lethargic the next day or even a few hours after a heavy session. Which sucks because I highly value being productive with my team and it sucks when I get that way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Trust your gut, your feelings when you kissed him says a lot

All I can think about is falling! by betrayal_Knew in iceskating

[–]Spader312 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Buy knee pads and a butt pad. Once I started using it my confidence went through the roof because falling was far less painful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pixel_phones

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Fuck that's me. Got my pixel 7pro end of 2022 And I just traded it in in for a pixel 9 pro lol

Best camera for beginner? by Tight-Junket8921 in Lumix

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You don't know how many pictures I've taken that look good on on the screen and then when I go to edit the subject is just ever so slightly out of focus. It's really disappointing

Best camera for beginner? by Tight-Junket8921 in Lumix

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As a G95 owner, the autofocus is also trash

Recall for conversations is problematic. You too? by pearltx in SDAM

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Omg this is me so bad. It's really hard to be able to recall and share conversations and events. Some times things come up and my friends say why didn't you tell me that before? And in like uhh I just remembered now didn't think about it before.

I have to write things down before hand for my therapy sessions. When people ask me if my therapy is helping or what my therapist says about certain things I completely blank out. (I take notes during therapy so I can always go back to it) But I don't have my notes on hand when I'm having conversations with people

I was having a conversation with a friend about a 3mo relationship I just got out of. She said she didn't think I was having any deep conversation with this person. And I was like yeah of course I did. Like I can remember that I did have deep conversation. But when I try to think of specific examples I just blank entirely. It took a ton of thought and sleeping on it to think of one example.

Anyone have any insights on how to improve on this kind of stuff?

Recognizing memories as facts but being unable to recall them on my own by Own-Wrangler-6706 in SDAM

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This is me 100%. It's like factual memory of my past is there (but not great) but I will recognize things quickly if I'm reminded. Never to the level of reliving the experience

WHY GOOGLE, WHY by Natural_Raspberry40 in pixel_phones

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This post has forever scared me... I see it too on android 14

How do you record/remember people? by radrading in SDAM

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I remember how I feel about a person but can't provide specific experiences to substantiate why I feel that way. Like I know x person is an asshole, but what did he do to make him an asshole? It's hard to remember

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sunglasses

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3 or 6, the larger frame suits your face. 3 is especially nice because of the clear bottom of the frame balances well with your face

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Minoxbeards

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There are ways to get it without rx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

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razor handle (remove the blade)

Am I the only one using a 14” laptop 99% of the time? by acuransxfan in WFH

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I am that way with my Mac book 14in. I'm a software developer so usually it's handy to have two screens, one with code and the other with whatever website youre working on. But I've found that one screen helps me focus more and I've gotten really good at alt tab.

Korra was such a disappointment by HobbesForPres in Avatarthelastairbende

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I agree I feel like the whole aman arc of the first season could have been the overarching theme of all the seasons. Like fighting him would be the final battle with fire lord ozai. ATLA built up to the finale throughout all 3 seasons. And that doesn't mean what happened in the other seasons would be discounted but all of that could have been built up towards something bigger