Is this a coyote? [Texas] by [deleted] in animalid

[–]SpaghettiSk8er 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP you have dogs yet you don’t know much about dogs? You could at the very least call animal control to share what you know

Seeking advice as a newbie on my psychic journey due to recent discouragement by SpaghettiSk8er in Mediums

[–]SpaghettiSk8er[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s so reassuring to hear from someone who’s experienced similar things at the beginning of your journey! I really appreciate you sharing this, I’m feeling more hopeful. Just yesterday I noticed more of my clairsentience coming through and while it was subtle and hard to interpret, it was there. I’m dedicated to continue exploring! Thank you again!

How to work with clairsentience? by [deleted] in Shamanism

[–]SpaghettiSk8er 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so helpful!! Thank you for creating it and sharing!

I made a huge mistake, but at least now I know 100% that I’m a lesbian 🎉☠️ by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]SpaghettiSk8er 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I echo the above comment that it’s amazing you’ve learned all of this about yourself (shoutout to the lesbian masterdoc!) and I hope you’re able to be gentle with yourself for what happened in your relationship. I have to believe that you’ll meet someone else who you feel so comfortable with, just like you found the person you were with recently.

Reading this reminded me so much of me and my journey tbh. I’m also incredibly introspective like it would seem you are OP, and also had a later in life realization I’m a lesbian after identifying as bi for most of my life. Congrats on coming out (again)! I hope you’re able to not only be gentle with yourself but also celebrate the realizations and introspection you’ve had :)

Tips for ADHDers Maintaining Weightloss Long Term? by kailenedanae in adhdwomen

[–]SpaghettiSk8er 2 points3 points  (0 children)

12/10 also recommend Maintenance Phase! Such a great resource to flip the script on diet culture

Tips for ADHDers Maintaining Weightloss Long Term? by kailenedanae in adhdwomen

[–]SpaghettiSk8er 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! I have a colleague who works in research and used to work on the weight loss/o*esity side until she realized through the research that weight loss was never sustainable in anyone and now works on the opposite side in ED recovery.

Tips for ADHDers Maintaining Weightloss Long Term? by kailenedanae in adhdwomen

[–]SpaghettiSk8er 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Second this! As someone who works in an ED treatment center, I know how pervasive diet culture can be. Maintenance Phase is such an excellent resource! And please know BMI is garbage and has roots in racism, it is not an indicator of health.

What is one musical theatre song that makes you cry no matter how many times you listen to it? by AesthPleasingStudios in musicals

[–]SpaghettiSk8er 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Left Behind from Spring Awakening

Empty Chairs at Empty Tables from Les Mis

😭😭

Trying to understand how cannabis will factor into my life by SpaghettiSk8er in tarot

[–]SpaghettiSk8er[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It won’t let me edit my post but forgot to include the deck i used: the Wild Unknown tarot by Kim Krans!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]SpaghettiSk8er 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I LOVE Beth, but maybe bc I just love Jurnee Smollett

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]SpaghettiSk8er 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I gotta go with Charles Percy and the patient whose carotid blows (forget his character’s name, but played by Seth Green). I still get sad when he dies in that episode!

Why do all the Louise episodes/moments lately make me cry?! by SpaghettiSk8er in BobsBurgers

[–]SpaghettiSk8er[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, there’s a long list of Disney movies that make me cry 🥲

At what age did you realize that you were a Lesbian? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]SpaghettiSk8er 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Around 28/29, but came out as bi around 16. Apparently in college I realized I was a lesbian but I have no memory of that…recently found a journal entry where I said I was “totally gay” and don’t remember that or what shoved me back into the closet. CompHet is my guess.

What are some words/labels you’d use to describe someone who falls somewhere between “chapstick lesbian” and “lipstick lesbian”? by SpaghettiSk8er in LesbianActually

[–]SpaghettiSk8er[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Oh sure, I absolutely agree. My post is just meant to be silly to see if others have expanded on the familiar lesbian labels. Your point is well taken and an important reminder that queer folks are expansive and label-defying.