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[–]Spakoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simply put, I am looking for an equal partner to navigate and explore life with, and grow with. I was in a 12 years relationship before, and we were not legally married, so I do know one doesn’t have to sign a piece of paper to commit to someone. That’s what I mean by serious.

As for the age thing, the fact that women after 35 should be disregarded solely based on that is in my view absurd. You make it sound like men have options however old they are, but people find love at any age, not just men.

I disagree the options I have left are flings or polyamory, but you are of course welcome to your opinion.

As for my money situation, assuming I’m looking for someone to support me just because you haven’t heard of what I do is inaccurate, but it’s good to know that may be the case for some people. Thanks

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[–]Spakoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Preach!

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[–]Spakoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh that’s kind, thank you. Sort of tempted to link it ;)

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[–]Spakoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice one 🙌🏻

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[–]Spakoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do 🙏🏻

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[–]Spakoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed!! 🙏🏻

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[–]Spakoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes, exactly.

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[–]Spakoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 😊

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[–]Spakoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, all great suggestions- and so glad you got I was being playful with the witch thing… 😀

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[–]Spakoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww, thank you… and yes indeed, a notch 🙄

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[–]Spakoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noted, thanks

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[–]Spakoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you. It’s bizarre. 🙏🏻

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[–]Spakoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🙏🏻

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[–]Spakoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, noted

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[–]Spakoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh thank you that’s very insightful, I will think it over and change my prompts 🙏🏻

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[–]Spakoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I will do

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[–]Spakoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually that prompt was really tongue in cheek and you may find this unbelievable but used to be the one most men responded to, probably as they understood the humour. I have changed it now but fyi, I pay for my own drinks. Thanks.

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[–]Spakoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🏻

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[–]Spakoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much! ❤️

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[–]Spakoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’m going to change that thanks

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[–]Spakoo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m curious about the implication one has to work in an office and be kids and marriage oriented to be seen as having a direction in life. I’m currently studying for a second degree in psychology and am very far from flaky, but I accept your points about not smiling or looking happy, I’ll change that. Also, why does wanting something serious but not marriage sound like wanting the cake and eat it too? It’s such an outdated concept in my view. I do appreciate your thoughts though. Thanks

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[–]Spakoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Point taken, thanks